How can i possibly break up with my girlfriend of six years?

well ive been with this koo girl for 6 years and i need a change we been dating since freshman year in college and im just not fealing it anymore. I honestly dont know how it will be possible to break up with her, i can just see how bad it will be, like i cant see myself doing this to someone, but i need tooHow can i possibly break up with my girlfriend of six years?
you cant be with her if you dont love her after six years!


jus tell her how you feel, and maybe she feels the same,


who knows!


Good luckHow can i possibly break up with my girlfriend of six years?
Go ahead and waste six years. How do you think it's gonna be when you get married? That's what's wrong with you men. You find a good woman and you settle down and then later on down the line you claim that you've lost feelings. Well I hope you never plan to get married, because love isn't about feelings, it's about sharing and caring for that other person. When you enter a relationship it's not about just you anymore. So go ahead, be selfish and break it off and try and find something better only to find that the same thing is going to happen.
Why aren't you feeling it anymore? Is it because you are starting to get curious about other women? I have seen this happen where a guy that was madly in love weeks later says her wants for break up only to figure out months later he made the biggest mistake of his like. At that point it was to late to go back to his old flame because she found someone else. If you can live with this you need to break this news to her in person not over the phone or a letter email etc. Tell her you need some time to yourself. I can't say it is going to be easy but you only have one life to live and you have to make it right for yourself.
Man this is hard . 6 years with someone means going through a lot together. The main thing you feel is guilty to leave her ,i mean you feel pity for her . How she wil be without you?


Well i think there is no reason to continue if you don't feel anymore. that will be like living with someone in black and white. Before doing that get to analyze a lot of things. In a relation ship there are ups and down. Sometimes there are periods that we might feel cold and without knowing the factors and sometimes there are times where we feel more affectionate. Also look at the chances that you have to find another girl at the same level or better than her. The problem is that there are a lot of pretty women out there but we don't know with which kind we gonna deal with and remember that you will be dealing with a total different person. So if your breaking up do it in front of her and tell her the truth and don't show weakness after 2 weeks or after she will be with someone else to want her back. You will gonna end up hurting her more. Just be sure and wish you good luck in life.
i agree with rachel. i am in the same situation, but the only way i got out of it was because we got into a huge fight :/ but all i can say is try to do it nicely and tell her you need a break just to figure out what you are doing in your life. tell her that you are worried about the future and you need to have some time to yourself for awhile and it should be ok. but if you are going to do this, dont start dating anyone right away, just in case :) good luck
Breakups are a hard part of life, ESPECIALLY if you two were together for so long. Sometimes the sparks just die and one has to move on.


You should do it in person, and be honest but compassionate and caring. Just tell her that you've come to a point in your life where you need some change. It's going to hurt and be really tough, but it's a nessicarry thing if you just aren't feeling it anymore. Good luck, man.
If you feel that you need to do this then you need to sit her down somewhere and be upfront and completely honest. Maybe you need a break from her for a little while to get your head around things first. either way, you need to tell her properly. Not crappy stuff like over the phone or a letter thats just not manly.


Hope all goes well and good luck
Just tell her you two need to talk, that way she can kind of get a hint. Let her know how the past 6 years have been for you, but that you can't continue on with the relationship b/c you want to experience somethingelse or that you just feel both of you aren't as close as before. If its meant to be then either you will come back or she will.
Hey jay :)








ill share my opinion with you. :)





I have never been with anyone for so long but Six years is a long time and i guess when you have spent such a long time together you get used to it, because you have shared so much of your life with one another. But in my oppinion if you really no in yourself that it is not the right thing to be with her and that you are making this decision for all the right reasons then it would be best to follow your heart. because i think it would be worse to stay in a relationship for all the wrong reasons , it mite lead to something worse or something, if you get what i mean. recently i was thinking about braking up with my partner but i took a few days to really weigh up and i decided that it was for all the wrong reasons. I also no of someone who had a gf for nearly as long as you and he said at the time it was one of the hardest decisions he had ever had to make but now he is happy. We all only have one chance of life and we can only take charge of that life ourselves so it might as well be a happy one
So you're saying you want to throw 6 years of your life away. That's a lot of time to just waste on someone.





You must care about her so, be yourself, tell her the truth. Because, if she knows you and she probably does...she'll know you're lying. Who knows, she might be feeling the same way.
try and make her not like you anymore and maybe she will feel the need to break up with you. i say this because most girls are really emotional and think they like you so much but then they'll get over it eventually and feel it just wasn't right.
Be completely honest about your feelings. All a girl wants is honesty. Then no answer can tell you how it will work out. But be honest about how you feel and you'll get best results. If you were with her for six years she will be understanding. Good Luck :)
just tell her that u arnt in for long relationships unless u r sure u love the girl and she just isnt for u and u dont want to cheat on her and so u decided that u need to break up tell that to her
tell her exacly what you feels,she desirves to know.be honest but nice.





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6 years, ouch.





talk to her about how you feel instead of just ending it.





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You will really break her heart. so just say ';Babe, do u think its time to start dating other people?'; thats the best thing.
Just be like I am sorry but its over because I am not feeling it anymore. I rather be friends because I need a change.
Yes, you shouldn't stay with someone out of guilt. Just make sure you don't blow her off completely.
do things random things that u no would tick her off then she'll break up w/ u and u could ask if u could still b friends
just sit her down and talk to her who knows maybe she whants to break up with u too
let her know threw a text message...
let her down gentle but be sure you want to let her go...:-(