What do I say to break up with my girlfriend on the phone?

I'm just not into her anymore. I feel like I really should break up with her since I have no interest in her and we haven't hung out in almost two weeks. It will be at least another week since I'm going to the beach again tomorrow. So I feel as though I should get it oer with rather than drag it on so I can do it in person.





It's her first relationship so I'm not sure how she's going to react too.What do I say to break up with my girlfriend on the phone?
Phone break ups are lame but I can't say that I haven't done it that way :(.





How long have you been with her? Have you guys talked a lot during these past two weeks, because she might be ready too or she probably expects it. So you should do it right away so she doesn't keep stressing.





You should tell her that you feel like you would like to be friends with her but you would rather not be in a relationship. Don't tell her that you don't want a relationship right now, because since it's her first relationship, she might think, hey, you might want one in a month. Don't lead her on. Just be honest but nice. After you tell her, give her a few weeks before you try talking to her as a friend (if you plan on doing that). You want her to have time away from you so she can get over it also.What do I say to break up with my girlfriend on the phone?
you are right for breaking up with her if there is nothin there anymore, but you said it yourself it is her first relationship... DONT BREAK UP WITH HER THRU THE PHONE.. do you really want to give her the impression that guys are ******* even tho it is sum what true nowadays, you dont want her to think that about you, if you want to remain mutual you should break up with her in person she will respect you a lot more and know that you are still the great guy she fell for, as for her reacting to it, there is nothing you can really do, she will learn how to deal with it, just giv her some space and time. =)
Do not tell her over the phone..bad idea. Since your her first..you need to talk to her and be straight up. Tell her to meet you somewhere where their is not much people in case there's a conflict meaning..how she may react after telling her. So that way you can talk to her and tell her how you feel..hopefully she's not a stalker though!! Telling her over the phone is not what a girl would like to get dumped..i mean..what goes around comes back to you..!!!


Good Luck!!!
Well my advice is you shouldnt over the phone, but i know how you feel when you think the best thing is to get it over with..so dont be rude. Just say that you have enjoyed the time that you have spent with her but that you think things have changed, and you would rather just be friends..That you just dont think its working out anymore.





Being its her first relationship she may seem pretty crushed..but dont worry, she'll get over it and maybe you guys can be friends.





Just be nice!
DON'T do it on the phone


that's sooo cold


it's almost like your saying ';I'm over you so I don't really care about your feelings'; and if you don't want to come off that way then even though you don't want to drag it on you should tell her in person


it's like saying ';I don't like you that way anymore but I do care about you in a friend way';
you cant do it over the phone, becuase that will break her heart even more than anything, and dont even think about sending her a txt message....just wait until you see her again and by the way, its summer bud she cant always be there to hang out with just you, she has family and friends... so just give it a while and if you still really want to then say it to her face..... Be a man
dont do it on the phone because then she will feel like crap after that. you have to do it face to face because then she will know that its truely coming from u and so u can confort her after the break up and say that you just wanna be friends and nothing else because ur not ready to take it to the next level with her. so hope this helps.
Breaking up on the phone is tacky and it shows just how tacky you may be. [hopefully you're not] Break up with her in person. Tell her that you just don't love her like you thought you did and say that you would still really like to be friends. :]
Breaking up with someone over the phone is just terrible. You should just get up the gumption to say what you need to in person. Of course she will be upset about that, but she will at least have respect for you later, instead of hatred.
coward.





break up with her face to face.


you're just afraid to see her reaction.





well....everyone has to go through heartbreak at least once in their lives. like you said: it's her first relationship.


it most certainly wont be her last...





just meet up with her and get it over with.
Wow. It's really not cool to break up with a girl over the phone or via text. By it being her first relationship it will just crush her. Have the common courtesy to meet up with her in a neutral place and just let her know.
doing on the phone is not a great idea. it is really mean sending a text messge to ur gf.


i think u should talk to her


in perosn so she can understand.


tell her ur not in to her. i hope she will understand. telll her that u can meet new ppl and enjoy life. i hope this works!





good luck!





thanks!
Be a man and break up face to face and be honest from the get go and why u wanted to talk to her!


You just don't simply break up over the phone or text!!! Thats just rude, silly and wrong. You just wanna be enemies do ya? Be a man and respectful!!
I know someone who's boyfriend broke up with them on the phone. She felt REALLY insulted. It was like not only did he not like her as his girlfriend anymore, but she felt like he was a heartless freak who didn't care about her feelings at all.
Why can't you just see her before you go? If you care at all about hurting her feelings, then you should do it in person. Even if you do need to wait another week.
don't break up with her over the phone. That's worse than in person. Even if its her first relationship, its better for her to hear it in person. Don't worry she'll move on.
she'll hate you if you do it over the phone! in person is always best. as it is her first, unless she thinks you should break up, she wont handle it well!
';We hardly ever see each other, and I just think we should be friends until we can find more time to hang out.';





she'll ***** for a while, but all girls do.


tell her you're sorry afterwards.


yah.
That's a cop out. If you're too weak to do it in person, then you y0u are too weak to be of any value to any girl!!!
You really should break up in person instead of over the phone. Don't be a jerk. It might come back to haunt you.
Tell her you like alot but just not in a boyfriend -girlfriend way %26amp; you dont think it would be fair to not tell her %26amp; not let her find soneone that would be as in to her as she desevers
well, then be a man and tell her to her face no over the phone. It makes you look weak. She is gonna cry and be mad but eventually get over it
wait till she calls you and be like ';Listen I just don't think that this thing we have will workout. I'm just not that into you anymore sorry'; and wait till she hangs up!
hey if ur her first bf she wont no that breaking up over the fone is bad , do it man ! iv dont it via text b4 , that was a new low il admit that
im scum so i should break up with you on the phone
Always is good talk in person! Be hones but try to talk her nicely!
It's better (more polite) to break up in person. Keep it short and to the point. Good luck.
just call her and say i am breaking up with you then hang up
Don't do it over the phone.
YOU DONT.





dont do it on the phone. thats so lame and disrespectful.
Tell her you're dying