She cheated on me with her ex, I called it off about 2 weeks, she kept calling me crying and bugging me give her chance.She even showed at my apartment. I've had a chat with her last weekend, I've told her that I dont want to take any further. She agreed.
I wanna move on. I just dont know how. I have no close friends, she was my best and closest friend I had.. All of sudden I feel lonely. please help.Broke up with my girlfriend, cant recover..?
You have to remember why you dumped her and how you would feel dealing with that if you have stayed. You move on because she simply didnt love you.Broke up with my girlfriend, cant recover..?
You have to realize that she cheated on you. Honestly, i wouldn't wanna be with someone like that, screw her for doing that to you. Unless my partner promised me with all his heart and soul and proved it in a lie-detector test, I wouldn't give them another chance. Talk to a counselor, your parents, or anyone about it. I'm sure they can help you. Good luck.
I know what your going through. It sucks. You have to get yourself together and start living again. Of course, your hurt and you have to allow yourself time to grieve over this...but eventually you get youself back out there. You make new friends, you talk to old friends. Your family can help you smile. Just don't allow yourself to crawl into a dark abyss. You keep your head up, and know that their are good people out there that will not hurt you. One day, you'll find the person your meant for. It's inevitable.
Aight guy this is what u gotta do.. go out... get out of your house and get that h0e out of ur mind bro... find another sleep with them and ull be good
Friday, August 20, 2010
How to make my girlfriend break up with me?
is there anyway you can make your girlfriend breakup with youHow to make my girlfriend break up with me?
Quit playing f*cking games and break up with her. Be a man!How to make my girlfriend break up with me?
first of all, the easiest way to break up with a girl is to BREAK UP WITH HER!!!!!!! don't be lazy, do it yourself. but if, for some strange reason you need her to break it to you, act like a jerk, or cheat on her, or something. but if there is any way around doing that to her, that would be your best option. it's wrong to manipulate her emotions (and possibly another girl's, if you take the cheating route) just so she would break it to you.
Do things to piss her off.
Like never answer the phone when she calls or have another girl answer the phone. Start acting immature or tell her you cheated on her and the girl is pregnant. Make hate you and your friends always hang out with your friends more than you do with her and when she comes around make her hate being there because you and your friends act like jerks.
Well you can call her names
be rude
cheating always works
hit on her best friend
talk about her parents
tell her she looks fat and needs to loose weight
tell her that some other girl looks hot today
ignore her
get it around that you are thinking about breaking up with her
don't answer her calls
don't call her
alot of stuff! or you could just break up with her and save her pain!
why don't u just break up with her? But if u would really want to know...
Find out what ticks her off and do exactley that
Start hangin with her less and start hangin with ur friends to make her think that she is less important than them
When she talks to you pretend ur listening then when she's done talkin say ';oh srry what did u say';
And don't just sundenly start doing these things bc then u will make her feel bad so gradually start doing these things
why? can you at least nicely break up with her? Be a man and own up to why you can't be together anymore.
-Tell her why you can't date her.
-DO NOT say you want to be friends, even if you want to. Let her heal first. Then attempt to make friends.
-DO NOT give false hope. Like saying ';right now'; or ';bad timing';. Even if you mean it, you leave her hanging.
And of course, do not lie.
cheers
be the true jerk that you are twards her.........well actually she still might not break up with you ...thatll just make her cry. PLEASE DONT TRY TO DO THE ';MAKE HER BREAK UP WITH ME'; TACTIC....just tell her in the nicest way possible that you want to end the relationship, and tell her the truth why. That way she can accept it and move on!!! If you do the other tactic, she will always wonder...What happened to you? What happened to the relationship? BLAH BLAH BLAH...So just do it the right way!!
Okay
1. If you don't want to be with her, you break up with her
2. If she still likes you, she's not gonna break up with you
3. You can't MAKE her break up with you
4. If you don't want to be with her, you break up with her!!!
Don't cheat on her don't be a pig be a man go to her sit down with her talk to her what you want to say hug her say you always can be friends if you want and walk away and don't be a pig and do staff like cheating or staff like that that's not a man
i know you dont want her to feel sad.
but it'll end up worse than you plan if you avoid doing it yourself.
i know that you dont want to hear that,but it has to be a simple ';i dont think we should be together anymore.';
You don't want to do that. Break up with her so you don't get a bad reputation, because that kinda stuff spreads like wildfire. You wanna break up with her, you don't want to look like an ***.
like be rude or when ur hanging out with her have a girl like a sister cousin or just a friend call and pretend to be ur girlfriend it really p*sses them off my ex did that to me and it got me to breakup with him right away
if you don't wanna date her anymore just tell her, sometime they will forgive you for the things you did and still won't let you leave so just tell her that you wanna end it.
Why don't you just break-up with her? duh.
If you are too much of a child to do that then you could be REALLY gross or be a total a$$.
Don't cheat on her or do anything to hurt her though.
WTF!!! don't chicken out, if you want to break up with your girlfriend, you have to break up with her! not the other way around!
break up with her i mean sure you might not want to hurt her but still doing crap like cheating on her and ignoring her are still gonna hurt her so you might as well do it yourself.
break up with her.
orrr if you really dont wanna do that,
if she doesnt like clingy be realllly clingy.. that creeps alotta girls out
or stop talking to her and when you do talk to her be reallly short like sound mad almost
kay just saying that your a dbagg and just like dont respond and or why dont you just break up with her but let her down easy.
okay why dont you just break up with her?
tricking her into breaking up with you i just cruel just break up with her!
Break up with her that would be the mature thing to do.
But if you just can't cheat on her.
dump hers th man thing to do..or gross her out or put someone lses bra in her draw ok maybee ive been wwatching to much tv but oohh well give it a try:D
be an @ss! or cheat on her...but if you dont like her i would just break up with her and not make her break up with you
Be a man and break up with her.
Yeah of course, but why would you want that?
Don't be yourself.
Act like a d-bag...
There are many different ways.
have your cousin or sister or something who is a girl call and pretend to be yor gf
Check out the movie ';How To Lose A Guy In Ten Days'; great ideas
clearly you don't respect your girlfriend to be asking this
tell her about this question!!
That should do the trick
break up with her yourself
uh...make her cry.....WORKS FOR ME^^ but most of the time i want it but dont try to lol
y...and....
act like a slob
dont call
dont respond
ignore
stuff like that...bt thats mean...still it works
Quit playing f*cking games and break up with her. Be a man!How to make my girlfriend break up with me?
first of all, the easiest way to break up with a girl is to BREAK UP WITH HER!!!!!!! don't be lazy, do it yourself. but if, for some strange reason you need her to break it to you, act like a jerk, or cheat on her, or something. but if there is any way around doing that to her, that would be your best option. it's wrong to manipulate her emotions (and possibly another girl's, if you take the cheating route) just so she would break it to you.
Do things to piss her off.
Like never answer the phone when she calls or have another girl answer the phone. Start acting immature or tell her you cheated on her and the girl is pregnant. Make hate you and your friends always hang out with your friends more than you do with her and when she comes around make her hate being there because you and your friends act like jerks.
Well you can call her names
be rude
cheating always works
hit on her best friend
talk about her parents
tell her she looks fat and needs to loose weight
tell her that some other girl looks hot today
ignore her
get it around that you are thinking about breaking up with her
don't answer her calls
don't call her
alot of stuff! or you could just break up with her and save her pain!
why don't u just break up with her? But if u would really want to know...
Find out what ticks her off and do exactley that
Start hangin with her less and start hangin with ur friends to make her think that she is less important than them
When she talks to you pretend ur listening then when she's done talkin say ';oh srry what did u say';
And don't just sundenly start doing these things bc then u will make her feel bad so gradually start doing these things
why? can you at least nicely break up with her? Be a man and own up to why you can't be together anymore.
-Tell her why you can't date her.
-DO NOT say you want to be friends, even if you want to. Let her heal first. Then attempt to make friends.
-DO NOT give false hope. Like saying ';right now'; or ';bad timing';. Even if you mean it, you leave her hanging.
And of course, do not lie.
cheers
be the true jerk that you are twards her.........well actually she still might not break up with you ...thatll just make her cry. PLEASE DONT TRY TO DO THE ';MAKE HER BREAK UP WITH ME'; TACTIC....just tell her in the nicest way possible that you want to end the relationship, and tell her the truth why. That way she can accept it and move on!!! If you do the other tactic, she will always wonder...What happened to you? What happened to the relationship? BLAH BLAH BLAH...So just do it the right way!!
Okay
1. If you don't want to be with her, you break up with her
2. If she still likes you, she's not gonna break up with you
3. You can't MAKE her break up with you
4. If you don't want to be with her, you break up with her!!!
Don't cheat on her don't be a pig be a man go to her sit down with her talk to her what you want to say hug her say you always can be friends if you want and walk away and don't be a pig and do staff like cheating or staff like that that's not a man
i know you dont want her to feel sad.
but it'll end up worse than you plan if you avoid doing it yourself.
i know that you dont want to hear that,but it has to be a simple ';i dont think we should be together anymore.';
You don't want to do that. Break up with her so you don't get a bad reputation, because that kinda stuff spreads like wildfire. You wanna break up with her, you don't want to look like an ***.
like be rude or when ur hanging out with her have a girl like a sister cousin or just a friend call and pretend to be ur girlfriend it really p*sses them off my ex did that to me and it got me to breakup with him right away
if you don't wanna date her anymore just tell her, sometime they will forgive you for the things you did and still won't let you leave so just tell her that you wanna end it.
Why don't you just break-up with her? duh.
If you are too much of a child to do that then you could be REALLY gross or be a total a$$.
Don't cheat on her or do anything to hurt her though.
WTF!!! don't chicken out, if you want to break up with your girlfriend, you have to break up with her! not the other way around!
break up with her i mean sure you might not want to hurt her but still doing crap like cheating on her and ignoring her are still gonna hurt her so you might as well do it yourself.
break up with her.
orrr if you really dont wanna do that,
if she doesnt like clingy be realllly clingy.. that creeps alotta girls out
or stop talking to her and when you do talk to her be reallly short like sound mad almost
kay just saying that your a dbagg and just like dont respond and or why dont you just break up with her but let her down easy.
okay why dont you just break up with her?
tricking her into breaking up with you i just cruel just break up with her!
Break up with her that would be the mature thing to do.
But if you just can't cheat on her.
dump hers th man thing to do..or gross her out or put someone lses bra in her draw ok maybee ive been wwatching to much tv but oohh well give it a try:D
be an @ss! or cheat on her...but if you dont like her i would just break up with her and not make her break up with you
Be a man and break up with her.
Yeah of course, but why would you want that?
Don't be yourself.
Act like a d-bag...
There are many different ways.
have your cousin or sister or something who is a girl call and pretend to be yor gf
Check out the movie ';How To Lose A Guy In Ten Days'; great ideas
clearly you don't respect your girlfriend to be asking this
tell her about this question!!
That should do the trick
break up with her yourself
uh...make her cry.....WORKS FOR ME^^ but most of the time i want it but dont try to lol
y...and....
act like a slob
dont call
dont respond
ignore
stuff like that...bt thats mean...still it works
How do i break up with my Girlfriend who lives with me and depends completely on me.
I've lost complete interest in her.. its been 7 years and the sex is still the same. I';m in love with her brain but i'm going insane with the fake sex. How many guys do you know who fake orgasm... Well i'm one
She lives with me and i'll have to tell her to leave she is in college and only has a part time job. Her family is hopleless and destitute and she will have no where to go. I on the other hand have a good job buy all the food and have a great network of family. I will literally be putting her life in shambles she worships ever inch of me and it is far beyond unhealthly. I have made sure she lived a painless laughter filled life for all these years but i cannot continue anymore. Help me please what is the best action to let her go?How do i break up with my Girlfriend who lives with me and depends completely on me.
If you're in love with her brain but just bored in the bedroom, tell her. Maybe things will change. Everyone gets bored in their relationship, you both have to work to keep it interesting.
But if you just really don't want to be with her anymore, tell her you're sorry but it's just not right anymore. Tell her you care about her and will do what you can to help her make the transition. Let her know you love her as a person, but it's not fair to lead her on, that somewhere along the way, she became a friend.
She'll be hurt, she'll be mad. She'll ask you what she's supposed to do, where she's supposed to go. Tell her you'll figure it out with her, that you're not trying to kick her out. Don't make arrangements for her, she needs to learn to take care of herself.
How old are y'all?How do i break up with my Girlfriend who lives with me and depends completely on me.
Well you can break up with her and then allow her continue living there for 30 days. In that time she can find somewhere else to live, maybe find a better job etc. If you know this is going to be putting her in such a messed up situation then you can support her %26amp; help her along the way like helping her pack, move, find another place etc.
well is it just the sex..or do you definitely not want to be with her anymore? maybe you do need to spice it up if sex is the only problem..but if youre not into the relationship at all anymore then its done. i know you'll probably feel bad but a relationship is 2 sided and you gotta do whats best for u..just talk to her, i mean u can tell her u'll always be there for her as a friend or something but you just growing apart or something.
sounds like you just need something to spice up the relationship.
The guy taking care of her before you probably believed the same thing.
I would love to tell you to be a 'heartless bastard' and just throw her out, but that isn't my style either. Perhaps the best move would be to move her out slowly by making sure that she is coming into contact with a lot of potential new caretakers. She probably wouldn't risk what you are offering her but it's a weak solution.
I think the best answer is to just communicate your situation with her. Let her know that you still want to see that she is okay but that it is destroying you to keep taking care of her. Let her know that she needs to move on and let you move on.
One word of advice, if she moves on and succeeds beyond what you ever expected of her.....don't be jealous or hateful.
After 3 years, a smart girl would have been saving a stash for a rainy day. You gave her 7. You don't owe her anything, but since you are a nice guy, here's what you do.
Warn her. Tell her you're ready to move on. Give her 6 months to stabilize. Help her find an small apartment. Hey even pay the first month for her. Help her move her things- all the while remaining calm and kind. It'll go smoother than you think.
Okay me and my boyfriend live together it's only been two months and everything is going good in our relationship so far the sex is great cuz i cud tell if he fake it. I do the cooking, the cleaning, etc. but he wanted to do the cleaning but i don't want him do that but he's paying all the bills he don't want me pay any but all am trying to say that even through you taking care of her and everything from the break you should of told her that you was faking the sex. All you need to do is show her how she could spice up yall sex life take her to the lingerine store and tell her but position you want her to go in and so on. But don't walk out on seven years that's a lot of years you two put in the relationship so give it a try and work it out.
She lives with me and i'll have to tell her to leave she is in college and only has a part time job. Her family is hopleless and destitute and she will have no where to go. I on the other hand have a good job buy all the food and have a great network of family. I will literally be putting her life in shambles she worships ever inch of me and it is far beyond unhealthly. I have made sure she lived a painless laughter filled life for all these years but i cannot continue anymore. Help me please what is the best action to let her go?How do i break up with my Girlfriend who lives with me and depends completely on me.
If you're in love with her brain but just bored in the bedroom, tell her. Maybe things will change. Everyone gets bored in their relationship, you both have to work to keep it interesting.
But if you just really don't want to be with her anymore, tell her you're sorry but it's just not right anymore. Tell her you care about her and will do what you can to help her make the transition. Let her know you love her as a person, but it's not fair to lead her on, that somewhere along the way, she became a friend.
She'll be hurt, she'll be mad. She'll ask you what she's supposed to do, where she's supposed to go. Tell her you'll figure it out with her, that you're not trying to kick her out. Don't make arrangements for her, she needs to learn to take care of herself.
How old are y'all?How do i break up with my Girlfriend who lives with me and depends completely on me.
Well you can break up with her and then allow her continue living there for 30 days. In that time she can find somewhere else to live, maybe find a better job etc. If you know this is going to be putting her in such a messed up situation then you can support her %26amp; help her along the way like helping her pack, move, find another place etc.
well is it just the sex..or do you definitely not want to be with her anymore? maybe you do need to spice it up if sex is the only problem..but if youre not into the relationship at all anymore then its done. i know you'll probably feel bad but a relationship is 2 sided and you gotta do whats best for u..just talk to her, i mean u can tell her u'll always be there for her as a friend or something but you just growing apart or something.
sounds like you just need something to spice up the relationship.
The guy taking care of her before you probably believed the same thing.
I would love to tell you to be a 'heartless bastard' and just throw her out, but that isn't my style either. Perhaps the best move would be to move her out slowly by making sure that she is coming into contact with a lot of potential new caretakers. She probably wouldn't risk what you are offering her but it's a weak solution.
I think the best answer is to just communicate your situation with her. Let her know that you still want to see that she is okay but that it is destroying you to keep taking care of her. Let her know that she needs to move on and let you move on.
One word of advice, if she moves on and succeeds beyond what you ever expected of her.....don't be jealous or hateful.
After 3 years, a smart girl would have been saving a stash for a rainy day. You gave her 7. You don't owe her anything, but since you are a nice guy, here's what you do.
Warn her. Tell her you're ready to move on. Give her 6 months to stabilize. Help her find an small apartment. Hey even pay the first month for her. Help her move her things- all the while remaining calm and kind. It'll go smoother than you think.
Okay me and my boyfriend live together it's only been two months and everything is going good in our relationship so far the sex is great cuz i cud tell if he fake it. I do the cooking, the cleaning, etc. but he wanted to do the cleaning but i don't want him do that but he's paying all the bills he don't want me pay any but all am trying to say that even through you taking care of her and everything from the break you should of told her that you was faking the sex. All you need to do is show her how she could spice up yall sex life take her to the lingerine store and tell her but position you want her to go in and so on. But don't walk out on seven years that's a lot of years you two put in the relationship so give it a try and work it out.
How do I get a guy to break up with his girlfriend for me?
I know that sounds bad, but I really like him.
I like him a lot, and that is unusual for me because I'm independent.
He likes me. We always flirt and we talk on the phone and in person for hours.
His girlfriend has cheated on him multiple times, and you can tell that he is unhappy, but he won't break up with her.
Why?
I want him to.
He's always telling me how he loves talking to me and stuff.
I just want him to break up with her.
Is there a possibility that he will?How do I get a guy to break up with his girlfriend for me?
Well, it seems like he understands the concept of loyalty.
You just need to make him understand that she doesn't deserve his...How do I get a guy to break up with his girlfriend for me?
i was in the same situation just his girlfriend is a ***** and can't even say she loves him when he tells me he loves me and i CAN say it back. i hooked up with him while he was going out with someone. be smart unlike me and dont do that. all you can do it let him know he can do better and be happy.
YOu waited this long, wait some more.
Don't try to force anything because than, it won't really be him making the decision but him being forced to do something. It sounds like he is pretty attached to this person, and it really is up to him to make that decision. Sweeping a person away from their problems doesn't always solve the problem. He needs to realize for himself what to do-AND DO IT!
Maybe.... if shes cheated on him.... tell him that he deserves better
Look, he is with her for a reason. You can't make him break up with her, he'll do that when he is ready. Don't make him break up with her because of you, you never know he might break up with you because of someone else. Don't do to others what you don't want done to you.
Forcing him to have sex with you would be the silver bullet.
Regards,
Brandon
Obviously, if his girlfriend has cheated on him numerous times and he is still with her, he is not going to break up with her right now. Obviously he really loves her. I would not hold my breath for that to happen. If he is miserable in the relationship he would leave. You could try telling him that he shouldn't be treated like that but You can't get him to break up with her.
It isn't your buisness to break them up... but you can explain to him how you feel. Say to him ';look if you want to stay with her than that is your personal choice and i just want you to be happy. But i really care about you and i don't feel this way about guys often so i know it means something. I'm not trying to steal you away from your gf but i feel like i could make you happier than she does. I can't force you to do anything and i'm not going to sabotage your relationship but i want you to know how i feel so you can make up your own mind.';
hmm.. you may be independent... but do you want to be in the man relay reace? she's got him now, and he... passively, will be slapped into your palm.. that is, until the next girl comes along.
it seems like maybe he's testing out the waters. maybe he's scared to be by himself... making him a little codependent. not a terribly cute match.
i don't believe you can make him do anything. if he's unhappy, he'd leave or change it... ';piss or get off the pot';, I say. but if he's just hanging with you a lot and boo hooing about how bad things are... you are his emotional babysitter while he's anxiously awaiting her return from her rut
well since ';His girlfriend has cheated on him multiple times'; then u can do whatever with him........just give the bro head ma....itll all work out for the best
Get your own guy.
Don't steal them.
I like him a lot, and that is unusual for me because I'm independent.
He likes me. We always flirt and we talk on the phone and in person for hours.
His girlfriend has cheated on him multiple times, and you can tell that he is unhappy, but he won't break up with her.
Why?
I want him to.
He's always telling me how he loves talking to me and stuff.
I just want him to break up with her.
Is there a possibility that he will?How do I get a guy to break up with his girlfriend for me?
Well, it seems like he understands the concept of loyalty.
You just need to make him understand that she doesn't deserve his...How do I get a guy to break up with his girlfriend for me?
i was in the same situation just his girlfriend is a ***** and can't even say she loves him when he tells me he loves me and i CAN say it back. i hooked up with him while he was going out with someone. be smart unlike me and dont do that. all you can do it let him know he can do better and be happy.
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YOu waited this long, wait some more.
Don't try to force anything because than, it won't really be him making the decision but him being forced to do something. It sounds like he is pretty attached to this person, and it really is up to him to make that decision. Sweeping a person away from their problems doesn't always solve the problem. He needs to realize for himself what to do-AND DO IT!
Maybe.... if shes cheated on him.... tell him that he deserves better
Look, he is with her for a reason. You can't make him break up with her, he'll do that when he is ready. Don't make him break up with her because of you, you never know he might break up with you because of someone else. Don't do to others what you don't want done to you.
Forcing him to have sex with you would be the silver bullet.
Regards,
Brandon
Obviously, if his girlfriend has cheated on him numerous times and he is still with her, he is not going to break up with her right now. Obviously he really loves her. I would not hold my breath for that to happen. If he is miserable in the relationship he would leave. You could try telling him that he shouldn't be treated like that but You can't get him to break up with her.
It isn't your buisness to break them up... but you can explain to him how you feel. Say to him ';look if you want to stay with her than that is your personal choice and i just want you to be happy. But i really care about you and i don't feel this way about guys often so i know it means something. I'm not trying to steal you away from your gf but i feel like i could make you happier than she does. I can't force you to do anything and i'm not going to sabotage your relationship but i want you to know how i feel so you can make up your own mind.';
hmm.. you may be independent... but do you want to be in the man relay reace? she's got him now, and he... passively, will be slapped into your palm.. that is, until the next girl comes along.
it seems like maybe he's testing out the waters. maybe he's scared to be by himself... making him a little codependent. not a terribly cute match.
i don't believe you can make him do anything. if he's unhappy, he'd leave or change it... ';piss or get off the pot';, I say. but if he's just hanging with you a lot and boo hooing about how bad things are... you are his emotional babysitter while he's anxiously awaiting her return from her rut
well since ';His girlfriend has cheated on him multiple times'; then u can do whatever with him........just give the bro head ma....itll all work out for the best
Get your own guy.
Don't steal them.
How do you get guys to break up with their girlfriends?
There is this guy, and him and his girlfriend broke up about 2 months ago. But they are 'friends with benefits' (they are still sleeping together) A couple of weeks ago, this guy and I hooked up - and we have been talking allot ever since, and he seems to like me.. But he's still got this other girl. I really like him and dont know what to d?How do you get guys to break up with their girlfriends?
deal with it. obviously you knew about it... sooo suffer teh consequences. hes jsut hornyHow do you get guys to break up with their girlfriends?
He's a player. He more than likely just wants sex. Don't waste your time.
deal with it. obviously you knew about it... sooo suffer teh consequences. hes jsut hornyHow do you get guys to break up with their girlfriends?
He's a player. He more than likely just wants sex. Don't waste your time.
How do you get a possibly suicidal girlfriend to break up with you?
I have been with this one girl for a couple years now. We are engaged too. I care about her a lot but I am just not feeling right in the relationship anymore. She is prone to depression and can't seem to control her emotions. She also complains a lot and seems to care mainly about her problems than mine. But she is a sweet girl and I do care about her. But some time ago I have met another girl that is amazing, she is kind, caring, sweet, she doesn't do anything mean to me and has told me many times that she never wants to hurt me (emotionally that is). I am really falling for her more than the first girl. I tried to get her to break up with me by being less loving seeming, but she started getting suicidal saying she will kill herself if she can't have me. I thought she left me, but she now is happier again and thinks everything is fine. So anyway, I really want to be with the second girl, how can I get the first to break up with me without her killing herself?
Serious answers only!!How do you get a possibly suicidal girlfriend to break up with you?
I think you need to tell the second girl. Have her help you out because she may be able to talk to her. Or you can get in touch with one of the girl's friends and explain to her what's going on so she can help out her friend. As for you, you definitely need to get out of that relationship because the suicidal girl is using your emotions to make you stay because she is insecure herself. I hope my suggestions help.How do you get a possibly suicidal girlfriend to break up with you?
There are two words for what your girlfriend is doing to you.
Control and manipulation.
You cannot control what she will or will not do. And you should not live your life to placate someone else. You will only become resentful and bitter.
Break up with her. Sweetly, gently, tell her you will always be friends but you don't want to continue being her romantic partner.
If she threatens suicide again, tell her you hope she won't because she a good person but that you can't stop her if she really wants to.
I bet you $100 that she won't do a damn thing except call your cell every hour for the next two weeks.
sometimes us girls will pull the stupid ';i need you, if i dont have u, i will kill myself'; it isnt serious, if it worries you, you should maybe help her get help, but the other girl seems to be the one you should be with.
hope all goes well.
First of all, you must remember that God did not put you on earth to make others happy. Happiness is an individual responsibility. Secondly, you should not stay with someone just because you feel bad or are concerned about how she will react. Thirdly, you have put yourself in a really sticky situation by being engaged to her and finding another girl. You need to be honest with EVERYONE, including yourself. If you want out, sit your GF down and tell her that you love her, but you are not in love with her. She is going to be emotional, maybe even distraught. You may want to let her parents or friends know so that she can get the support she needs.
It is going to be bad at first, but in the end, everyone will be happier. Good luck!
You need to be honest with the girl, but be nice and tell her that there are more guys out there that will want to be with her. You can't stay with her just because of this. She doesn't own you and you don't owe her anything. Just let her down easy, and expect her to take it as an adult.
Do something that she doesn't like. If it is her who decides to end the relationship, it will work out.
EDIT
I'm not trying to be cruel, this is obviously one relationship which will not work. You just have to do something against her principles, not necessarily something that would hurt her.
This is tough to answer. Try to find your first girl someone that she would care more then you.
first you need to get over the need for her to need you so bad and also realize she is controlling you with this behavior. she knows your stepping out on her and this is her way of keeping you under her thumb. if she was serious about killing herself, she would have done it with or without you being with her. i say, go with what makes you happiest and you can't go wrong. you'll never be able to control her, only your reaction to her, and honey- your giving her all the power. if she is seeing a psychiatrist for her depression- call him or her and set up a little chit chat, just the two of you. tell the psychiatrist what your going through and they'll probably tell you the same thing- she's manipulating you and your letting her get away with it.
Okay, this is very hard but you will have to make a decision.
I'm sure you are very concerned about your first girl, but she needs help. She is making you feel guilty but you are being an enabler. She needs professional help, and you are not licensed to do that. If she is suicidal (as you say she is), and you care about her, then go to her parents, her minister, a counselor, or someone that can get the help she needs.
Sometimes people say things like that because they want your attention. Maybe she knows that you are seeing someone else. If she does, you need to be very careful that she doesn't find out. I'm not trying to frighten you but she could come and hurt you and your new girl. And what a tragedy that would be. She's calling out for help. And my question is ';why are you engaged if you're seeing someone else?'; You need to let someone go. Don't be selfish. You can't save the world. I know this sounds harsh, but you need to do something before things comes to a head, and that could be tragic.
Sometimes people say that will commit suicide as a ploy to hold on to someone. YOU NEED TO GET SOME SERIOUS PROFESSIONAL HELP NOW! Or you can sit your first girl down and tell her that you love her but you are concerned about how she is feeling. If she loves you like she says she does, then she will be willing to get the help she needs. Don't beat yourself up trying to figure out what to do. Just do something NOW!
If something should happen you don't want to carry around the guilt that you could have done something for her. I don't know your age, but I can tell you that life is too short to be with someone that you don't love. Don't make your life miserable too. It's not worth it. I know I sound as though I'm be tough, but sometimes ';TOUGH LOVE'; is what's needed.
If you have parents, speak to them and see if they know someone that can help you and your girl. You should not be in another relationship right now. You haven't cleaned up your old one, and it's called a rebound relationship. Don't take your old feelings and feed them on someone else until you have clean hands from the old one.
Think about it and do the right thing. If this ';new girl'; likes you, she'll be around when the smoke clears.
Good luck. Hope this helps.hair growth internet explorer
Serious answers only!!How do you get a possibly suicidal girlfriend to break up with you?
I think you need to tell the second girl. Have her help you out because she may be able to talk to her. Or you can get in touch with one of the girl's friends and explain to her what's going on so she can help out her friend. As for you, you definitely need to get out of that relationship because the suicidal girl is using your emotions to make you stay because she is insecure herself. I hope my suggestions help.How do you get a possibly suicidal girlfriend to break up with you?
There are two words for what your girlfriend is doing to you.
Control and manipulation.
You cannot control what she will or will not do. And you should not live your life to placate someone else. You will only become resentful and bitter.
Break up with her. Sweetly, gently, tell her you will always be friends but you don't want to continue being her romantic partner.
If she threatens suicide again, tell her you hope she won't because she a good person but that you can't stop her if she really wants to.
I bet you $100 that she won't do a damn thing except call your cell every hour for the next two weeks.
sometimes us girls will pull the stupid ';i need you, if i dont have u, i will kill myself'; it isnt serious, if it worries you, you should maybe help her get help, but the other girl seems to be the one you should be with.
hope all goes well.
First of all, you must remember that God did not put you on earth to make others happy. Happiness is an individual responsibility. Secondly, you should not stay with someone just because you feel bad or are concerned about how she will react. Thirdly, you have put yourself in a really sticky situation by being engaged to her and finding another girl. You need to be honest with EVERYONE, including yourself. If you want out, sit your GF down and tell her that you love her, but you are not in love with her. She is going to be emotional, maybe even distraught. You may want to let her parents or friends know so that she can get the support she needs.
It is going to be bad at first, but in the end, everyone will be happier. Good luck!
You need to be honest with the girl, but be nice and tell her that there are more guys out there that will want to be with her. You can't stay with her just because of this. She doesn't own you and you don't owe her anything. Just let her down easy, and expect her to take it as an adult.
Do something that she doesn't like. If it is her who decides to end the relationship, it will work out.
EDIT
I'm not trying to be cruel, this is obviously one relationship which will not work. You just have to do something against her principles, not necessarily something that would hurt her.
This is tough to answer. Try to find your first girl someone that she would care more then you.
first you need to get over the need for her to need you so bad and also realize she is controlling you with this behavior. she knows your stepping out on her and this is her way of keeping you under her thumb. if she was serious about killing herself, she would have done it with or without you being with her. i say, go with what makes you happiest and you can't go wrong. you'll never be able to control her, only your reaction to her, and honey- your giving her all the power. if she is seeing a psychiatrist for her depression- call him or her and set up a little chit chat, just the two of you. tell the psychiatrist what your going through and they'll probably tell you the same thing- she's manipulating you and your letting her get away with it.
Okay, this is very hard but you will have to make a decision.
I'm sure you are very concerned about your first girl, but she needs help. She is making you feel guilty but you are being an enabler. She needs professional help, and you are not licensed to do that. If she is suicidal (as you say she is), and you care about her, then go to her parents, her minister, a counselor, or someone that can get the help she needs.
Sometimes people say things like that because they want your attention. Maybe she knows that you are seeing someone else. If she does, you need to be very careful that she doesn't find out. I'm not trying to frighten you but she could come and hurt you and your new girl. And what a tragedy that would be. She's calling out for help. And my question is ';why are you engaged if you're seeing someone else?'; You need to let someone go. Don't be selfish. You can't save the world. I know this sounds harsh, but you need to do something before things comes to a head, and that could be tragic.
Sometimes people say that will commit suicide as a ploy to hold on to someone. YOU NEED TO GET SOME SERIOUS PROFESSIONAL HELP NOW! Or you can sit your first girl down and tell her that you love her but you are concerned about how she is feeling. If she loves you like she says she does, then she will be willing to get the help she needs. Don't beat yourself up trying to figure out what to do. Just do something NOW!
If something should happen you don't want to carry around the guilt that you could have done something for her. I don't know your age, but I can tell you that life is too short to be with someone that you don't love. Don't make your life miserable too. It's not worth it. I know I sound as though I'm be tough, but sometimes ';TOUGH LOVE'; is what's needed.
If you have parents, speak to them and see if they know someone that can help you and your girl. You should not be in another relationship right now. You haven't cleaned up your old one, and it's called a rebound relationship. Don't take your old feelings and feed them on someone else until you have clean hands from the old one.
Think about it and do the right thing. If this ';new girl'; likes you, she'll be around when the smoke clears.
Good luck. Hope this helps.
How can i possibly break up with my girlfriend of six years?
well ive been with this koo girl for 6 years and i need a change we been dating since freshman year in college and im just not fealing it anymore. I honestly dont know how it will be possible to break up with her, i can just see how bad it will be, like i cant see myself doing this to someone, but i need tooHow can i possibly break up with my girlfriend of six years?
you cant be with her if you dont love her after six years!
jus tell her how you feel, and maybe she feels the same,
who knows!
Good luckHow can i possibly break up with my girlfriend of six years?
Go ahead and waste six years. How do you think it's gonna be when you get married? That's what's wrong with you men. You find a good woman and you settle down and then later on down the line you claim that you've lost feelings. Well I hope you never plan to get married, because love isn't about feelings, it's about sharing and caring for that other person. When you enter a relationship it's not about just you anymore. So go ahead, be selfish and break it off and try and find something better only to find that the same thing is going to happen.
Why aren't you feeling it anymore? Is it because you are starting to get curious about other women? I have seen this happen where a guy that was madly in love weeks later says her wants for break up only to figure out months later he made the biggest mistake of his like. At that point it was to late to go back to his old flame because she found someone else. If you can live with this you need to break this news to her in person not over the phone or a letter email etc. Tell her you need some time to yourself. I can't say it is going to be easy but you only have one life to live and you have to make it right for yourself.
Man this is hard . 6 years with someone means going through a lot together. The main thing you feel is guilty to leave her ,i mean you feel pity for her . How she wil be without you?
Well i think there is no reason to continue if you don't feel anymore. that will be like living with someone in black and white. Before doing that get to analyze a lot of things. In a relation ship there are ups and down. Sometimes there are periods that we might feel cold and without knowing the factors and sometimes there are times where we feel more affectionate. Also look at the chances that you have to find another girl at the same level or better than her. The problem is that there are a lot of pretty women out there but we don't know with which kind we gonna deal with and remember that you will be dealing with a total different person. So if your breaking up do it in front of her and tell her the truth and don't show weakness after 2 weeks or after she will be with someone else to want her back. You will gonna end up hurting her more. Just be sure and wish you good luck in life.
i agree with rachel. i am in the same situation, but the only way i got out of it was because we got into a huge fight :/ but all i can say is try to do it nicely and tell her you need a break just to figure out what you are doing in your life. tell her that you are worried about the future and you need to have some time to yourself for awhile and it should be ok. but if you are going to do this, dont start dating anyone right away, just in case :) good luck
Breakups are a hard part of life, ESPECIALLY if you two were together for so long. Sometimes the sparks just die and one has to move on.
You should do it in person, and be honest but compassionate and caring. Just tell her that you've come to a point in your life where you need some change. It's going to hurt and be really tough, but it's a nessicarry thing if you just aren't feeling it anymore. Good luck, man.
If you feel that you need to do this then you need to sit her down somewhere and be upfront and completely honest. Maybe you need a break from her for a little while to get your head around things first. either way, you need to tell her properly. Not crappy stuff like over the phone or a letter thats just not manly.
Hope all goes well and good luck
Just tell her you two need to talk, that way she can kind of get a hint. Let her know how the past 6 years have been for you, but that you can't continue on with the relationship b/c you want to experience somethingelse or that you just feel both of you aren't as close as before. If its meant to be then either you will come back or she will.
Hey jay :)
ill share my opinion with you. :)
I have never been with anyone for so long but Six years is a long time and i guess when you have spent such a long time together you get used to it, because you have shared so much of your life with one another. But in my oppinion if you really no in yourself that it is not the right thing to be with her and that you are making this decision for all the right reasons then it would be best to follow your heart. because i think it would be worse to stay in a relationship for all the wrong reasons , it mite lead to something worse or something, if you get what i mean. recently i was thinking about braking up with my partner but i took a few days to really weigh up and i decided that it was for all the wrong reasons. I also no of someone who had a gf for nearly as long as you and he said at the time it was one of the hardest decisions he had ever had to make but now he is happy. We all only have one chance of life and we can only take charge of that life ourselves so it might as well be a happy one
So you're saying you want to throw 6 years of your life away. That's a lot of time to just waste on someone.
You must care about her so, be yourself, tell her the truth. Because, if she knows you and she probably does...she'll know you're lying. Who knows, she might be feeling the same way.
try and make her not like you anymore and maybe she will feel the need to break up with you. i say this because most girls are really emotional and think they like you so much but then they'll get over it eventually and feel it just wasn't right.
Be completely honest about your feelings. All a girl wants is honesty. Then no answer can tell you how it will work out. But be honest about how you feel and you'll get best results. If you were with her for six years she will be understanding. Good Luck :)
just tell her that u arnt in for long relationships unless u r sure u love the girl and she just isnt for u and u dont want to cheat on her and so u decided that u need to break up tell that to her
tell her exacly what you feels,she desirves to know.be honest but nice.
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6 years, ouch.
talk to her about how you feel instead of just ending it.
good luck
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You will really break her heart. so just say ';Babe, do u think its time to start dating other people?'; thats the best thing.
Just be like I am sorry but its over because I am not feeling it anymore. I rather be friends because I need a change.
Yes, you shouldn't stay with someone out of guilt. Just make sure you don't blow her off completely.
do things random things that u no would tick her off then she'll break up w/ u and u could ask if u could still b friends
just sit her down and talk to her who knows maybe she whants to break up with u too
let her know threw a text message...
let her down gentle but be sure you want to let her go...:-(
you cant be with her if you dont love her after six years!
jus tell her how you feel, and maybe she feels the same,
who knows!
Good luckHow can i possibly break up with my girlfriend of six years?
Go ahead and waste six years. How do you think it's gonna be when you get married? That's what's wrong with you men. You find a good woman and you settle down and then later on down the line you claim that you've lost feelings. Well I hope you never plan to get married, because love isn't about feelings, it's about sharing and caring for that other person. When you enter a relationship it's not about just you anymore. So go ahead, be selfish and break it off and try and find something better only to find that the same thing is going to happen.
Why aren't you feeling it anymore? Is it because you are starting to get curious about other women? I have seen this happen where a guy that was madly in love weeks later says her wants for break up only to figure out months later he made the biggest mistake of his like. At that point it was to late to go back to his old flame because she found someone else. If you can live with this you need to break this news to her in person not over the phone or a letter email etc. Tell her you need some time to yourself. I can't say it is going to be easy but you only have one life to live and you have to make it right for yourself.
Man this is hard . 6 years with someone means going through a lot together. The main thing you feel is guilty to leave her ,i mean you feel pity for her . How she wil be without you?
Well i think there is no reason to continue if you don't feel anymore. that will be like living with someone in black and white. Before doing that get to analyze a lot of things. In a relation ship there are ups and down. Sometimes there are periods that we might feel cold and without knowing the factors and sometimes there are times where we feel more affectionate. Also look at the chances that you have to find another girl at the same level or better than her. The problem is that there are a lot of pretty women out there but we don't know with which kind we gonna deal with and remember that you will be dealing with a total different person. So if your breaking up do it in front of her and tell her the truth and don't show weakness after 2 weeks or after she will be with someone else to want her back. You will gonna end up hurting her more. Just be sure and wish you good luck in life.
i agree with rachel. i am in the same situation, but the only way i got out of it was because we got into a huge fight :/ but all i can say is try to do it nicely and tell her you need a break just to figure out what you are doing in your life. tell her that you are worried about the future and you need to have some time to yourself for awhile and it should be ok. but if you are going to do this, dont start dating anyone right away, just in case :) good luck
Breakups are a hard part of life, ESPECIALLY if you two were together for so long. Sometimes the sparks just die and one has to move on.
You should do it in person, and be honest but compassionate and caring. Just tell her that you've come to a point in your life where you need some change. It's going to hurt and be really tough, but it's a nessicarry thing if you just aren't feeling it anymore. Good luck, man.
If you feel that you need to do this then you need to sit her down somewhere and be upfront and completely honest. Maybe you need a break from her for a little while to get your head around things first. either way, you need to tell her properly. Not crappy stuff like over the phone or a letter thats just not manly.
Hope all goes well and good luck
Just tell her you two need to talk, that way she can kind of get a hint. Let her know how the past 6 years have been for you, but that you can't continue on with the relationship b/c you want to experience somethingelse or that you just feel both of you aren't as close as before. If its meant to be then either you will come back or she will.
Hey jay :)
ill share my opinion with you. :)
I have never been with anyone for so long but Six years is a long time and i guess when you have spent such a long time together you get used to it, because you have shared so much of your life with one another. But in my oppinion if you really no in yourself that it is not the right thing to be with her and that you are making this decision for all the right reasons then it would be best to follow your heart. because i think it would be worse to stay in a relationship for all the wrong reasons , it mite lead to something worse or something, if you get what i mean. recently i was thinking about braking up with my partner but i took a few days to really weigh up and i decided that it was for all the wrong reasons. I also no of someone who had a gf for nearly as long as you and he said at the time it was one of the hardest decisions he had ever had to make but now he is happy. We all only have one chance of life and we can only take charge of that life ourselves so it might as well be a happy one
So you're saying you want to throw 6 years of your life away. That's a lot of time to just waste on someone.
You must care about her so, be yourself, tell her the truth. Because, if she knows you and she probably does...she'll know you're lying. Who knows, she might be feeling the same way.
try and make her not like you anymore and maybe she will feel the need to break up with you. i say this because most girls are really emotional and think they like you so much but then they'll get over it eventually and feel it just wasn't right.
Be completely honest about your feelings. All a girl wants is honesty. Then no answer can tell you how it will work out. But be honest about how you feel and you'll get best results. If you were with her for six years she will be understanding. Good Luck :)
just tell her that u arnt in for long relationships unless u r sure u love the girl and she just isnt for u and u dont want to cheat on her and so u decided that u need to break up tell that to her
tell her exacly what you feels,she desirves to know.be honest but nice.
HELP ME? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
6 years, ouch.
talk to her about how you feel instead of just ending it.
good luck
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20091119155353AASucoB
You will really break her heart. so just say ';Babe, do u think its time to start dating other people?'; thats the best thing.
Just be like I am sorry but its over because I am not feeling it anymore. I rather be friends because I need a change.
Yes, you shouldn't stay with someone out of guilt. Just make sure you don't blow her off completely.
do things random things that u no would tick her off then she'll break up w/ u and u could ask if u could still b friends
just sit her down and talk to her who knows maybe she whants to break up with u too
let her know threw a text message...
let her down gentle but be sure you want to let her go...:-(
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