She cheated on me with her ex, I called it off about 2 weeks, she kept calling me crying and bugging me give her chance.She even showed at my apartment. I've had a chat with her last weekend, I've told her that I dont want to take any further. She agreed.
I wanna move on. I just dont know how. I have no close friends, she was my best and closest friend I had.. All of sudden I feel lonely. please help.Broke up with my girlfriend, cant recover..?
You have to remember why you dumped her and how you would feel dealing with that if you have stayed. You move on because she simply didnt love you.Broke up with my girlfriend, cant recover..?
You have to realize that she cheated on you. Honestly, i wouldn't wanna be with someone like that, screw her for doing that to you. Unless my partner promised me with all his heart and soul and proved it in a lie-detector test, I wouldn't give them another chance. Talk to a counselor, your parents, or anyone about it. I'm sure they can help you. Good luck.
I know what your going through. It sucks. You have to get yourself together and start living again. Of course, your hurt and you have to allow yourself time to grieve over this...but eventually you get youself back out there. You make new friends, you talk to old friends. Your family can help you smile. Just don't allow yourself to crawl into a dark abyss. You keep your head up, and know that their are good people out there that will not hurt you. One day, you'll find the person your meant for. It's inevitable.
Aight guy this is what u gotta do.. go out... get out of your house and get that h0e out of ur mind bro... find another sleep with them and ull be good
Friday, August 20, 2010
How to make my girlfriend break up with me?
is there anyway you can make your girlfriend breakup with youHow to make my girlfriend break up with me?
Quit playing f*cking games and break up with her. Be a man!How to make my girlfriend break up with me?
first of all, the easiest way to break up with a girl is to BREAK UP WITH HER!!!!!!! don't be lazy, do it yourself. but if, for some strange reason you need her to break it to you, act like a jerk, or cheat on her, or something. but if there is any way around doing that to her, that would be your best option. it's wrong to manipulate her emotions (and possibly another girl's, if you take the cheating route) just so she would break it to you.
Do things to piss her off.
Like never answer the phone when she calls or have another girl answer the phone. Start acting immature or tell her you cheated on her and the girl is pregnant. Make hate you and your friends always hang out with your friends more than you do with her and when she comes around make her hate being there because you and your friends act like jerks.
Well you can call her names
be rude
cheating always works
hit on her best friend
talk about her parents
tell her she looks fat and needs to loose weight
tell her that some other girl looks hot today
ignore her
get it around that you are thinking about breaking up with her
don't answer her calls
don't call her
alot of stuff! or you could just break up with her and save her pain!
why don't u just break up with her? But if u would really want to know...
Find out what ticks her off and do exactley that
Start hangin with her less and start hangin with ur friends to make her think that she is less important than them
When she talks to you pretend ur listening then when she's done talkin say ';oh srry what did u say';
And don't just sundenly start doing these things bc then u will make her feel bad so gradually start doing these things
why? can you at least nicely break up with her? Be a man and own up to why you can't be together anymore.
-Tell her why you can't date her.
-DO NOT say you want to be friends, even if you want to. Let her heal first. Then attempt to make friends.
-DO NOT give false hope. Like saying ';right now'; or ';bad timing';. Even if you mean it, you leave her hanging.
And of course, do not lie.
cheers
be the true jerk that you are twards her.........well actually she still might not break up with you ...thatll just make her cry. PLEASE DONT TRY TO DO THE ';MAKE HER BREAK UP WITH ME'; TACTIC....just tell her in the nicest way possible that you want to end the relationship, and tell her the truth why. That way she can accept it and move on!!! If you do the other tactic, she will always wonder...What happened to you? What happened to the relationship? BLAH BLAH BLAH...So just do it the right way!!
Okay
1. If you don't want to be with her, you break up with her
2. If she still likes you, she's not gonna break up with you
3. You can't MAKE her break up with you
4. If you don't want to be with her, you break up with her!!!
Don't cheat on her don't be a pig be a man go to her sit down with her talk to her what you want to say hug her say you always can be friends if you want and walk away and don't be a pig and do staff like cheating or staff like that that's not a man
i know you dont want her to feel sad.
but it'll end up worse than you plan if you avoid doing it yourself.
i know that you dont want to hear that,but it has to be a simple ';i dont think we should be together anymore.';
You don't want to do that. Break up with her so you don't get a bad reputation, because that kinda stuff spreads like wildfire. You wanna break up with her, you don't want to look like an ***.
like be rude or when ur hanging out with her have a girl like a sister cousin or just a friend call and pretend to be ur girlfriend it really p*sses them off my ex did that to me and it got me to breakup with him right away
if you don't wanna date her anymore just tell her, sometime they will forgive you for the things you did and still won't let you leave so just tell her that you wanna end it.
Why don't you just break-up with her? duh.
If you are too much of a child to do that then you could be REALLY gross or be a total a$$.
Don't cheat on her or do anything to hurt her though.
WTF!!! don't chicken out, if you want to break up with your girlfriend, you have to break up with her! not the other way around!
break up with her i mean sure you might not want to hurt her but still doing crap like cheating on her and ignoring her are still gonna hurt her so you might as well do it yourself.
break up with her.
orrr if you really dont wanna do that,
if she doesnt like clingy be realllly clingy.. that creeps alotta girls out
or stop talking to her and when you do talk to her be reallly short like sound mad almost
kay just saying that your a dbagg and just like dont respond and or why dont you just break up with her but let her down easy.
okay why dont you just break up with her?
tricking her into breaking up with you i just cruel just break up with her!
Break up with her that would be the mature thing to do.
But if you just can't cheat on her.
dump hers th man thing to do..or gross her out or put someone lses bra in her draw ok maybee ive been wwatching to much tv but oohh well give it a try:D
be an @ss! or cheat on her...but if you dont like her i would just break up with her and not make her break up with you
Be a man and break up with her.
Yeah of course, but why would you want that?
Don't be yourself.
Act like a d-bag...
There are many different ways.
have your cousin or sister or something who is a girl call and pretend to be yor gf
Check out the movie ';How To Lose A Guy In Ten Days'; great ideas
clearly you don't respect your girlfriend to be asking this
tell her about this question!!
That should do the trick
break up with her yourself
uh...make her cry.....WORKS FOR ME^^ but most of the time i want it but dont try to lol
y...and....
act like a slob
dont call
dont respond
ignore
stuff like that...bt thats mean...still it works
Quit playing f*cking games and break up with her. Be a man!How to make my girlfriend break up with me?
first of all, the easiest way to break up with a girl is to BREAK UP WITH HER!!!!!!! don't be lazy, do it yourself. but if, for some strange reason you need her to break it to you, act like a jerk, or cheat on her, or something. but if there is any way around doing that to her, that would be your best option. it's wrong to manipulate her emotions (and possibly another girl's, if you take the cheating route) just so she would break it to you.
Do things to piss her off.
Like never answer the phone when she calls or have another girl answer the phone. Start acting immature or tell her you cheated on her and the girl is pregnant. Make hate you and your friends always hang out with your friends more than you do with her and when she comes around make her hate being there because you and your friends act like jerks.
Well you can call her names
be rude
cheating always works
hit on her best friend
talk about her parents
tell her she looks fat and needs to loose weight
tell her that some other girl looks hot today
ignore her
get it around that you are thinking about breaking up with her
don't answer her calls
don't call her
alot of stuff! or you could just break up with her and save her pain!
why don't u just break up with her? But if u would really want to know...
Find out what ticks her off and do exactley that
Start hangin with her less and start hangin with ur friends to make her think that she is less important than them
When she talks to you pretend ur listening then when she's done talkin say ';oh srry what did u say';
And don't just sundenly start doing these things bc then u will make her feel bad so gradually start doing these things
why? can you at least nicely break up with her? Be a man and own up to why you can't be together anymore.
-Tell her why you can't date her.
-DO NOT say you want to be friends, even if you want to. Let her heal first. Then attempt to make friends.
-DO NOT give false hope. Like saying ';right now'; or ';bad timing';. Even if you mean it, you leave her hanging.
And of course, do not lie.
cheers
be the true jerk that you are twards her.........well actually she still might not break up with you ...thatll just make her cry. PLEASE DONT TRY TO DO THE ';MAKE HER BREAK UP WITH ME'; TACTIC....just tell her in the nicest way possible that you want to end the relationship, and tell her the truth why. That way she can accept it and move on!!! If you do the other tactic, she will always wonder...What happened to you? What happened to the relationship? BLAH BLAH BLAH...So just do it the right way!!
Okay
1. If you don't want to be with her, you break up with her
2. If she still likes you, she's not gonna break up with you
3. You can't MAKE her break up with you
4. If you don't want to be with her, you break up with her!!!
Don't cheat on her don't be a pig be a man go to her sit down with her talk to her what you want to say hug her say you always can be friends if you want and walk away and don't be a pig and do staff like cheating or staff like that that's not a man
i know you dont want her to feel sad.
but it'll end up worse than you plan if you avoid doing it yourself.
i know that you dont want to hear that,but it has to be a simple ';i dont think we should be together anymore.';
You don't want to do that. Break up with her so you don't get a bad reputation, because that kinda stuff spreads like wildfire. You wanna break up with her, you don't want to look like an ***.
like be rude or when ur hanging out with her have a girl like a sister cousin or just a friend call and pretend to be ur girlfriend it really p*sses them off my ex did that to me and it got me to breakup with him right away
if you don't wanna date her anymore just tell her, sometime they will forgive you for the things you did and still won't let you leave so just tell her that you wanna end it.
Why don't you just break-up with her? duh.
If you are too much of a child to do that then you could be REALLY gross or be a total a$$.
Don't cheat on her or do anything to hurt her though.
WTF!!! don't chicken out, if you want to break up with your girlfriend, you have to break up with her! not the other way around!
break up with her i mean sure you might not want to hurt her but still doing crap like cheating on her and ignoring her are still gonna hurt her so you might as well do it yourself.
break up with her.
orrr if you really dont wanna do that,
if she doesnt like clingy be realllly clingy.. that creeps alotta girls out
or stop talking to her and when you do talk to her be reallly short like sound mad almost
kay just saying that your a dbagg and just like dont respond and or why dont you just break up with her but let her down easy.
okay why dont you just break up with her?
tricking her into breaking up with you i just cruel just break up with her!
Break up with her that would be the mature thing to do.
But if you just can't cheat on her.
dump hers th man thing to do..or gross her out or put someone lses bra in her draw ok maybee ive been wwatching to much tv but oohh well give it a try:D
be an @ss! or cheat on her...but if you dont like her i would just break up with her and not make her break up with you
Be a man and break up with her.
Yeah of course, but why would you want that?
Don't be yourself.
Act like a d-bag...
There are many different ways.
have your cousin or sister or something who is a girl call and pretend to be yor gf
Check out the movie ';How To Lose A Guy In Ten Days'; great ideas
clearly you don't respect your girlfriend to be asking this
tell her about this question!!
That should do the trick
break up with her yourself
uh...make her cry.....WORKS FOR ME^^ but most of the time i want it but dont try to lol
y...and....
act like a slob
dont call
dont respond
ignore
stuff like that...bt thats mean...still it works
How do i break up with my Girlfriend who lives with me and depends completely on me.
I've lost complete interest in her.. its been 7 years and the sex is still the same. I';m in love with her brain but i'm going insane with the fake sex. How many guys do you know who fake orgasm... Well i'm one
She lives with me and i'll have to tell her to leave she is in college and only has a part time job. Her family is hopleless and destitute and she will have no where to go. I on the other hand have a good job buy all the food and have a great network of family. I will literally be putting her life in shambles she worships ever inch of me and it is far beyond unhealthly. I have made sure she lived a painless laughter filled life for all these years but i cannot continue anymore. Help me please what is the best action to let her go?How do i break up with my Girlfriend who lives with me and depends completely on me.
If you're in love with her brain but just bored in the bedroom, tell her. Maybe things will change. Everyone gets bored in their relationship, you both have to work to keep it interesting.
But if you just really don't want to be with her anymore, tell her you're sorry but it's just not right anymore. Tell her you care about her and will do what you can to help her make the transition. Let her know you love her as a person, but it's not fair to lead her on, that somewhere along the way, she became a friend.
She'll be hurt, she'll be mad. She'll ask you what she's supposed to do, where she's supposed to go. Tell her you'll figure it out with her, that you're not trying to kick her out. Don't make arrangements for her, she needs to learn to take care of herself.
How old are y'all?How do i break up with my Girlfriend who lives with me and depends completely on me.
Well you can break up with her and then allow her continue living there for 30 days. In that time she can find somewhere else to live, maybe find a better job etc. If you know this is going to be putting her in such a messed up situation then you can support her %26amp; help her along the way like helping her pack, move, find another place etc.
well is it just the sex..or do you definitely not want to be with her anymore? maybe you do need to spice it up if sex is the only problem..but if youre not into the relationship at all anymore then its done. i know you'll probably feel bad but a relationship is 2 sided and you gotta do whats best for u..just talk to her, i mean u can tell her u'll always be there for her as a friend or something but you just growing apart or something.
sounds like you just need something to spice up the relationship.
The guy taking care of her before you probably believed the same thing.
I would love to tell you to be a 'heartless bastard' and just throw her out, but that isn't my style either. Perhaps the best move would be to move her out slowly by making sure that she is coming into contact with a lot of potential new caretakers. She probably wouldn't risk what you are offering her but it's a weak solution.
I think the best answer is to just communicate your situation with her. Let her know that you still want to see that she is okay but that it is destroying you to keep taking care of her. Let her know that she needs to move on and let you move on.
One word of advice, if she moves on and succeeds beyond what you ever expected of her.....don't be jealous or hateful.
After 3 years, a smart girl would have been saving a stash for a rainy day. You gave her 7. You don't owe her anything, but since you are a nice guy, here's what you do.
Warn her. Tell her you're ready to move on. Give her 6 months to stabilize. Help her find an small apartment. Hey even pay the first month for her. Help her move her things- all the while remaining calm and kind. It'll go smoother than you think.
Okay me and my boyfriend live together it's only been two months and everything is going good in our relationship so far the sex is great cuz i cud tell if he fake it. I do the cooking, the cleaning, etc. but he wanted to do the cleaning but i don't want him do that but he's paying all the bills he don't want me pay any but all am trying to say that even through you taking care of her and everything from the break you should of told her that you was faking the sex. All you need to do is show her how she could spice up yall sex life take her to the lingerine store and tell her but position you want her to go in and so on. But don't walk out on seven years that's a lot of years you two put in the relationship so give it a try and work it out.
She lives with me and i'll have to tell her to leave she is in college and only has a part time job. Her family is hopleless and destitute and she will have no where to go. I on the other hand have a good job buy all the food and have a great network of family. I will literally be putting her life in shambles she worships ever inch of me and it is far beyond unhealthly. I have made sure she lived a painless laughter filled life for all these years but i cannot continue anymore. Help me please what is the best action to let her go?How do i break up with my Girlfriend who lives with me and depends completely on me.
If you're in love with her brain but just bored in the bedroom, tell her. Maybe things will change. Everyone gets bored in their relationship, you both have to work to keep it interesting.
But if you just really don't want to be with her anymore, tell her you're sorry but it's just not right anymore. Tell her you care about her and will do what you can to help her make the transition. Let her know you love her as a person, but it's not fair to lead her on, that somewhere along the way, she became a friend.
She'll be hurt, she'll be mad. She'll ask you what she's supposed to do, where she's supposed to go. Tell her you'll figure it out with her, that you're not trying to kick her out. Don't make arrangements for her, she needs to learn to take care of herself.
How old are y'all?How do i break up with my Girlfriend who lives with me and depends completely on me.
Well you can break up with her and then allow her continue living there for 30 days. In that time she can find somewhere else to live, maybe find a better job etc. If you know this is going to be putting her in such a messed up situation then you can support her %26amp; help her along the way like helping her pack, move, find another place etc.
well is it just the sex..or do you definitely not want to be with her anymore? maybe you do need to spice it up if sex is the only problem..but if youre not into the relationship at all anymore then its done. i know you'll probably feel bad but a relationship is 2 sided and you gotta do whats best for u..just talk to her, i mean u can tell her u'll always be there for her as a friend or something but you just growing apart or something.
sounds like you just need something to spice up the relationship.
The guy taking care of her before you probably believed the same thing.
I would love to tell you to be a 'heartless bastard' and just throw her out, but that isn't my style either. Perhaps the best move would be to move her out slowly by making sure that she is coming into contact with a lot of potential new caretakers. She probably wouldn't risk what you are offering her but it's a weak solution.
I think the best answer is to just communicate your situation with her. Let her know that you still want to see that she is okay but that it is destroying you to keep taking care of her. Let her know that she needs to move on and let you move on.
One word of advice, if she moves on and succeeds beyond what you ever expected of her.....don't be jealous or hateful.
After 3 years, a smart girl would have been saving a stash for a rainy day. You gave her 7. You don't owe her anything, but since you are a nice guy, here's what you do.
Warn her. Tell her you're ready to move on. Give her 6 months to stabilize. Help her find an small apartment. Hey even pay the first month for her. Help her move her things- all the while remaining calm and kind. It'll go smoother than you think.
Okay me and my boyfriend live together it's only been two months and everything is going good in our relationship so far the sex is great cuz i cud tell if he fake it. I do the cooking, the cleaning, etc. but he wanted to do the cleaning but i don't want him do that but he's paying all the bills he don't want me pay any but all am trying to say that even through you taking care of her and everything from the break you should of told her that you was faking the sex. All you need to do is show her how she could spice up yall sex life take her to the lingerine store and tell her but position you want her to go in and so on. But don't walk out on seven years that's a lot of years you two put in the relationship so give it a try and work it out.
How do I get a guy to break up with his girlfriend for me?
I know that sounds bad, but I really like him.
I like him a lot, and that is unusual for me because I'm independent.
He likes me. We always flirt and we talk on the phone and in person for hours.
His girlfriend has cheated on him multiple times, and you can tell that he is unhappy, but he won't break up with her.
Why?
I want him to.
He's always telling me how he loves talking to me and stuff.
I just want him to break up with her.
Is there a possibility that he will?How do I get a guy to break up with his girlfriend for me?
Well, it seems like he understands the concept of loyalty.
You just need to make him understand that she doesn't deserve his...How do I get a guy to break up with his girlfriend for me?
i was in the same situation just his girlfriend is a ***** and can't even say she loves him when he tells me he loves me and i CAN say it back. i hooked up with him while he was going out with someone. be smart unlike me and dont do that. all you can do it let him know he can do better and be happy.
YOu waited this long, wait some more.
Don't try to force anything because than, it won't really be him making the decision but him being forced to do something. It sounds like he is pretty attached to this person, and it really is up to him to make that decision. Sweeping a person away from their problems doesn't always solve the problem. He needs to realize for himself what to do-AND DO IT!
Maybe.... if shes cheated on him.... tell him that he deserves better
Look, he is with her for a reason. You can't make him break up with her, he'll do that when he is ready. Don't make him break up with her because of you, you never know he might break up with you because of someone else. Don't do to others what you don't want done to you.
Forcing him to have sex with you would be the silver bullet.
Regards,
Brandon
Obviously, if his girlfriend has cheated on him numerous times and he is still with her, he is not going to break up with her right now. Obviously he really loves her. I would not hold my breath for that to happen. If he is miserable in the relationship he would leave. You could try telling him that he shouldn't be treated like that but You can't get him to break up with her.
It isn't your buisness to break them up... but you can explain to him how you feel. Say to him ';look if you want to stay with her than that is your personal choice and i just want you to be happy. But i really care about you and i don't feel this way about guys often so i know it means something. I'm not trying to steal you away from your gf but i feel like i could make you happier than she does. I can't force you to do anything and i'm not going to sabotage your relationship but i want you to know how i feel so you can make up your own mind.';
hmm.. you may be independent... but do you want to be in the man relay reace? she's got him now, and he... passively, will be slapped into your palm.. that is, until the next girl comes along.
it seems like maybe he's testing out the waters. maybe he's scared to be by himself... making him a little codependent. not a terribly cute match.
i don't believe you can make him do anything. if he's unhappy, he'd leave or change it... ';piss or get off the pot';, I say. but if he's just hanging with you a lot and boo hooing about how bad things are... you are his emotional babysitter while he's anxiously awaiting her return from her rut
well since ';His girlfriend has cheated on him multiple times'; then u can do whatever with him........just give the bro head ma....itll all work out for the best
Get your own guy.
Don't steal them.
I like him a lot, and that is unusual for me because I'm independent.
He likes me. We always flirt and we talk on the phone and in person for hours.
His girlfriend has cheated on him multiple times, and you can tell that he is unhappy, but he won't break up with her.
Why?
I want him to.
He's always telling me how he loves talking to me and stuff.
I just want him to break up with her.
Is there a possibility that he will?How do I get a guy to break up with his girlfriend for me?
Well, it seems like he understands the concept of loyalty.
You just need to make him understand that she doesn't deserve his...How do I get a guy to break up with his girlfriend for me?
i was in the same situation just his girlfriend is a ***** and can't even say she loves him when he tells me he loves me and i CAN say it back. i hooked up with him while he was going out with someone. be smart unlike me and dont do that. all you can do it let him know he can do better and be happy.
Report Abuse
YOu waited this long, wait some more.
Don't try to force anything because than, it won't really be him making the decision but him being forced to do something. It sounds like he is pretty attached to this person, and it really is up to him to make that decision. Sweeping a person away from their problems doesn't always solve the problem. He needs to realize for himself what to do-AND DO IT!
Maybe.... if shes cheated on him.... tell him that he deserves better
Look, he is with her for a reason. You can't make him break up with her, he'll do that when he is ready. Don't make him break up with her because of you, you never know he might break up with you because of someone else. Don't do to others what you don't want done to you.
Forcing him to have sex with you would be the silver bullet.
Regards,
Brandon
Obviously, if his girlfriend has cheated on him numerous times and he is still with her, he is not going to break up with her right now. Obviously he really loves her. I would not hold my breath for that to happen. If he is miserable in the relationship he would leave. You could try telling him that he shouldn't be treated like that but You can't get him to break up with her.
It isn't your buisness to break them up... but you can explain to him how you feel. Say to him ';look if you want to stay with her than that is your personal choice and i just want you to be happy. But i really care about you and i don't feel this way about guys often so i know it means something. I'm not trying to steal you away from your gf but i feel like i could make you happier than she does. I can't force you to do anything and i'm not going to sabotage your relationship but i want you to know how i feel so you can make up your own mind.';
hmm.. you may be independent... but do you want to be in the man relay reace? she's got him now, and he... passively, will be slapped into your palm.. that is, until the next girl comes along.
it seems like maybe he's testing out the waters. maybe he's scared to be by himself... making him a little codependent. not a terribly cute match.
i don't believe you can make him do anything. if he's unhappy, he'd leave or change it... ';piss or get off the pot';, I say. but if he's just hanging with you a lot and boo hooing about how bad things are... you are his emotional babysitter while he's anxiously awaiting her return from her rut
well since ';His girlfriend has cheated on him multiple times'; then u can do whatever with him........just give the bro head ma....itll all work out for the best
Get your own guy.
Don't steal them.
How do you get guys to break up with their girlfriends?
There is this guy, and him and his girlfriend broke up about 2 months ago. But they are 'friends with benefits' (they are still sleeping together) A couple of weeks ago, this guy and I hooked up - and we have been talking allot ever since, and he seems to like me.. But he's still got this other girl. I really like him and dont know what to d?How do you get guys to break up with their girlfriends?
deal with it. obviously you knew about it... sooo suffer teh consequences. hes jsut hornyHow do you get guys to break up with their girlfriends?
He's a player. He more than likely just wants sex. Don't waste your time.
deal with it. obviously you knew about it... sooo suffer teh consequences. hes jsut hornyHow do you get guys to break up with their girlfriends?
He's a player. He more than likely just wants sex. Don't waste your time.
How do you get a possibly suicidal girlfriend to break up with you?
I have been with this one girl for a couple years now. We are engaged too. I care about her a lot but I am just not feeling right in the relationship anymore. She is prone to depression and can't seem to control her emotions. She also complains a lot and seems to care mainly about her problems than mine. But she is a sweet girl and I do care about her. But some time ago I have met another girl that is amazing, she is kind, caring, sweet, she doesn't do anything mean to me and has told me many times that she never wants to hurt me (emotionally that is). I am really falling for her more than the first girl. I tried to get her to break up with me by being less loving seeming, but she started getting suicidal saying she will kill herself if she can't have me. I thought she left me, but she now is happier again and thinks everything is fine. So anyway, I really want to be with the second girl, how can I get the first to break up with me without her killing herself?
Serious answers only!!How do you get a possibly suicidal girlfriend to break up with you?
I think you need to tell the second girl. Have her help you out because she may be able to talk to her. Or you can get in touch with one of the girl's friends and explain to her what's going on so she can help out her friend. As for you, you definitely need to get out of that relationship because the suicidal girl is using your emotions to make you stay because she is insecure herself. I hope my suggestions help.How do you get a possibly suicidal girlfriend to break up with you?
There are two words for what your girlfriend is doing to you.
Control and manipulation.
You cannot control what she will or will not do. And you should not live your life to placate someone else. You will only become resentful and bitter.
Break up with her. Sweetly, gently, tell her you will always be friends but you don't want to continue being her romantic partner.
If she threatens suicide again, tell her you hope she won't because she a good person but that you can't stop her if she really wants to.
I bet you $100 that she won't do a damn thing except call your cell every hour for the next two weeks.
sometimes us girls will pull the stupid ';i need you, if i dont have u, i will kill myself'; it isnt serious, if it worries you, you should maybe help her get help, but the other girl seems to be the one you should be with.
hope all goes well.
First of all, you must remember that God did not put you on earth to make others happy. Happiness is an individual responsibility. Secondly, you should not stay with someone just because you feel bad or are concerned about how she will react. Thirdly, you have put yourself in a really sticky situation by being engaged to her and finding another girl. You need to be honest with EVERYONE, including yourself. If you want out, sit your GF down and tell her that you love her, but you are not in love with her. She is going to be emotional, maybe even distraught. You may want to let her parents or friends know so that she can get the support she needs.
It is going to be bad at first, but in the end, everyone will be happier. Good luck!
You need to be honest with the girl, but be nice and tell her that there are more guys out there that will want to be with her. You can't stay with her just because of this. She doesn't own you and you don't owe her anything. Just let her down easy, and expect her to take it as an adult.
Do something that she doesn't like. If it is her who decides to end the relationship, it will work out.
EDIT
I'm not trying to be cruel, this is obviously one relationship which will not work. You just have to do something against her principles, not necessarily something that would hurt her.
This is tough to answer. Try to find your first girl someone that she would care more then you.
first you need to get over the need for her to need you so bad and also realize she is controlling you with this behavior. she knows your stepping out on her and this is her way of keeping you under her thumb. if she was serious about killing herself, she would have done it with or without you being with her. i say, go with what makes you happiest and you can't go wrong. you'll never be able to control her, only your reaction to her, and honey- your giving her all the power. if she is seeing a psychiatrist for her depression- call him or her and set up a little chit chat, just the two of you. tell the psychiatrist what your going through and they'll probably tell you the same thing- she's manipulating you and your letting her get away with it.
Okay, this is very hard but you will have to make a decision.
I'm sure you are very concerned about your first girl, but she needs help. She is making you feel guilty but you are being an enabler. She needs professional help, and you are not licensed to do that. If she is suicidal (as you say she is), and you care about her, then go to her parents, her minister, a counselor, or someone that can get the help she needs.
Sometimes people say things like that because they want your attention. Maybe she knows that you are seeing someone else. If she does, you need to be very careful that she doesn't find out. I'm not trying to frighten you but she could come and hurt you and your new girl. And what a tragedy that would be. She's calling out for help. And my question is ';why are you engaged if you're seeing someone else?'; You need to let someone go. Don't be selfish. You can't save the world. I know this sounds harsh, but you need to do something before things comes to a head, and that could be tragic.
Sometimes people say that will commit suicide as a ploy to hold on to someone. YOU NEED TO GET SOME SERIOUS PROFESSIONAL HELP NOW! Or you can sit your first girl down and tell her that you love her but you are concerned about how she is feeling. If she loves you like she says she does, then she will be willing to get the help she needs. Don't beat yourself up trying to figure out what to do. Just do something NOW!
If something should happen you don't want to carry around the guilt that you could have done something for her. I don't know your age, but I can tell you that life is too short to be with someone that you don't love. Don't make your life miserable too. It's not worth it. I know I sound as though I'm be tough, but sometimes ';TOUGH LOVE'; is what's needed.
If you have parents, speak to them and see if they know someone that can help you and your girl. You should not be in another relationship right now. You haven't cleaned up your old one, and it's called a rebound relationship. Don't take your old feelings and feed them on someone else until you have clean hands from the old one.
Think about it and do the right thing. If this ';new girl'; likes you, she'll be around when the smoke clears.
Good luck. Hope this helps.hair growth internet explorer
Serious answers only!!How do you get a possibly suicidal girlfriend to break up with you?
I think you need to tell the second girl. Have her help you out because she may be able to talk to her. Or you can get in touch with one of the girl's friends and explain to her what's going on so she can help out her friend. As for you, you definitely need to get out of that relationship because the suicidal girl is using your emotions to make you stay because she is insecure herself. I hope my suggestions help.How do you get a possibly suicidal girlfriend to break up with you?
There are two words for what your girlfriend is doing to you.
Control and manipulation.
You cannot control what she will or will not do. And you should not live your life to placate someone else. You will only become resentful and bitter.
Break up with her. Sweetly, gently, tell her you will always be friends but you don't want to continue being her romantic partner.
If she threatens suicide again, tell her you hope she won't because she a good person but that you can't stop her if she really wants to.
I bet you $100 that she won't do a damn thing except call your cell every hour for the next two weeks.
sometimes us girls will pull the stupid ';i need you, if i dont have u, i will kill myself'; it isnt serious, if it worries you, you should maybe help her get help, but the other girl seems to be the one you should be with.
hope all goes well.
First of all, you must remember that God did not put you on earth to make others happy. Happiness is an individual responsibility. Secondly, you should not stay with someone just because you feel bad or are concerned about how she will react. Thirdly, you have put yourself in a really sticky situation by being engaged to her and finding another girl. You need to be honest with EVERYONE, including yourself. If you want out, sit your GF down and tell her that you love her, but you are not in love with her. She is going to be emotional, maybe even distraught. You may want to let her parents or friends know so that she can get the support she needs.
It is going to be bad at first, but in the end, everyone will be happier. Good luck!
You need to be honest with the girl, but be nice and tell her that there are more guys out there that will want to be with her. You can't stay with her just because of this. She doesn't own you and you don't owe her anything. Just let her down easy, and expect her to take it as an adult.
Do something that she doesn't like. If it is her who decides to end the relationship, it will work out.
EDIT
I'm not trying to be cruel, this is obviously one relationship which will not work. You just have to do something against her principles, not necessarily something that would hurt her.
This is tough to answer. Try to find your first girl someone that she would care more then you.
first you need to get over the need for her to need you so bad and also realize she is controlling you with this behavior. she knows your stepping out on her and this is her way of keeping you under her thumb. if she was serious about killing herself, she would have done it with or without you being with her. i say, go with what makes you happiest and you can't go wrong. you'll never be able to control her, only your reaction to her, and honey- your giving her all the power. if she is seeing a psychiatrist for her depression- call him or her and set up a little chit chat, just the two of you. tell the psychiatrist what your going through and they'll probably tell you the same thing- she's manipulating you and your letting her get away with it.
Okay, this is very hard but you will have to make a decision.
I'm sure you are very concerned about your first girl, but she needs help. She is making you feel guilty but you are being an enabler. She needs professional help, and you are not licensed to do that. If she is suicidal (as you say she is), and you care about her, then go to her parents, her minister, a counselor, or someone that can get the help she needs.
Sometimes people say things like that because they want your attention. Maybe she knows that you are seeing someone else. If she does, you need to be very careful that she doesn't find out. I'm not trying to frighten you but she could come and hurt you and your new girl. And what a tragedy that would be. She's calling out for help. And my question is ';why are you engaged if you're seeing someone else?'; You need to let someone go. Don't be selfish. You can't save the world. I know this sounds harsh, but you need to do something before things comes to a head, and that could be tragic.
Sometimes people say that will commit suicide as a ploy to hold on to someone. YOU NEED TO GET SOME SERIOUS PROFESSIONAL HELP NOW! Or you can sit your first girl down and tell her that you love her but you are concerned about how she is feeling. If she loves you like she says she does, then she will be willing to get the help she needs. Don't beat yourself up trying to figure out what to do. Just do something NOW!
If something should happen you don't want to carry around the guilt that you could have done something for her. I don't know your age, but I can tell you that life is too short to be with someone that you don't love. Don't make your life miserable too. It's not worth it. I know I sound as though I'm be tough, but sometimes ';TOUGH LOVE'; is what's needed.
If you have parents, speak to them and see if they know someone that can help you and your girl. You should not be in another relationship right now. You haven't cleaned up your old one, and it's called a rebound relationship. Don't take your old feelings and feed them on someone else until you have clean hands from the old one.
Think about it and do the right thing. If this ';new girl'; likes you, she'll be around when the smoke clears.
Good luck. Hope this helps.
How can i possibly break up with my girlfriend of six years?
well ive been with this koo girl for 6 years and i need a change we been dating since freshman year in college and im just not fealing it anymore. I honestly dont know how it will be possible to break up with her, i can just see how bad it will be, like i cant see myself doing this to someone, but i need tooHow can i possibly break up with my girlfriend of six years?
you cant be with her if you dont love her after six years!
jus tell her how you feel, and maybe she feels the same,
who knows!
Good luckHow can i possibly break up with my girlfriend of six years?
Go ahead and waste six years. How do you think it's gonna be when you get married? That's what's wrong with you men. You find a good woman and you settle down and then later on down the line you claim that you've lost feelings. Well I hope you never plan to get married, because love isn't about feelings, it's about sharing and caring for that other person. When you enter a relationship it's not about just you anymore. So go ahead, be selfish and break it off and try and find something better only to find that the same thing is going to happen.
Why aren't you feeling it anymore? Is it because you are starting to get curious about other women? I have seen this happen where a guy that was madly in love weeks later says her wants for break up only to figure out months later he made the biggest mistake of his like. At that point it was to late to go back to his old flame because she found someone else. If you can live with this you need to break this news to her in person not over the phone or a letter email etc. Tell her you need some time to yourself. I can't say it is going to be easy but you only have one life to live and you have to make it right for yourself.
Man this is hard . 6 years with someone means going through a lot together. The main thing you feel is guilty to leave her ,i mean you feel pity for her . How she wil be without you?
Well i think there is no reason to continue if you don't feel anymore. that will be like living with someone in black and white. Before doing that get to analyze a lot of things. In a relation ship there are ups and down. Sometimes there are periods that we might feel cold and without knowing the factors and sometimes there are times where we feel more affectionate. Also look at the chances that you have to find another girl at the same level or better than her. The problem is that there are a lot of pretty women out there but we don't know with which kind we gonna deal with and remember that you will be dealing with a total different person. So if your breaking up do it in front of her and tell her the truth and don't show weakness after 2 weeks or after she will be with someone else to want her back. You will gonna end up hurting her more. Just be sure and wish you good luck in life.
i agree with rachel. i am in the same situation, but the only way i got out of it was because we got into a huge fight :/ but all i can say is try to do it nicely and tell her you need a break just to figure out what you are doing in your life. tell her that you are worried about the future and you need to have some time to yourself for awhile and it should be ok. but if you are going to do this, dont start dating anyone right away, just in case :) good luck
Breakups are a hard part of life, ESPECIALLY if you two were together for so long. Sometimes the sparks just die and one has to move on.
You should do it in person, and be honest but compassionate and caring. Just tell her that you've come to a point in your life where you need some change. It's going to hurt and be really tough, but it's a nessicarry thing if you just aren't feeling it anymore. Good luck, man.
If you feel that you need to do this then you need to sit her down somewhere and be upfront and completely honest. Maybe you need a break from her for a little while to get your head around things first. either way, you need to tell her properly. Not crappy stuff like over the phone or a letter thats just not manly.
Hope all goes well and good luck
Just tell her you two need to talk, that way she can kind of get a hint. Let her know how the past 6 years have been for you, but that you can't continue on with the relationship b/c you want to experience somethingelse or that you just feel both of you aren't as close as before. If its meant to be then either you will come back or she will.
Hey jay :)
ill share my opinion with you. :)
I have never been with anyone for so long but Six years is a long time and i guess when you have spent such a long time together you get used to it, because you have shared so much of your life with one another. But in my oppinion if you really no in yourself that it is not the right thing to be with her and that you are making this decision for all the right reasons then it would be best to follow your heart. because i think it would be worse to stay in a relationship for all the wrong reasons , it mite lead to something worse or something, if you get what i mean. recently i was thinking about braking up with my partner but i took a few days to really weigh up and i decided that it was for all the wrong reasons. I also no of someone who had a gf for nearly as long as you and he said at the time it was one of the hardest decisions he had ever had to make but now he is happy. We all only have one chance of life and we can only take charge of that life ourselves so it might as well be a happy one
So you're saying you want to throw 6 years of your life away. That's a lot of time to just waste on someone.
You must care about her so, be yourself, tell her the truth. Because, if she knows you and she probably does...she'll know you're lying. Who knows, she might be feeling the same way.
try and make her not like you anymore and maybe she will feel the need to break up with you. i say this because most girls are really emotional and think they like you so much but then they'll get over it eventually and feel it just wasn't right.
Be completely honest about your feelings. All a girl wants is honesty. Then no answer can tell you how it will work out. But be honest about how you feel and you'll get best results. If you were with her for six years she will be understanding. Good Luck :)
just tell her that u arnt in for long relationships unless u r sure u love the girl and she just isnt for u and u dont want to cheat on her and so u decided that u need to break up tell that to her
tell her exacly what you feels,she desirves to know.be honest but nice.
HELP ME? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
6 years, ouch.
talk to her about how you feel instead of just ending it.
good luck
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20091119155353AASucoB
You will really break her heart. so just say ';Babe, do u think its time to start dating other people?'; thats the best thing.
Just be like I am sorry but its over because I am not feeling it anymore. I rather be friends because I need a change.
Yes, you shouldn't stay with someone out of guilt. Just make sure you don't blow her off completely.
do things random things that u no would tick her off then she'll break up w/ u and u could ask if u could still b friends
just sit her down and talk to her who knows maybe she whants to break up with u too
let her know threw a text message...
let her down gentle but be sure you want to let her go...:-(
you cant be with her if you dont love her after six years!
jus tell her how you feel, and maybe she feels the same,
who knows!
Good luckHow can i possibly break up with my girlfriend of six years?
Go ahead and waste six years. How do you think it's gonna be when you get married? That's what's wrong with you men. You find a good woman and you settle down and then later on down the line you claim that you've lost feelings. Well I hope you never plan to get married, because love isn't about feelings, it's about sharing and caring for that other person. When you enter a relationship it's not about just you anymore. So go ahead, be selfish and break it off and try and find something better only to find that the same thing is going to happen.
Why aren't you feeling it anymore? Is it because you are starting to get curious about other women? I have seen this happen where a guy that was madly in love weeks later says her wants for break up only to figure out months later he made the biggest mistake of his like. At that point it was to late to go back to his old flame because she found someone else. If you can live with this you need to break this news to her in person not over the phone or a letter email etc. Tell her you need some time to yourself. I can't say it is going to be easy but you only have one life to live and you have to make it right for yourself.
Man this is hard . 6 years with someone means going through a lot together. The main thing you feel is guilty to leave her ,i mean you feel pity for her . How she wil be without you?
Well i think there is no reason to continue if you don't feel anymore. that will be like living with someone in black and white. Before doing that get to analyze a lot of things. In a relation ship there are ups and down. Sometimes there are periods that we might feel cold and without knowing the factors and sometimes there are times where we feel more affectionate. Also look at the chances that you have to find another girl at the same level or better than her. The problem is that there are a lot of pretty women out there but we don't know with which kind we gonna deal with and remember that you will be dealing with a total different person. So if your breaking up do it in front of her and tell her the truth and don't show weakness after 2 weeks or after she will be with someone else to want her back. You will gonna end up hurting her more. Just be sure and wish you good luck in life.
i agree with rachel. i am in the same situation, but the only way i got out of it was because we got into a huge fight :/ but all i can say is try to do it nicely and tell her you need a break just to figure out what you are doing in your life. tell her that you are worried about the future and you need to have some time to yourself for awhile and it should be ok. but if you are going to do this, dont start dating anyone right away, just in case :) good luck
Breakups are a hard part of life, ESPECIALLY if you two were together for so long. Sometimes the sparks just die and one has to move on.
You should do it in person, and be honest but compassionate and caring. Just tell her that you've come to a point in your life where you need some change. It's going to hurt and be really tough, but it's a nessicarry thing if you just aren't feeling it anymore. Good luck, man.
If you feel that you need to do this then you need to sit her down somewhere and be upfront and completely honest. Maybe you need a break from her for a little while to get your head around things first. either way, you need to tell her properly. Not crappy stuff like over the phone or a letter thats just not manly.
Hope all goes well and good luck
Just tell her you two need to talk, that way she can kind of get a hint. Let her know how the past 6 years have been for you, but that you can't continue on with the relationship b/c you want to experience somethingelse or that you just feel both of you aren't as close as before. If its meant to be then either you will come back or she will.
Hey jay :)
ill share my opinion with you. :)
I have never been with anyone for so long but Six years is a long time and i guess when you have spent such a long time together you get used to it, because you have shared so much of your life with one another. But in my oppinion if you really no in yourself that it is not the right thing to be with her and that you are making this decision for all the right reasons then it would be best to follow your heart. because i think it would be worse to stay in a relationship for all the wrong reasons , it mite lead to something worse or something, if you get what i mean. recently i was thinking about braking up with my partner but i took a few days to really weigh up and i decided that it was for all the wrong reasons. I also no of someone who had a gf for nearly as long as you and he said at the time it was one of the hardest decisions he had ever had to make but now he is happy. We all only have one chance of life and we can only take charge of that life ourselves so it might as well be a happy one
So you're saying you want to throw 6 years of your life away. That's a lot of time to just waste on someone.
You must care about her so, be yourself, tell her the truth. Because, if she knows you and she probably does...she'll know you're lying. Who knows, she might be feeling the same way.
try and make her not like you anymore and maybe she will feel the need to break up with you. i say this because most girls are really emotional and think they like you so much but then they'll get over it eventually and feel it just wasn't right.
Be completely honest about your feelings. All a girl wants is honesty. Then no answer can tell you how it will work out. But be honest about how you feel and you'll get best results. If you were with her for six years she will be understanding. Good Luck :)
just tell her that u arnt in for long relationships unless u r sure u love the girl and she just isnt for u and u dont want to cheat on her and so u decided that u need to break up tell that to her
tell her exacly what you feels,she desirves to know.be honest but nice.
HELP ME? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
6 years, ouch.
talk to her about how you feel instead of just ending it.
good luck
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20091119155353AASucoB
You will really break her heart. so just say ';Babe, do u think its time to start dating other people?'; thats the best thing.
Just be like I am sorry but its over because I am not feeling it anymore. I rather be friends because I need a change.
Yes, you shouldn't stay with someone out of guilt. Just make sure you don't blow her off completely.
do things random things that u no would tick her off then she'll break up w/ u and u could ask if u could still b friends
just sit her down and talk to her who knows maybe she whants to break up with u too
let her know threw a text message...
let her down gentle but be sure you want to let her go...:-(
I'm a very honorable person. How do I break up with my girlfriend?
I have been with her since feb. I am divorced with two kids. I don't think this women is who I'm wanting to be with forever. How do I tell her this with out hurting her?I'm a very honorable person. How do I break up with my girlfriend?
Just know that she will be hurt, but you have to do what you have to do. If she is not what you are looking for, then do what's best for you and your children. Do you want to make a clean sweep or will want to see her from time to time? Be honest and gentle with her. Let her know that you do like about her and keep her self esteem up. Good luckI'm a very honorable person. How do I break up with my girlfriend?
I usually just come out honestly whenever I wanna break up with someone. Lol they think i'm a ***** when I do it though.
There is no real way to not hurt someones feelings when you're in a relationship.
If you stay with them longer and then tell them, they are hurt because you didn't tell them sooner.
If you tell them ';You're just not what i'm looking for'; or any other reason for breaking up with them. They obviously get depressed.
I think you should just be honest about this and tell her how you really feel about your relationship.
If shes not the one you want to be with then you can't keep lying to her. Just tell her it just isn't working between the both of you and that you too need to start seeing other people or take a break from each other....Im not sure if i was much of a help but I tried =)
If she's hot, send her over to my place. I'll hump, send you a pic, and then you can accuse her of cheating... break up and things are good!
Just know that she will be hurt, but you have to do what you have to do. If she is not what you are looking for, then do what's best for you and your children. Do you want to make a clean sweep or will want to see her from time to time? Be honest and gentle with her. Let her know that you do like about her and keep her self esteem up. Good luckI'm a very honorable person. How do I break up with my girlfriend?
I usually just come out honestly whenever I wanna break up with someone. Lol they think i'm a ***** when I do it though.
There is no real way to not hurt someones feelings when you're in a relationship.
If you stay with them longer and then tell them, they are hurt because you didn't tell them sooner.
If you tell them ';You're just not what i'm looking for'; or any other reason for breaking up with them. They obviously get depressed.
I think you should just be honest about this and tell her how you really feel about your relationship.
If shes not the one you want to be with then you can't keep lying to her. Just tell her it just isn't working between the both of you and that you too need to start seeing other people or take a break from each other....Im not sure if i was much of a help but I tried =)
If she's hot, send her over to my place. I'll hump, send you a pic, and then you can accuse her of cheating... break up and things are good!
How to break up with your girlfriend?
i want to break up with my girlfriend. how do it do it?? straight up..or ease into it..how should i say, i dont want to be with you because your a whore, nicely..
thanks!How to break up with your girlfriend?
whatever you do, man up and tell her in person. and don't be and a$$hole just so she will break up with you. be honest, but i wouldnt say that you want to break up with her because she is a whore...put yourself in her place. think about how you would want to be broken up with. would you want the girl to cheat or be a ***** to you and hurt you even more than the break up already would? just some things to think about! you definately don't want to burn any bridges!How to break up with your girlfriend?
Has she actually done anything wrong? If she hasn't, then sit her down and explain that you don't have the same feelings for her that you used to.
It sounds like you're a bit of an a$$hole to me calling her that.
i don't want to be with you because your'e a whore? double you tee eff, that's HARSH.
do i straight up but not so harsh...
if you loved yourself you'd know that you deserve better and you wouldn't care what she would think because she was unfaithful.
say ';we've grown apart,'; or ';you're not the person who i thought you were'; (referring to the whore part hahaha)
hope it goes well :)
Are u already seeing some other girl?
You can say you're cheating. then she cant want you
someone will be hurt one way or the other so just ignore her continously until she completely gives up and if she asks you why are you doing this? then come out
uhmmm.....
(name) you're a whore. so i dont want to be with you
ahahah
be nice about it. it's going to hurt. you too can be friends.
do something that makes her hate you so you two could break up
straight up. no point in delaying anything.
id go for straight up :)
thanks!How to break up with your girlfriend?
whatever you do, man up and tell her in person. and don't be and a$$hole just so she will break up with you. be honest, but i wouldnt say that you want to break up with her because she is a whore...put yourself in her place. think about how you would want to be broken up with. would you want the girl to cheat or be a ***** to you and hurt you even more than the break up already would? just some things to think about! you definately don't want to burn any bridges!How to break up with your girlfriend?
Has she actually done anything wrong? If she hasn't, then sit her down and explain that you don't have the same feelings for her that you used to.
It sounds like you're a bit of an a$$hole to me calling her that.
i don't want to be with you because your'e a whore? double you tee eff, that's HARSH.
do i straight up but not so harsh...
if you loved yourself you'd know that you deserve better and you wouldn't care what she would think because she was unfaithful.
say ';we've grown apart,'; or ';you're not the person who i thought you were'; (referring to the whore part hahaha)
hope it goes well :)
Are u already seeing some other girl?
You can say you're cheating. then she cant want you
someone will be hurt one way or the other so just ignore her continously until she completely gives up and if she asks you why are you doing this? then come out
uhmmm.....
(name) you're a whore. so i dont want to be with you
ahahah
be nice about it. it's going to hurt. you too can be friends.
do something that makes her hate you so you two could break up
straight up. no point in delaying anything.
id go for straight up :)
Is it wrong to break up with my girlfriend because she had an abortion in the past?
It was two years ago before we met I have just found out ... I loved her before but now I feel nothing when I look at her, I don't think I can be with someone who would do something like that no matter how much I care about themIs it wrong to break up with my girlfriend because she had an abortion in the past?
Be sure you have the full story from her. Figure out how she feels about it now, if she regrets it, she's probably a stronger person for it. If she seems nonchalant or without any guilt, I would move on.Is it wrong to break up with my girlfriend because she had an abortion in the past?
WOW. That is the worst example of punishing someone over something they CANNOT CHANGE from the PAST that I have ever seen. It had nothing to do with you, it was a hard decision that SHE already is haunted by, and believe me, it was NOT an easy or fun thing to do. I have to give her CREDIT for KNOWING she was NOT ready to be a Mom.
No matter how emotional you want to get over something that frankly is none of your business, you need to know that she is a very strong and much more MATURE person than YOU.
umm....why do women get abortion? Oh yes....sometimes they get abortion because a dude injected his sperm into her and when he found out she was preggers he denied it was his and wanted nothing to do with it so this woman did not want to give birth to a baby who'd probably b fatherless which is unfair since it takes 2 to tango....the father was not willing to help her through her pregnancy...now i dont know u circumstance but that could b y she did it. women don't wake up one morning and decide to get an abortion...it is a serious decision they make and they are usually under a dire circumstance. please try not to judge her....i am sure u arent 100% innocent either and have probably done something in the past she doesn't know about.
Abortion is a ';funny'; word that stirs up emotions always. There are 2 groups.
1. It's okay to have one.
2. It's never okay to have one.
If you and her are a 1 and a 2 then this will always bug you, so it's best if you part ways. You don't want it to be 2 years from now and you are still trying to reconcile this in your own mind. (Meaning that you wasted your time with her).
tsk tsk tsk. Doesn't sound like you were really in love to me. But I guess I can put myself in your shoes and understand where your coming from. It goes against your morals, and its best to find someone who's morals match up with yours so you can have a full and healthy relationship. But if you really feel this way, break it off with her and don't pull her heart strings any longer.
P.S. You know 1 in 4 women will have at least one abortion before they turn 44? Just saying. She can't change her past all you can do is look towards the future.
dude i disagree with abortions but you say you loved her before? well did you? cos if you did it was conditional love...on the basis that you love her on the conditions you set her....unconditional love is real,but i think most of us would find it hard maintain...we are humans we judge each other but we also make MISTAKES.
just think if she hadnt had the abortion..would you 2 be together?
talk it through
If you don't love her anymore, then it's time to break up. I suggest you revise your opinion about abortions. Not all kinds of abortion are wrong. It would be nice to talk to your girlfriend about the circumstances that prompted her to have an abortion.
the girl made a mistake and at that time she felt that was her best option. if your that shallow not to forgive and forget then your right you should probably drop her because you dont deserve her.not saying her decision was right, but it was her decision at the time
its really her choice that shouldn't affect your relationship unless you were the one who got her pregnant and would be the father of the baby. if not its her choice shouldn't have anything to do with you
As much as I hate Abortion, it was in her past, BEFORE you.
What are the background details of the abortion etc.
unless I know the details for why she did it I couldn't give proper advice
You're going to break up with her for doing something that was none of your business to begin with? She deserves better than some anti-choice shallow twit like you. Hopefully she will find a real man who will respect her body and her choices.
It depends. Does she regret having an abortion? if yes then it's possible to forgive her but if not then chuck her as quickly as you can.
No it is not wrong... abortion is murder...
well yes. you have to learn to forgive so that u are also forgiven by God or others
move on then
Be sure you have the full story from her. Figure out how she feels about it now, if she regrets it, she's probably a stronger person for it. If she seems nonchalant or without any guilt, I would move on.Is it wrong to break up with my girlfriend because she had an abortion in the past?
WOW. That is the worst example of punishing someone over something they CANNOT CHANGE from the PAST that I have ever seen. It had nothing to do with you, it was a hard decision that SHE already is haunted by, and believe me, it was NOT an easy or fun thing to do. I have to give her CREDIT for KNOWING she was NOT ready to be a Mom.
No matter how emotional you want to get over something that frankly is none of your business, you need to know that she is a very strong and much more MATURE person than YOU.
umm....why do women get abortion? Oh yes....sometimes they get abortion because a dude injected his sperm into her and when he found out she was preggers he denied it was his and wanted nothing to do with it so this woman did not want to give birth to a baby who'd probably b fatherless which is unfair since it takes 2 to tango....the father was not willing to help her through her pregnancy...now i dont know u circumstance but that could b y she did it. women don't wake up one morning and decide to get an abortion...it is a serious decision they make and they are usually under a dire circumstance. please try not to judge her....i am sure u arent 100% innocent either and have probably done something in the past she doesn't know about.
Abortion is a ';funny'; word that stirs up emotions always. There are 2 groups.
1. It's okay to have one.
2. It's never okay to have one.
If you and her are a 1 and a 2 then this will always bug you, so it's best if you part ways. You don't want it to be 2 years from now and you are still trying to reconcile this in your own mind. (Meaning that you wasted your time with her).
tsk tsk tsk. Doesn't sound like you were really in love to me. But I guess I can put myself in your shoes and understand where your coming from. It goes against your morals, and its best to find someone who's morals match up with yours so you can have a full and healthy relationship. But if you really feel this way, break it off with her and don't pull her heart strings any longer.
P.S. You know 1 in 4 women will have at least one abortion before they turn 44? Just saying. She can't change her past all you can do is look towards the future.
dude i disagree with abortions but you say you loved her before? well did you? cos if you did it was conditional love...on the basis that you love her on the conditions you set her....unconditional love is real,but i think most of us would find it hard maintain...we are humans we judge each other but we also make MISTAKES.
just think if she hadnt had the abortion..would you 2 be together?
talk it through
If you don't love her anymore, then it's time to break up. I suggest you revise your opinion about abortions. Not all kinds of abortion are wrong. It would be nice to talk to your girlfriend about the circumstances that prompted her to have an abortion.
the girl made a mistake and at that time she felt that was her best option. if your that shallow not to forgive and forget then your right you should probably drop her because you dont deserve her.not saying her decision was right, but it was her decision at the time
its really her choice that shouldn't affect your relationship unless you were the one who got her pregnant and would be the father of the baby. if not its her choice shouldn't have anything to do with you
As much as I hate Abortion, it was in her past, BEFORE you.
What are the background details of the abortion etc.
unless I know the details for why she did it I couldn't give proper advice
You're going to break up with her for doing something that was none of your business to begin with? She deserves better than some anti-choice shallow twit like you. Hopefully she will find a real man who will respect her body and her choices.
It depends. Does she regret having an abortion? if yes then it's possible to forgive her but if not then chuck her as quickly as you can.
No it is not wrong... abortion is murder...
well yes. you have to learn to forgive so that u are also forgiven by God or others
move on then
Is it okay for me to break up with my girlfriend if I found out she has a terminal cancer and will die in 2 yr?
She has cancer so I know our relationship can't last. How do I let her go?Is it okay for me to break up with my girlfriend if I found out she has a terminal cancer and will die in 2 yr?
buy a life insurance policy on her before you dump her.....Is it okay for me to break up with my girlfriend if I found out she has a terminal cancer and will die in 2 yr?
No, in my opinion you should absolutely not break up with your GF if you found out she is going to die in 2 years from terminal cancer. If you break up with her it will break her heart and reveal how shallow you are. That could actually speed up her deterioration because it would make her feel like she's unloved and doesn't deserve to live. However, being with her, supporting her every step of the way and making it very clear you're not going to give up on her could give her the strength to defy the odds and live beyond 2 years. There are cases where people have miraculous recoveries or go into remission, and if you're by her side you increase the chances of her fighting that cancer with every breath in her body and not giving up because she knows she is deeply loved, no matter what happens.
One possibility to consider is to get her pregnant. If she's not too weak already, that is. If she has a baby in 9 months or so then at least she will have left a legacy behind, even if that child would grow up without a mother. But that's only if she wants a child too and is willing to leave something of herself behind.
If people that got married had your attitude of ';I know our relationship can't last'; then no one would get married. Think about it. EVERYONE dies. It's inevitable. It's a part of life. Only in the realm of fantasy does anyone live on forever. So would it be fair for me to say ';Oh, my girlfriend has terminal aging and will die in 60 years. I know our relationship can't last (because she'll eventually die of old age or some disease associated with old age). How do I let her go?';
The point I'm trying to make is to make very second, every moment, count with this woman if you truly care about her and ever truly loved her. Whether it's 60 years or 2 years, the time we spend with the people we love is precious and should be used to the best effect. Like the one song I think by Nickelback says ';If today was your last day...'; or the other song by another artist with the lyrics ';We gotta live like we're dying'; we are all terminally ill...it's what we do with the time remaining that matters.
I really hope you stay with her. Good luck to you and her, even if 2 years is all you have with her.
This is a very difficult question that only you can think of. No one can tell you that you have to stick by her because at the end of the day Its not them that have to. You need to decide how much you love this girl. Do you want to treasure every moment that you have with her or do you think it's best to leave before you get too involved?
It may make things harder if you get closer and then lose her but you may regret not hanging on to every moment with her.
Sorry I couldn't be of more help. I hope everything works out for the best for you.
Think about your decision carefully and don't let people make you feel guilty. do what feels right.
If she just found out, it's going to be hard to tell her. Let her accept the idea that she is going to die and try to imagine it in her point of view. If you have to break up with her, try to be in her life. Help her as much as you can and be there for her. If you still love her and this is the only reason you're breaking up with her, I would consider still being with her. Or at least being in her life. I can't say it's bad to break up with her but ultimately it's your decision. Despite her condition, try to think. Do you love her or not? If you do, be in her life. Otherwise, when she accepts her condition and is in a good enough state have a nice long talk with her. Be as sensitive as possible and explain ur situation. She will be even more emotional than normal so be careful. Good luck
I can understand why you would think about leaving her, its ok to be scared but think about it, she is more scared, she only has two years to live and what could be worse that on top of that her boyfriend breaks up with her. Don't stay with her because of pity though, only stay if you love her.Anyway make these last two years count, do anything she wants and make sure she gets to do everything she ever wanted before she dies, treat her right and the most important thing is stay with her until the end.
I really don't think that it is a good idea to break up with her during this time in her life. She is going through a very tough time in her life and this will just make it worst. I think that you should just wait for the two years to be over because you can be the person who makes the rest of her life worth living.
Dude, be there for her. Don't be a douche and leave her just because of that!
Show her you actually care. If you leave her now, she might die earlier by getting a heart attack from stress or something.
By asking this question you create the impression of being a shallow, insensitive, callous waste of space. She is best rid of you to make the best of the 2 years she has left with somebody a damn sight more human.
No, you shouldn't break up with her b/c of the cancer. But you obviously want to so I guess you should.
';the relationship can't last';.......what, is your biological clock ticking or s/t?
get a life insurence policy on her first of all then hang out and wait for the money to roll in
buy a life insurance policy on her before you dump her.....Is it okay for me to break up with my girlfriend if I found out she has a terminal cancer and will die in 2 yr?
No, in my opinion you should absolutely not break up with your GF if you found out she is going to die in 2 years from terminal cancer. If you break up with her it will break her heart and reveal how shallow you are. That could actually speed up her deterioration because it would make her feel like she's unloved and doesn't deserve to live. However, being with her, supporting her every step of the way and making it very clear you're not going to give up on her could give her the strength to defy the odds and live beyond 2 years. There are cases where people have miraculous recoveries or go into remission, and if you're by her side you increase the chances of her fighting that cancer with every breath in her body and not giving up because she knows she is deeply loved, no matter what happens.
One possibility to consider is to get her pregnant. If she's not too weak already, that is. If she has a baby in 9 months or so then at least she will have left a legacy behind, even if that child would grow up without a mother. But that's only if she wants a child too and is willing to leave something of herself behind.
If people that got married had your attitude of ';I know our relationship can't last'; then no one would get married. Think about it. EVERYONE dies. It's inevitable. It's a part of life. Only in the realm of fantasy does anyone live on forever. So would it be fair for me to say ';Oh, my girlfriend has terminal aging and will die in 60 years. I know our relationship can't last (because she'll eventually die of old age or some disease associated with old age). How do I let her go?';
The point I'm trying to make is to make very second, every moment, count with this woman if you truly care about her and ever truly loved her. Whether it's 60 years or 2 years, the time we spend with the people we love is precious and should be used to the best effect. Like the one song I think by Nickelback says ';If today was your last day...'; or the other song by another artist with the lyrics ';We gotta live like we're dying'; we are all terminally ill...it's what we do with the time remaining that matters.
I really hope you stay with her. Good luck to you and her, even if 2 years is all you have with her.
This is a very difficult question that only you can think of. No one can tell you that you have to stick by her because at the end of the day Its not them that have to. You need to decide how much you love this girl. Do you want to treasure every moment that you have with her or do you think it's best to leave before you get too involved?
It may make things harder if you get closer and then lose her but you may regret not hanging on to every moment with her.
Sorry I couldn't be of more help. I hope everything works out for the best for you.
Think about your decision carefully and don't let people make you feel guilty. do what feels right.
If she just found out, it's going to be hard to tell her. Let her accept the idea that she is going to die and try to imagine it in her point of view. If you have to break up with her, try to be in her life. Help her as much as you can and be there for her. If you still love her and this is the only reason you're breaking up with her, I would consider still being with her. Or at least being in her life. I can't say it's bad to break up with her but ultimately it's your decision. Despite her condition, try to think. Do you love her or not? If you do, be in her life. Otherwise, when she accepts her condition and is in a good enough state have a nice long talk with her. Be as sensitive as possible and explain ur situation. She will be even more emotional than normal so be careful. Good luck
I can understand why you would think about leaving her, its ok to be scared but think about it, she is more scared, she only has two years to live and what could be worse that on top of that her boyfriend breaks up with her. Don't stay with her because of pity though, only stay if you love her.Anyway make these last two years count, do anything she wants and make sure she gets to do everything she ever wanted before she dies, treat her right and the most important thing is stay with her until the end.
I really don't think that it is a good idea to break up with her during this time in her life. She is going through a very tough time in her life and this will just make it worst. I think that you should just wait for the two years to be over because you can be the person who makes the rest of her life worth living.
Dude, be there for her. Don't be a douche and leave her just because of that!
Show her you actually care. If you leave her now, she might die earlier by getting a heart attack from stress or something.
By asking this question you create the impression of being a shallow, insensitive, callous waste of space. She is best rid of you to make the best of the 2 years she has left with somebody a damn sight more human.
No, you shouldn't break up with her b/c of the cancer. But you obviously want to so I guess you should.
';the relationship can't last';.......what, is your biological clock ticking or s/t?
get a life insurence policy on her first of all then hang out and wait for the money to roll in
Should I try to convince a guy i like to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me?
We have been hanging out a lot and we both innocently flirt with each other, and i know he likes me. But he has a girlfriend, and i don't know how happy he is in his relationship because his girlfriend isn't allowed to date, so their relationship is difficult.Should I try to convince a guy i like to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me?
you need to straight up ask him how he feels about you. if he admits to having feelings for you then continue hanging out with him. maybie from there u can learn more about their relationship. he may start to fall for you if he learns he can spend more time with you rather then her.Should I try to convince a guy i like to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me?
And just how do you know all of this? How do you know the relationship is difficult just because the lady in question is not allowed to date? Has he actually verbalised this? Yes, he may like you, I like my male friends but I don't want to get into a relationship with them. Believe me, once a man is interested in you he homes in like a heat seeking missile because that is the way men are programmed. I think you are mistaking friendship for flirting. Give up and look out for the missile that may be trained on you without you even being aware of it!
NOOOOOOOOOOOO don't do it that!!! You never want to push anyone to break up with another person because of the way your feeling, if he likes you as much as you like him then he would do it his self and on his terms. Be patient if it don't happen soon then just ask about the relationship not in detail just to find out where they stand and if they don't break up after that conversation then he might not.
Good Luck
hell no! dnt do wat is seen as selfish and low, u wudnt wish something liek that upon urself so y do it someone else's relationship? if he finds it hard to be with her he will break up in his own time all u can do is wait. there are diff kinda guys out there some get fed up easily n break up but then there are some who dnt care if they cant go out if he loves her not goin out with her doesnt mean its the end of the relationship or the world. he's a fool to be flirting with u coz he has a gf already n if his flirting means he likes than he shud be man enuf to break up first b4 he makes any move. as for u im sure u dnt have bad intentions but this will lead to bad situation if u continue u shud be the bigger person n tell him upfront that if he likes his gf then he shudnt be beating around the bush while he leaves another one hanging. this aint fair on the other girl too (his gf). and remember wat goes around comes around! meaning if u do this n cause the relationship to break up it wud happen to u to, everything comes around n everyone gets punished for their bad actions.
besides think logically a guy who can flirt with u while he has a gf himself .......wat are the chances he wont do the same to u????? guys like that are pathetic n its so silly for girls to fall for them jus coz they leave their gf's for them not realising if he can do it to her he can always do it to me too.
be the better person n stay away from doin this.
Don't try to convince him to break up with his girlfriend that will make you look bad. just say ';I know you have a girlfriend, but i think we have a lot of fun together and i like you. i don't know if you feel the same, but if things don't work out with her give me a call.'; but also let him know you're not going to wait around forever because your time is precious and you're not desperate.
NO! trust me, you NEVER want to be the ';other woman'; or the ***** that does that. let things happen naturally, or ask him if he wants to be with her for a long time...but don't try to ';convince'; him, let him handle things or your gonna always be blamed
No ...dont be a homewrecker. If he ends up dumping her let him do it on his own account, not because you pushed him. It's likely that you will be called numerous names even if you dont convince him so dont push it sister. Just be patient and sit back and wait.
before you do anything yu need to be absolutley positive about how he feels about yu. if hes legit id say go for it. you think other girls are gonna thinkn twice about doing it to you in the future.
no because thats a 13itchy move
so no dont do it, what if u went out with him and some girl tried to break you two up, and he broke up with you
how would you feel?
Well no,
cuz then people will know and find out bout it and not trust you and some ppl will hate you.
then if you and him break up it will be all for nothing.
Yeah i have the same problem but im going to wait so i don't get blamed for anything. He will eventually break up with her (:
NO you shouldn't do that.
Wait untill they break up..... then be the first one to ask him out then!
Good luck!
no just wait it out
if u force them to break up, it will make u look bad and desparate
lol you are funny
dude thats wrong why would you do that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you need to straight up ask him how he feels about you. if he admits to having feelings for you then continue hanging out with him. maybie from there u can learn more about their relationship. he may start to fall for you if he learns he can spend more time with you rather then her.Should I try to convince a guy i like to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me?
And just how do you know all of this? How do you know the relationship is difficult just because the lady in question is not allowed to date? Has he actually verbalised this? Yes, he may like you, I like my male friends but I don't want to get into a relationship with them. Believe me, once a man is interested in you he homes in like a heat seeking missile because that is the way men are programmed. I think you are mistaking friendship for flirting. Give up and look out for the missile that may be trained on you without you even being aware of it!
NOOOOOOOOOOOO don't do it that!!! You never want to push anyone to break up with another person because of the way your feeling, if he likes you as much as you like him then he would do it his self and on his terms. Be patient if it don't happen soon then just ask about the relationship not in detail just to find out where they stand and if they don't break up after that conversation then he might not.
Good Luck
hell no! dnt do wat is seen as selfish and low, u wudnt wish something liek that upon urself so y do it someone else's relationship? if he finds it hard to be with her he will break up in his own time all u can do is wait. there are diff kinda guys out there some get fed up easily n break up but then there are some who dnt care if they cant go out if he loves her not goin out with her doesnt mean its the end of the relationship or the world. he's a fool to be flirting with u coz he has a gf already n if his flirting means he likes than he shud be man enuf to break up first b4 he makes any move. as for u im sure u dnt have bad intentions but this will lead to bad situation if u continue u shud be the bigger person n tell him upfront that if he likes his gf then he shudnt be beating around the bush while he leaves another one hanging. this aint fair on the other girl too (his gf). and remember wat goes around comes around! meaning if u do this n cause the relationship to break up it wud happen to u to, everything comes around n everyone gets punished for their bad actions.
besides think logically a guy who can flirt with u while he has a gf himself .......wat are the chances he wont do the same to u????? guys like that are pathetic n its so silly for girls to fall for them jus coz they leave their gf's for them not realising if he can do it to her he can always do it to me too.
be the better person n stay away from doin this.
Don't try to convince him to break up with his girlfriend that will make you look bad. just say ';I know you have a girlfriend, but i think we have a lot of fun together and i like you. i don't know if you feel the same, but if things don't work out with her give me a call.'; but also let him know you're not going to wait around forever because your time is precious and you're not desperate.
NO! trust me, you NEVER want to be the ';other woman'; or the ***** that does that. let things happen naturally, or ask him if he wants to be with her for a long time...but don't try to ';convince'; him, let him handle things or your gonna always be blamed
No ...dont be a homewrecker. If he ends up dumping her let him do it on his own account, not because you pushed him. It's likely that you will be called numerous names even if you dont convince him so dont push it sister. Just be patient and sit back and wait.
before you do anything yu need to be absolutley positive about how he feels about yu. if hes legit id say go for it. you think other girls are gonna thinkn twice about doing it to you in the future.
no because thats a 13itchy move
so no dont do it, what if u went out with him and some girl tried to break you two up, and he broke up with you
how would you feel?
Well no,
cuz then people will know and find out bout it and not trust you and some ppl will hate you.
then if you and him break up it will be all for nothing.
Yeah i have the same problem but im going to wait so i don't get blamed for anything. He will eventually break up with her (:
NO you shouldn't do that.
Wait untill they break up..... then be the first one to ask him out then!
Good luck!
no just wait it out
if u force them to break up, it will make u look bad and desparate
lol you are funny
dude thats wrong why would you do that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
How do i break up with my girlfriend?
I've been dating this girl, for about to be 4 months. I don't want to spend my whole high school career with her. The thing is is that she is a great girl and she has done nothing wrong to me.. What do I do?How do i break up with my girlfriend?
Tell her she deserves better because obviously she does if you are going to break up with her for no reason..How do i break up with my girlfriend?
You just have to meet up with her, and tell her that she is great, but your just not that into her anymore. You can't sugar cote a break up.
be true to her. tell her how you feel exactly how you feel. and tell her that you just want to be friends. let her know she has done nothing wrong.
tell her how you feel, but don't say maybe we can be friends. if you guys are gonna be friends after just let it happen. make sure you say sorry
you should tell her straight up that you would like some space, that you want to enjoy your high school career.
tell her that u dont want her to suffer because u just are not in love anymore... SIMPLE! u have to try diff. people.... get some mo expierience!!!
Say that you think that its working out too well
just dump the slutt!!!!
tell her that your best friend said she gave him head and you hate her now
Tell her she deserves better because obviously she does if you are going to break up with her for no reason..How do i break up with my girlfriend?
You just have to meet up with her, and tell her that she is great, but your just not that into her anymore. You can't sugar cote a break up.
be true to her. tell her how you feel exactly how you feel. and tell her that you just want to be friends. let her know she has done nothing wrong.
tell her how you feel, but don't say maybe we can be friends. if you guys are gonna be friends after just let it happen. make sure you say sorry
you should tell her straight up that you would like some space, that you want to enjoy your high school career.
tell her that u dont want her to suffer because u just are not in love anymore... SIMPLE! u have to try diff. people.... get some mo expierience!!!
Say that you think that its working out too well
just dump the slutt!!!!
tell her that your best friend said she gave him head and you hate her now
HOW DO I BREAK UP WITH MY GIRLFRIEND?
I dont want to break up with her but i never see her anymore because we go to different high schools. What do I say?HOW DO I BREAK UP WITH MY GIRLFRIEND?
sorry not much you can do...either you dont end it and get to see her every now and then...or you do end it and she will get pissed and wont understand but she will move on like was already said...you will have to decide what you want to doHOW DO I BREAK UP WITH MY GIRLFRIEND?
Do you want to break up? Then call her and discuss that getting together is going to be more difficult because you are in different schools.
Do you want to stay with her? Then call her and say you miss her and ask how and when you can meet with her.
Just tell her it is not so good for either of you to keep seeing each other because you go to different schools and you would like to venture out with friends from your own school.
If you don't want to then don't! But if you want to just be sweet and honest. She will be pissed an sad but she will move on sooner or later.
Good luck!
Nothing - just stop talking to her and she will find someone else.
say look this has been so great but now that we dont go to the same school or see each other very often im starting to loose feelings with you and see what she says
suggest a hiatus?
can't you see your girl during the weekends?
sorry not much you can do...either you dont end it and get to see her every now and then...or you do end it and she will get pissed and wont understand but she will move on like was already said...you will have to decide what you want to doHOW DO I BREAK UP WITH MY GIRLFRIEND?
Do you want to break up? Then call her and discuss that getting together is going to be more difficult because you are in different schools.
Do you want to stay with her? Then call her and say you miss her and ask how and when you can meet with her.
Just tell her it is not so good for either of you to keep seeing each other because you go to different schools and you would like to venture out with friends from your own school.
If you don't want to then don't! But if you want to just be sweet and honest. She will be pissed an sad but she will move on sooner or later.
Good luck!
Nothing - just stop talking to her and she will find someone else.
say look this has been so great but now that we dont go to the same school or see each other very often im starting to loose feelings with you and see what she says
suggest a hiatus?
can't you see your girl during the weekends?
How should I break up with my girlfriend? (In Middle School)?
My girlfriend for a month now has recently started to act awkward around me and we just dont talk like we used to. She's one of my best buds and we live in the same building and go to the same school. How can I break up with her and not have it be awkward after since I see her so many times during the day?How should I break up with my girlfriend? (In Middle School)?
i'm in middle school too (8th grade girl)
being dumped always sucks, i know. but if i was being dumped i'd definitely say do it in person. texting/calling makes you look stupid. and just say: hey, you're really awesome and you're a great friend of mine blahblahblah but i think we should just be friends. i don't want you to me mad mat me, i care about you, yahda yahda yahda.
just tell her that kinda crap. and if she starts crying just give her a hug and be like im so sorry...
sorry bro, that's all i got. i'm about as experienced as you.How should I break up with my girlfriend? (In Middle School)?
well first, in my opinion, if you think shes acting awkward and you think she is someone you can trust, then just ask her to talk to you and tell her you think she is acting different and that u really dont like it... if the conversation goes somewhere you don't like, then just tell her that you like her but you think you should just be friends...
Whatever you do, DO NOT, break up over the phone. If you do it face to face, she'll respect you for being man enough to do so. It's something about over-the-phone breakups that really bothers us girls. If you really, really want to break up with her, then do so, but maybe you should talk to her about your relationship problems. Lots of relationships end when they could've sorted their problems out. I hope I helped a little.
just be extremely nice about the whole thing.and say that you like her a lot but you liked it better when you guys were just really close friends. from my experience, in middle school as long as you're really nice about how you break up with her, you two will stay friends. its not like you guys have really done anything anyways that you would be in a real relationship
Breaking up just because of that? That's cold. Just tell her you notice she's acting like that and she'll stop.
how do u know it's not something up with u not ur gf?!?!
youre in middle school.
maybe she wants to break up but shes thinking the same thing?
Well then..that's up to you buddy.
i'm in middle school too (8th grade girl)
being dumped always sucks, i know. but if i was being dumped i'd definitely say do it in person. texting/calling makes you look stupid. and just say: hey, you're really awesome and you're a great friend of mine blahblahblah but i think we should just be friends. i don't want you to me mad mat me, i care about you, yahda yahda yahda.
just tell her that kinda crap. and if she starts crying just give her a hug and be like im so sorry...
sorry bro, that's all i got. i'm about as experienced as you.How should I break up with my girlfriend? (In Middle School)?
well first, in my opinion, if you think shes acting awkward and you think she is someone you can trust, then just ask her to talk to you and tell her you think she is acting different and that u really dont like it... if the conversation goes somewhere you don't like, then just tell her that you like her but you think you should just be friends...
Whatever you do, DO NOT, break up over the phone. If you do it face to face, she'll respect you for being man enough to do so. It's something about over-the-phone breakups that really bothers us girls. If you really, really want to break up with her, then do so, but maybe you should talk to her about your relationship problems. Lots of relationships end when they could've sorted their problems out. I hope I helped a little.
just be extremely nice about the whole thing.and say that you like her a lot but you liked it better when you guys were just really close friends. from my experience, in middle school as long as you're really nice about how you break up with her, you two will stay friends. its not like you guys have really done anything anyways that you would be in a real relationship
Breaking up just because of that? That's cold. Just tell her you notice she's acting like that and she'll stop.
how do u know it's not something up with u not ur gf?!?!
youre in middle school.
maybe she wants to break up but shes thinking the same thing?
Well then..that's up to you buddy.
How do you get a 14 year old to break up with his girlfriend with out ruining your chances with him?
I really like this guy, but he is dating one of my.... well sort of friends........ I want to have my chance with himHow do you get a 14 year old to break up with his girlfriend with out ruining your chances with him?
its a relationship at the age of 14. It will end soon. Just wait it out.
its a relationship at the age of 14. It will end soon. Just wait it out.
How would i break up with my girlfriend for my ex without sounding horrible?
ok i love my current girlfriend but we only connect physically. and i feel like the only thing thats keeping this relationship together is lust. i dont want to hurt her feelings but i dont want to build a relationship on lust. my ex was talking to me and confessed she still liked me. i broke up with her because she was changing and was way too open so i thought if i wasnt around she could do whatever she wanted and be happy, damn was i wrong. now i feel horrible for breaking up with her and now shes changing for the better. lately ive just been feeling like i wanted to be with her terribly bad that i started crying.
so really how do i break up with a girl that my hormones went crazy for, for a girl that i actually loved but made a mistake with? =[How would i break up with my girlfriend for my ex without sounding horrible?
Well, it does sound kind of bad, however, you cant tell your heart what to feel. If your current gf only stimulates you sexually, then its bad for her too because she is wasting her time with a guy who doesnt appreciate or understand who she is on a personal level (not saying its a bad thing, some people just dont have that kind of chemistry).
Tell her openly and honestly. Please, before doing anything though...ARE YOU SURE THIS IS WHAT U WANT? Once you tell her this, theres no going back...and if you realize that your feelings was just nostalgia, and that you really love your current gf...you will have serious issues buddy.
Also, are you sure ur ex has changed? Sometimes we potray to be people we are not. You should know, as time passes by we get to the know the real person. Just because you guys been chatting doesnt mean what she tells you is the truth.
Anyway, if you are ready, just be open and honest. Tell her its not working out, you feel she deserves better. You dont feel a connection. If she is in love with you, yes you will break her heart, but life goes on.
Good Luck. How would i break up with my girlfriend for my ex without sounding horrible?
Well, first off, you can't love your current gf if the only connection is lust! Really, you should keep this from your current gf - the whole wanting to get back with your ex. Break up with your gf, be honest about the only connection being physical - but don't tell her you want to be with your ex. Just wait around, let things cool off, then get back with your ex after awhile. You will start so much drama if you tell your gf that you are leaving her for your ex and you will sound like an asshole.
Simple girls want the truth no matter how much it hurts. Let your current gf know how you really feel. Tell her that you don't think you could build a real relationship off of lust alone, that you want more. And yes this will hurt her feelings but lets face it you can't break up with someone in a nice way, no matter how hard you try.
Just tell her that you just don't really have any feelings for her. Don't tell her about you getting back with your ex. Good Luck!!!
Well I am a chick and honestly there is no easier way than just simply telling her the truth. I don't know if you want your current girlfriend or should I say future-ex as your friend but you never know what your future holds and I can honestly say that I have been hurt by some scum bags but mostly because they were not man enough to just tell the truth. Don't let that be you. Just be a man and tell her what you put above about you feel like you only connect with her physically and that's not all you are looking for. Chances are if there is something that is not there, it's probably missing on both sides. I know that was the case with my past relations anyway. She may totally agree and it may be better than you expected. I really don't think you need to let her know too much, like you are going back to your ex. And just some words of advice. I wouldn't jump back in with the ex either, I mean have fun and go out, but take your time and ease back into your relationship with her. There is no reason to rush if neither one of you are going anywhere, right?
Hope this helps! Good luck!hair growth internet explorer
so really how do i break up with a girl that my hormones went crazy for, for a girl that i actually loved but made a mistake with? =[How would i break up with my girlfriend for my ex without sounding horrible?
Well, it does sound kind of bad, however, you cant tell your heart what to feel. If your current gf only stimulates you sexually, then its bad for her too because she is wasting her time with a guy who doesnt appreciate or understand who she is on a personal level (not saying its a bad thing, some people just dont have that kind of chemistry).
Tell her openly and honestly. Please, before doing anything though...ARE YOU SURE THIS IS WHAT U WANT? Once you tell her this, theres no going back...and if you realize that your feelings was just nostalgia, and that you really love your current gf...you will have serious issues buddy.
Also, are you sure ur ex has changed? Sometimes we potray to be people we are not. You should know, as time passes by we get to the know the real person. Just because you guys been chatting doesnt mean what she tells you is the truth.
Anyway, if you are ready, just be open and honest. Tell her its not working out, you feel she deserves better. You dont feel a connection. If she is in love with you, yes you will break her heart, but life goes on.
Good Luck. How would i break up with my girlfriend for my ex without sounding horrible?
Well, first off, you can't love your current gf if the only connection is lust! Really, you should keep this from your current gf - the whole wanting to get back with your ex. Break up with your gf, be honest about the only connection being physical - but don't tell her you want to be with your ex. Just wait around, let things cool off, then get back with your ex after awhile. You will start so much drama if you tell your gf that you are leaving her for your ex and you will sound like an asshole.
Simple girls want the truth no matter how much it hurts. Let your current gf know how you really feel. Tell her that you don't think you could build a real relationship off of lust alone, that you want more. And yes this will hurt her feelings but lets face it you can't break up with someone in a nice way, no matter how hard you try.
Just tell her that you just don't really have any feelings for her. Don't tell her about you getting back with your ex. Good Luck!!!
Well I am a chick and honestly there is no easier way than just simply telling her the truth. I don't know if you want your current girlfriend or should I say future-ex as your friend but you never know what your future holds and I can honestly say that I have been hurt by some scum bags but mostly because they were not man enough to just tell the truth. Don't let that be you. Just be a man and tell her what you put above about you feel like you only connect with her physically and that's not all you are looking for. Chances are if there is something that is not there, it's probably missing on both sides. I know that was the case with my past relations anyway. She may totally agree and it may be better than you expected. I really don't think you need to let her know too much, like you are going back to your ex. And just some words of advice. I wouldn't jump back in with the ex either, I mean have fun and go out, but take your time and ease back into your relationship with her. There is no reason to rush if neither one of you are going anywhere, right?
Hope this helps! Good luck!
Men if your girlfriend was to break up with you would you immediately find comfort in another girl's arms?
Some people cover their pain with a break up by jumping into a rebound relationship with others. I want to know from a man's point of view. How do you cope ?Men if your girlfriend was to break up with you would you immediately find comfort in another girl's arms?
Well, I know that you asked men, but pain is a human thing and the reaction to it is also human nature...
I personally jump into the bed of another man. I think that rebound sex is paramount in the recovery process.Men if your girlfriend was to break up with you would you immediately find comfort in another girl's arms?
I'll wait till the pain is gone then move on to another.
yes
Well, I know that you asked men, but pain is a human thing and the reaction to it is also human nature...
I personally jump into the bed of another man. I think that rebound sex is paramount in the recovery process.Men if your girlfriend was to break up with you would you immediately find comfort in another girl's arms?
I'll wait till the pain is gone then move on to another.
yes
How should I break up with my girlfriend?
I have been going out with this great girl for a year and four months. But its my senior year and I wanna experience single college life WITHOUT losing her for good. Also it would be great if I could continue to hook up with her. What should I do? How can I hook up with other girls and still her?
PS. I know there are girls I could hook up with, I just know that my girlfriend will almost certainly find out.How should I break up with my girlfriend?
just tell her that you think its about time yall take a break from each other and experience new things and new people just make sure you keep in touch and stay friendsHow should I break up with my girlfriend?
That's so wrong, I don't think you should do it at all. If she's so great she should be enough and you shouldn't be worried about other girls. You shouldn't do that to her.
Try to say wonderful lie.
just be honest. Put it out there for her and if she understands, cool for u, and if she thinks ur a @ssbag, then she'd be right.
well tell her you want an open relationship a time for you and her to explore other things
You're an @ss! Typical guy, trying to have his cake and eat it too. You don't deserve a girl.
Your a sick perverted dog like the rest .
A man who wants his cake and wants to eat it too. You want to keep her around because you know she is a good girl and worthy of marriage, probably.
But you feel the need to sew your wild oats (BARF)..
Grow up and let her go - she is too good for you. Let her find the man that is willing to love her like she deserves. You on the other hand - continue to be the slob you want to be - and pray you dont end up with HIV.
Good luck to you on this one! Why don't you tell her you think the two of you should start seeing other people since you are going to be at college soon and you won't see her all the time like before. If it's meant to be between the two of you then it will work out.
Be up front, don't weasel around like a coward. Apparently you want to do her but not be just with her when you go to college. So tell her ';I want to do other girls at college and still do you.'; Chances are you will lose her but at least you will have your self respect. Take some Kleenex to give her. Try not to lead any college girls along. Tell them that you are only looking to do them and they wont be surprised like you are going to surprise your nice young girlfriend.
PS. I know there are girls I could hook up with, I just know that my girlfriend will almost certainly find out.How should I break up with my girlfriend?
just tell her that you think its about time yall take a break from each other and experience new things and new people just make sure you keep in touch and stay friendsHow should I break up with my girlfriend?
That's so wrong, I don't think you should do it at all. If she's so great she should be enough and you shouldn't be worried about other girls. You shouldn't do that to her.
Try to say wonderful lie.
just be honest. Put it out there for her and if she understands, cool for u, and if she thinks ur a @ssbag, then she'd be right.
well tell her you want an open relationship a time for you and her to explore other things
You're an @ss! Typical guy, trying to have his cake and eat it too. You don't deserve a girl.
Your a sick perverted dog like the rest .
A man who wants his cake and wants to eat it too. You want to keep her around because you know she is a good girl and worthy of marriage, probably.
But you feel the need to sew your wild oats (BARF)..
Grow up and let her go - she is too good for you. Let her find the man that is willing to love her like she deserves. You on the other hand - continue to be the slob you want to be - and pray you dont end up with HIV.
Good luck to you on this one! Why don't you tell her you think the two of you should start seeing other people since you are going to be at college soon and you won't see her all the time like before. If it's meant to be between the two of you then it will work out.
Be up front, don't weasel around like a coward. Apparently you want to do her but not be just with her when you go to college. So tell her ';I want to do other girls at college and still do you.'; Chances are you will lose her but at least you will have your self respect. Take some Kleenex to give her. Try not to lead any college girls along. Tell them that you are only looking to do them and they wont be surprised like you are going to surprise your nice young girlfriend.
My girlfriend broke up with me because she has cancer. How do I get closer to her w/out pushing her away?
I've broken up with my girlfriend because she is sick. At first she didn't know what she had. Her doctors didn't know if it was a tumor or that she has lung cancer until she gets checked up again the following week. She even told me to promise her that if anything, I have to let her go. She told me that she doesn't want me to worry about her. She tried to break up with me 3 times, but one of which became official. I refuse to let her go the first two break ups. So we're still together until she left to the hospital. She thought it was best to let me go and it was hard for both of us. Eventually we broke it up, but never told me what she had. I let her know that im still here for her and that I love her. I hate to let her go through this all alone. I still want to be with her, but im afraid i might push her away. I call her once a week to check up on her and see how she's doing. I have never dealt with anything like this before. I still want to be with her. How do i get closer to her?My girlfriend broke up with me because she has cancer. How do I get closer to her w/out pushing her away?
It's almost like those situations where you are really upset, and someone asks, ';Do you want to talk about it?'; You say no, but secretly hope that they persist, since you really do want someone to talk to.
It's the same with your girlfriend. She doesn't want to burden you with her personal problems. She feels like she is dragging you into her problems and interfering with your life. Let her know that this is just not the case. Still insist on being with her to comfort her, even if you two are just talking about dumb things. Just knowing that someone is there for her is comfort enough.
If you want, try doing something romantic, like sending her flowers or writing her a poem (I hear girls actually like that cheesey stuff). It sounds to me as if she still loves you, and once she comes to understand that she is not troubling you at all, things will come together.
I truly wish the best of luck to the both of you. Tell her I told her to get well soon!My girlfriend broke up with me because she has cancer. How do I get closer to her w/out pushing her away?
give her space and time she prolly needs it right now and she is really maybe freeked out so give her time and comfort her and dont try to force her back into a relationship
U r such a wonderful, caring, nice, loving guy... Shower her with all your luvs and cares. At this stage, she really needs someone to be by her side, to support her. If you really wants to be with her, I suggest you have to act thick skin.... insist being with her, even is she push u away. I always believe, a sick person, no matter how strong or stubborn he or she is... eventually they will still need someone by their side.... Good Luck!!!
Wow you poor thing you're really going through the mill.She's probably in shock if she's just been told she has cancer and that's what makes her not want to hurt you. I don't know what else you can do differently. I know you don't want to be too forward in case you push her away even more. Just keep showing her that you're there for her no matter what, ring ahead and ask can you go and visit her.
Hang in there.
My thoughts are with both of you.If you want to talk contact me by e-mail from my profile page.
It doesn't matter what kind of illness she has, the word cancer is the scariest one, because people attribute it to death. That isn't always the case. I had breast cancer and my husband gave me a walkie talkie and went and did what he needed to do, I didn't need him to watch me puke anyway. He tried to be there for me but it's such a personal illness, especially if it affects a woman's woman hood. So, what to do. Send her cards every week. Soon she will look forward to them and you are there for her. Send balloons, they are so joyous. If she wants to see you, she'll let you know, for now, let the doctors do what they gotta do.
I'm so sorry for all you and she is going through. Really all i can say is keep calling her and letting her know you are there for her if she needs anything. See if she's willing to let you visit as a friend, send her flowers, do things that make her think of you. Overall just let her know you care even if it means your no long bf/gf... I keep you and her in my prayers.
Most cancer patients can go through a few stages upon knowing that they have such a condition. Firstly, they are in shock and denial, then they start bargaining and are confused, then they become angry and guilty (of why they are having cancer), they might fall into depression and then accept what is happening to them.
I'm a nose cancer survivor and went through all of those. I did not know if I would pull through and survive, and did not want my boyfriend to be upset over my condition. At that point of time, we were only together for about 6 months and I thought if we broke up, it would be best for him; he does not have to be with someone who is facing death and who does not know if she will live or not. However, I could not bear to do so because I love him and needed his support badly. Honestly, I don't know if I would be able to type this out now if not without my boyfriend's love and support. Going through near death (doc said I had 2-6 months left) really brought us closer together.
Your girlfriend loves you and she's thinking that by breaking up with you, you'll only be sad for this moment and would not grief too much should her condition worsen (of cos I pray hard that would not happen!).
You really have to shower her with love and support and show her that you really love her and care for her. Tell her you want to go through this with her no matter what happens. You can accompany her whenever she goes for her treatments (my boyfriend did that), buy flowers to cheer her up (my boyfriend did that too) or visit her at home instead of just calling once a week.
Instead of really treating this as a break up, pretend that you two did not even break up and do what a boyfriend should do and shower your love and care when your girlfriend is ill. Wait till she has recover, then you two can discuss about the relationship. Right now, the most important thing is to let her know that you are there for her, loving her, no matter what could happen.
It's almost like those situations where you are really upset, and someone asks, ';Do you want to talk about it?'; You say no, but secretly hope that they persist, since you really do want someone to talk to.
It's the same with your girlfriend. She doesn't want to burden you with her personal problems. She feels like she is dragging you into her problems and interfering with your life. Let her know that this is just not the case. Still insist on being with her to comfort her, even if you two are just talking about dumb things. Just knowing that someone is there for her is comfort enough.
If you want, try doing something romantic, like sending her flowers or writing her a poem (I hear girls actually like that cheesey stuff). It sounds to me as if she still loves you, and once she comes to understand that she is not troubling you at all, things will come together.
I truly wish the best of luck to the both of you. Tell her I told her to get well soon!My girlfriend broke up with me because she has cancer. How do I get closer to her w/out pushing her away?
give her space and time she prolly needs it right now and she is really maybe freeked out so give her time and comfort her and dont try to force her back into a relationship
U r such a wonderful, caring, nice, loving guy... Shower her with all your luvs and cares. At this stage, she really needs someone to be by her side, to support her. If you really wants to be with her, I suggest you have to act thick skin.... insist being with her, even is she push u away. I always believe, a sick person, no matter how strong or stubborn he or she is... eventually they will still need someone by their side.... Good Luck!!!
Wow you poor thing you're really going through the mill.She's probably in shock if she's just been told she has cancer and that's what makes her not want to hurt you. I don't know what else you can do differently. I know you don't want to be too forward in case you push her away even more. Just keep showing her that you're there for her no matter what, ring ahead and ask can you go and visit her.
Hang in there.
My thoughts are with both of you.If you want to talk contact me by e-mail from my profile page.
It doesn't matter what kind of illness she has, the word cancer is the scariest one, because people attribute it to death. That isn't always the case. I had breast cancer and my husband gave me a walkie talkie and went and did what he needed to do, I didn't need him to watch me puke anyway. He tried to be there for me but it's such a personal illness, especially if it affects a woman's woman hood. So, what to do. Send her cards every week. Soon she will look forward to them and you are there for her. Send balloons, they are so joyous. If she wants to see you, she'll let you know, for now, let the doctors do what they gotta do.
I'm so sorry for all you and she is going through. Really all i can say is keep calling her and letting her know you are there for her if she needs anything. See if she's willing to let you visit as a friend, send her flowers, do things that make her think of you. Overall just let her know you care even if it means your no long bf/gf... I keep you and her in my prayers.
Most cancer patients can go through a few stages upon knowing that they have such a condition. Firstly, they are in shock and denial, then they start bargaining and are confused, then they become angry and guilty (of why they are having cancer), they might fall into depression and then accept what is happening to them.
I'm a nose cancer survivor and went through all of those. I did not know if I would pull through and survive, and did not want my boyfriend to be upset over my condition. At that point of time, we were only together for about 6 months and I thought if we broke up, it would be best for him; he does not have to be with someone who is facing death and who does not know if she will live or not. However, I could not bear to do so because I love him and needed his support badly. Honestly, I don't know if I would be able to type this out now if not without my boyfriend's love and support. Going through near death (doc said I had 2-6 months left) really brought us closer together.
Your girlfriend loves you and she's thinking that by breaking up with you, you'll only be sad for this moment and would not grief too much should her condition worsen (of cos I pray hard that would not happen!).
You really have to shower her with love and support and show her that you really love her and care for her. Tell her you want to go through this with her no matter what happens. You can accompany her whenever she goes for her treatments (my boyfriend did that), buy flowers to cheer her up (my boyfriend did that too) or visit her at home instead of just calling once a week.
Instead of really treating this as a break up, pretend that you two did not even break up and do what a boyfriend should do and shower your love and care when your girlfriend is ill. Wait till she has recover, then you two can discuss about the relationship. Right now, the most important thing is to let her know that you are there for her, loving her, no matter what could happen.
How do I break up with my girlfriend without sounding like an ***?
Everyone says me and my gf needs to break up cuz she doesn't show me the love she needs to. I love her, but I guess thats why I'm getting hurt. I wanna know how to break up with her without sounding like a jerk.How do I break up with my girlfriend without sounding like an ***?
You know what pull your head out of your *** and just break up with her and end your misery. I just broke up with the same type and believe me I was not nice because if you are like me with love and affection and none in return you are with the wrong girl.. I did have a hard time the way I did it (remorse) but hey who's life is it and why keep feeling the pain
if you want also just tell her the truth which hurts a person more but hey I tried that too thought it would open a new door
in her world WRONG.... go for the gusto my friend it does not mean you are a bad person but to keep negative emotions inside you some one else gives you will rot your insides and make you bitter
You know what pull your head out of your *** and just break up with her and end your misery. I just broke up with the same type and believe me I was not nice because if you are like me with love and affection and none in return you are with the wrong girl.. I did have a hard time the way I did it (remorse) but hey who's life is it and why keep feeling the pain
if you want also just tell her the truth which hurts a person more but hey I tried that too thought it would open a new door
in her world WRONG.... go for the gusto my friend it does not mean you are a bad person but to keep negative emotions inside you some one else gives you will rot your insides and make you bitter
I think I might break up with my girlfriend, should I?
I don't know but I think I should. I know I'm not the greatest boyfriend and I have my faults and I think she deserves someone better. We have a lot in common but are different. Shes emotional and I think with logic. She want's me to open up more but I really don't know how to, theres not much for me to say. She's not happy but likes me so much and I just think we should break up. Should I?I think I might break up with my girlfriend, should I?
Actually open up more with her and tell her what is on your mind.I think I might break up with my girlfriend, should I?
She's not happy and you're not happy. What is there to hang on to? Memories? Sometimes it's best to let someone go when neither of you are on the same page (especially if there's no way of reaching eachother, but in this case you haven't given enough info here, so you're the only one that can truly analyze this to see what's best for both of you. No one knows either of you better than the two of you.)
I do want to let you know that most women are in tune with thier feelings and many men are not, meaning that some women are going to expect men to open up the way that woman do (which is really very individual depending on the type of person you are or any man is) but you have to figure out how to connect with her, but in your own way. If you aren't able to, it's time to move on because staying there may just end up hurting you both alot more in the long run.
Are you breaking up with her for a good reason? And by good reason I mean you don't have the feelings for her anymore. Because you breaking up with her because you think she deserves someone better, and you want her to be happier with someone else, is not a good reason, in my eyes. Yes, her being happy is important, but she's happy with you, otherwise she would have left by now. Just try a little harder to give her what she wants, and also talk to her about her emotions, let her know that it's hard for you to deal with someone like that and if she could try to work on her emotions, as you will work on letting yours show.
My husband is just like you, and I am just like your gf. It takes work to keep us going, but we will never give up because we love each other and feel that we are each worth fighting for.
But of course, it's your feelings and if you feel you want to do this, then by all means, do so. But break it to her gently :)
Just give it some more thought before you make a final decision :)
your situation doesnt sound bad enough to breakup
if you both like each other and it sounds like youd rather be together then theres almost always a way to fix things
just dont focus on your differences instead appreciate that she compliments your logic with her emotions if you give it a chance she may learn to think a little like you and you could learn to think like her, you might even open up a little too
if you dont think itll work then follow your gut and break up but it cant hurt to give it a try
good luck
Hey bro, a lot of us go through the same stage as you, and truthfully, there is no right or wrong. It all depends on what you think is the best, cause nobody can tell you what your heart does. Its awesome that you are thinking for the good of her, but how do u know that ur not that perfect one she needs? Take it a little slower, and ask her at times if you annoy her or hurt her in any way. I had a relationship like this and i thought breaking up was the best, but in a few weeks we got back together. It may not happen the same for you, but just go with what feels the best to you, cause you only know what right for you, and if you think shes the one for you, then she is. Hope i helped out, and you should think about her reactions to your decisions as well. All the best bro!
ask yourself this question. are you happy dating her? And is she happy dating you? If neither of you are happy then i would say you should break up with her, but if you guys are happy and have some problems i would say to try and work it out cause you might regret it in the end if you end up breaking up with her.
Only break up if you no longer want to be with this person. Since it sounds like she does want to be with you it really falls on you. Opening up may be a flaw, but it doesn't mean you can't improve. Its up to you if you are willing to compromise to make these choices.
Well, you are going to have to get used to women who think with emotions and not logic. That is just the way it is. If you are happy stick around. If she isn't, she won't. Don't sweat the small stuff and just roll with it.
Okay honestly if you open to her by telling how you feel etc thats how you open up.. If you really love her you wouldnt be having these thoughts... if you want to break up your doing it with fear of not knowing how to talk to ur girlfriend..
Do u love her? Then stay with her because even though yall are different yall like eachother? give it some more time...
its not up to us, its up to you!!
but dont give up on something you cant go a day without thinking about!
thats what i like to think about when i dont know what to do!!
Don't make the same mistake as i did breaking up with my boyfriend over fear... worst thing you will ever possibly do if you really love this girl. Believe me i know this about 4 months ago it happened to me.
well if you feel that's its not you should break up because imagine later it will be getting worse for you because you already wanted to break up so if feels bad at the beginning then you should end but dont be mean about
NEVER break up over fear. That's wrong and it'll hurt both of you. :(
Talk to her about how you're feeling, that will solve everything.
my sister was in that situation. in all honesty i think you should wait it out a little..see how things get on, if they're not good then leave her.
if you feel you should then you should go with your instinct.
but let me tell you. your gonna break her heart.hairstyles for long hair internet explorer
Actually open up more with her and tell her what is on your mind.I think I might break up with my girlfriend, should I?
She's not happy and you're not happy. What is there to hang on to? Memories? Sometimes it's best to let someone go when neither of you are on the same page (especially if there's no way of reaching eachother, but in this case you haven't given enough info here, so you're the only one that can truly analyze this to see what's best for both of you. No one knows either of you better than the two of you.)
I do want to let you know that most women are in tune with thier feelings and many men are not, meaning that some women are going to expect men to open up the way that woman do (which is really very individual depending on the type of person you are or any man is) but you have to figure out how to connect with her, but in your own way. If you aren't able to, it's time to move on because staying there may just end up hurting you both alot more in the long run.
Are you breaking up with her for a good reason? And by good reason I mean you don't have the feelings for her anymore. Because you breaking up with her because you think she deserves someone better, and you want her to be happier with someone else, is not a good reason, in my eyes. Yes, her being happy is important, but she's happy with you, otherwise she would have left by now. Just try a little harder to give her what she wants, and also talk to her about her emotions, let her know that it's hard for you to deal with someone like that and if she could try to work on her emotions, as you will work on letting yours show.
My husband is just like you, and I am just like your gf. It takes work to keep us going, but we will never give up because we love each other and feel that we are each worth fighting for.
But of course, it's your feelings and if you feel you want to do this, then by all means, do so. But break it to her gently :)
Just give it some more thought before you make a final decision :)
your situation doesnt sound bad enough to breakup
if you both like each other and it sounds like youd rather be together then theres almost always a way to fix things
just dont focus on your differences instead appreciate that she compliments your logic with her emotions if you give it a chance she may learn to think a little like you and you could learn to think like her, you might even open up a little too
if you dont think itll work then follow your gut and break up but it cant hurt to give it a try
good luck
Hey bro, a lot of us go through the same stage as you, and truthfully, there is no right or wrong. It all depends on what you think is the best, cause nobody can tell you what your heart does. Its awesome that you are thinking for the good of her, but how do u know that ur not that perfect one she needs? Take it a little slower, and ask her at times if you annoy her or hurt her in any way. I had a relationship like this and i thought breaking up was the best, but in a few weeks we got back together. It may not happen the same for you, but just go with what feels the best to you, cause you only know what right for you, and if you think shes the one for you, then she is. Hope i helped out, and you should think about her reactions to your decisions as well. All the best bro!
ask yourself this question. are you happy dating her? And is she happy dating you? If neither of you are happy then i would say you should break up with her, but if you guys are happy and have some problems i would say to try and work it out cause you might regret it in the end if you end up breaking up with her.
Only break up if you no longer want to be with this person. Since it sounds like she does want to be with you it really falls on you. Opening up may be a flaw, but it doesn't mean you can't improve. Its up to you if you are willing to compromise to make these choices.
Well, you are going to have to get used to women who think with emotions and not logic. That is just the way it is. If you are happy stick around. If she isn't, she won't. Don't sweat the small stuff and just roll with it.
Okay honestly if you open to her by telling how you feel etc thats how you open up.. If you really love her you wouldnt be having these thoughts... if you want to break up your doing it with fear of not knowing how to talk to ur girlfriend..
Do u love her? Then stay with her because even though yall are different yall like eachother? give it some more time...
its not up to us, its up to you!!
but dont give up on something you cant go a day without thinking about!
thats what i like to think about when i dont know what to do!!
Don't make the same mistake as i did breaking up with my boyfriend over fear... worst thing you will ever possibly do if you really love this girl. Believe me i know this about 4 months ago it happened to me.
well if you feel that's its not you should break up because imagine later it will be getting worse for you because you already wanted to break up so if feels bad at the beginning then you should end but dont be mean about
NEVER break up over fear. That's wrong and it'll hurt both of you. :(
Talk to her about how you're feeling, that will solve everything.
my sister was in that situation. in all honesty i think you should wait it out a little..see how things get on, if they're not good then leave her.
if you feel you should then you should go with your instinct.
but let me tell you. your gonna break her heart.
What do I say to break up with my girlfriend on the phone?
I'm just not into her anymore. I feel like I really should break up with her since I have no interest in her and we haven't hung out in almost two weeks. It will be at least another week since I'm going to the beach again tomorrow. So I feel as though I should get it oer with rather than drag it on so I can do it in person.
It's her first relationship so I'm not sure how she's going to react too.What do I say to break up with my girlfriend on the phone?
Phone break ups are lame but I can't say that I haven't done it that way :(.
How long have you been with her? Have you guys talked a lot during these past two weeks, because she might be ready too or she probably expects it. So you should do it right away so she doesn't keep stressing.
You should tell her that you feel like you would like to be friends with her but you would rather not be in a relationship. Don't tell her that you don't want a relationship right now, because since it's her first relationship, she might think, hey, you might want one in a month. Don't lead her on. Just be honest but nice. After you tell her, give her a few weeks before you try talking to her as a friend (if you plan on doing that). You want her to have time away from you so she can get over it also.What do I say to break up with my girlfriend on the phone?
you are right for breaking up with her if there is nothin there anymore, but you said it yourself it is her first relationship... DONT BREAK UP WITH HER THRU THE PHONE.. do you really want to give her the impression that guys are ******* even tho it is sum what true nowadays, you dont want her to think that about you, if you want to remain mutual you should break up with her in person she will respect you a lot more and know that you are still the great guy she fell for, as for her reacting to it, there is nothing you can really do, she will learn how to deal with it, just giv her some space and time. =)
Do not tell her over the phone..bad idea. Since your her first..you need to talk to her and be straight up. Tell her to meet you somewhere where their is not much people in case there's a conflict meaning..how she may react after telling her. So that way you can talk to her and tell her how you feel..hopefully she's not a stalker though!! Telling her over the phone is not what a girl would like to get dumped..i mean..what goes around comes back to you..!!!
Good Luck!!!
Well my advice is you shouldnt over the phone, but i know how you feel when you think the best thing is to get it over with..so dont be rude. Just say that you have enjoyed the time that you have spent with her but that you think things have changed, and you would rather just be friends..That you just dont think its working out anymore.
Being its her first relationship she may seem pretty crushed..but dont worry, she'll get over it and maybe you guys can be friends.
Just be nice!
DON'T do it on the phone
that's sooo cold
it's almost like your saying ';I'm over you so I don't really care about your feelings'; and if you don't want to come off that way then even though you don't want to drag it on you should tell her in person
it's like saying ';I don't like you that way anymore but I do care about you in a friend way';
you cant do it over the phone, becuase that will break her heart even more than anything, and dont even think about sending her a txt message....just wait until you see her again and by the way, its summer bud she cant always be there to hang out with just you, she has family and friends... so just give it a while and if you still really want to then say it to her face..... Be a man
dont do it on the phone because then she will feel like crap after that. you have to do it face to face because then she will know that its truely coming from u and so u can confort her after the break up and say that you just wanna be friends and nothing else because ur not ready to take it to the next level with her. so hope this helps.
Breaking up on the phone is tacky and it shows just how tacky you may be. [hopefully you're not] Break up with her in person. Tell her that you just don't love her like you thought you did and say that you would still really like to be friends. :]
Breaking up with someone over the phone is just terrible. You should just get up the gumption to say what you need to in person. Of course she will be upset about that, but she will at least have respect for you later, instead of hatred.
coward.
break up with her face to face.
you're just afraid to see her reaction.
well....everyone has to go through heartbreak at least once in their lives. like you said: it's her first relationship.
it most certainly wont be her last...
just meet up with her and get it over with.
Wow. It's really not cool to break up with a girl over the phone or via text. By it being her first relationship it will just crush her. Have the common courtesy to meet up with her in a neutral place and just let her know.
doing on the phone is not a great idea. it is really mean sending a text messge to ur gf.
i think u should talk to her
in perosn so she can understand.
tell her ur not in to her. i hope she will understand. telll her that u can meet new ppl and enjoy life. i hope this works!
good luck!
thanks!
Be a man and break up face to face and be honest from the get go and why u wanted to talk to her!
You just don't simply break up over the phone or text!!! Thats just rude, silly and wrong. You just wanna be enemies do ya? Be a man and respectful!!
I know someone who's boyfriend broke up with them on the phone. She felt REALLY insulted. It was like not only did he not like her as his girlfriend anymore, but she felt like he was a heartless freak who didn't care about her feelings at all.
Why can't you just see her before you go? If you care at all about hurting her feelings, then you should do it in person. Even if you do need to wait another week.
don't break up with her over the phone. That's worse than in person. Even if its her first relationship, its better for her to hear it in person. Don't worry she'll move on.
she'll hate you if you do it over the phone! in person is always best. as it is her first, unless she thinks you should break up, she wont handle it well!
';We hardly ever see each other, and I just think we should be friends until we can find more time to hang out.';
she'll ***** for a while, but all girls do.
tell her you're sorry afterwards.
yah.
That's a cop out. If you're too weak to do it in person, then you y0u are too weak to be of any value to any girl!!!
You really should break up in person instead of over the phone. Don't be a jerk. It might come back to haunt you.
Tell her you like alot but just not in a boyfriend -girlfriend way %26amp; you dont think it would be fair to not tell her %26amp; not let her find soneone that would be as in to her as she desevers
well, then be a man and tell her to her face no over the phone. It makes you look weak. She is gonna cry and be mad but eventually get over it
wait till she calls you and be like ';Listen I just don't think that this thing we have will workout. I'm just not that into you anymore sorry'; and wait till she hangs up!
hey if ur her first bf she wont no that breaking up over the fone is bad , do it man ! iv dont it via text b4 , that was a new low il admit that
im scum so i should break up with you on the phone
Always is good talk in person! Be hones but try to talk her nicely!
It's better (more polite) to break up in person. Keep it short and to the point. Good luck.
just call her and say i am breaking up with you then hang up
Don't do it over the phone.
YOU DONT.
dont do it on the phone. thats so lame and disrespectful.
Tell her you're dying
It's her first relationship so I'm not sure how she's going to react too.What do I say to break up with my girlfriend on the phone?
Phone break ups are lame but I can't say that I haven't done it that way :(.
How long have you been with her? Have you guys talked a lot during these past two weeks, because she might be ready too or she probably expects it. So you should do it right away so she doesn't keep stressing.
You should tell her that you feel like you would like to be friends with her but you would rather not be in a relationship. Don't tell her that you don't want a relationship right now, because since it's her first relationship, she might think, hey, you might want one in a month. Don't lead her on. Just be honest but nice. After you tell her, give her a few weeks before you try talking to her as a friend (if you plan on doing that). You want her to have time away from you so she can get over it also.What do I say to break up with my girlfriend on the phone?
you are right for breaking up with her if there is nothin there anymore, but you said it yourself it is her first relationship... DONT BREAK UP WITH HER THRU THE PHONE.. do you really want to give her the impression that guys are ******* even tho it is sum what true nowadays, you dont want her to think that about you, if you want to remain mutual you should break up with her in person she will respect you a lot more and know that you are still the great guy she fell for, as for her reacting to it, there is nothing you can really do, she will learn how to deal with it, just giv her some space and time. =)
Do not tell her over the phone..bad idea. Since your her first..you need to talk to her and be straight up. Tell her to meet you somewhere where their is not much people in case there's a conflict meaning..how she may react after telling her. So that way you can talk to her and tell her how you feel..hopefully she's not a stalker though!! Telling her over the phone is not what a girl would like to get dumped..i mean..what goes around comes back to you..!!!
Good Luck!!!
Well my advice is you shouldnt over the phone, but i know how you feel when you think the best thing is to get it over with..so dont be rude. Just say that you have enjoyed the time that you have spent with her but that you think things have changed, and you would rather just be friends..That you just dont think its working out anymore.
Being its her first relationship she may seem pretty crushed..but dont worry, she'll get over it and maybe you guys can be friends.
Just be nice!
DON'T do it on the phone
that's sooo cold
it's almost like your saying ';I'm over you so I don't really care about your feelings'; and if you don't want to come off that way then even though you don't want to drag it on you should tell her in person
it's like saying ';I don't like you that way anymore but I do care about you in a friend way';
you cant do it over the phone, becuase that will break her heart even more than anything, and dont even think about sending her a txt message....just wait until you see her again and by the way, its summer bud she cant always be there to hang out with just you, she has family and friends... so just give it a while and if you still really want to then say it to her face..... Be a man
dont do it on the phone because then she will feel like crap after that. you have to do it face to face because then she will know that its truely coming from u and so u can confort her after the break up and say that you just wanna be friends and nothing else because ur not ready to take it to the next level with her. so hope this helps.
Breaking up on the phone is tacky and it shows just how tacky you may be. [hopefully you're not] Break up with her in person. Tell her that you just don't love her like you thought you did and say that you would still really like to be friends. :]
Breaking up with someone over the phone is just terrible. You should just get up the gumption to say what you need to in person. Of course she will be upset about that, but she will at least have respect for you later, instead of hatred.
coward.
break up with her face to face.
you're just afraid to see her reaction.
well....everyone has to go through heartbreak at least once in their lives. like you said: it's her first relationship.
it most certainly wont be her last...
just meet up with her and get it over with.
Wow. It's really not cool to break up with a girl over the phone or via text. By it being her first relationship it will just crush her. Have the common courtesy to meet up with her in a neutral place and just let her know.
doing on the phone is not a great idea. it is really mean sending a text messge to ur gf.
i think u should talk to her
in perosn so she can understand.
tell her ur not in to her. i hope she will understand. telll her that u can meet new ppl and enjoy life. i hope this works!
good luck!
thanks!
Be a man and break up face to face and be honest from the get go and why u wanted to talk to her!
You just don't simply break up over the phone or text!!! Thats just rude, silly and wrong. You just wanna be enemies do ya? Be a man and respectful!!
I know someone who's boyfriend broke up with them on the phone. She felt REALLY insulted. It was like not only did he not like her as his girlfriend anymore, but she felt like he was a heartless freak who didn't care about her feelings at all.
Why can't you just see her before you go? If you care at all about hurting her feelings, then you should do it in person. Even if you do need to wait another week.
don't break up with her over the phone. That's worse than in person. Even if its her first relationship, its better for her to hear it in person. Don't worry she'll move on.
she'll hate you if you do it over the phone! in person is always best. as it is her first, unless she thinks you should break up, she wont handle it well!
';We hardly ever see each other, and I just think we should be friends until we can find more time to hang out.';
she'll ***** for a while, but all girls do.
tell her you're sorry afterwards.
yah.
That's a cop out. If you're too weak to do it in person, then you y0u are too weak to be of any value to any girl!!!
You really should break up in person instead of over the phone. Don't be a jerk. It might come back to haunt you.
Tell her you like alot but just not in a boyfriend -girlfriend way %26amp; you dont think it would be fair to not tell her %26amp; not let her find soneone that would be as in to her as she desevers
well, then be a man and tell her to her face no over the phone. It makes you look weak. She is gonna cry and be mad but eventually get over it
wait till she calls you and be like ';Listen I just don't think that this thing we have will workout. I'm just not that into you anymore sorry'; and wait till she hangs up!
hey if ur her first bf she wont no that breaking up over the fone is bad , do it man ! iv dont it via text b4 , that was a new low il admit that
im scum so i should break up with you on the phone
Always is good talk in person! Be hones but try to talk her nicely!
It's better (more polite) to break up in person. Keep it short and to the point. Good luck.
just call her and say i am breaking up with you then hang up
Don't do it over the phone.
YOU DONT.
dont do it on the phone. thats so lame and disrespectful.
Tell her you're dying
Do I want to break up with my girlfriend?
In a way I want to break up with my girlfriend because I don't feel the same way as I used to, but for some reason when I even think about breaking up with her I break down and cry. I'm still attached and care about her and I want to love her again, but I don't know how.
I don't know what to do please help! :'(Do I want to break up with my girlfriend?
no you dont. so restart the spark in your relationshipDo I want to break up with my girlfriend?
if you WANT to love her, then fireproof it,
http://www.fireproofmymarriage.com/coupl鈥?/a>
I don't know what to do please help! :'(Do I want to break up with my girlfriend?
no you dont. so restart the spark in your relationshipDo I want to break up with my girlfriend?
if you WANT to love her, then fireproof it,
http://www.fireproofmymarriage.com/coupl鈥?/a>
How should I break up with my girlfriend? We are 14?
How should I break up with my girlfriend? We are both 14... I just need to know what to say and how to go about it...How should I break up with my girlfriend? We are 14?
UM DONT LISTEN TO HIM...HERES WHAT U DO GO TO THE GIRL AND TELL HER IM NOT READY TO BE SERIOUS..AND I DNT WANT U TO PUT THE EFFORT IN IF IM NOT PUTTING IT IN...DNT GET ME WRONG YOUR A NICE PERSON AND YOU WILL MAKE SOMEONE HAPPY...BUT FOR NOW I JUST WANNA BE FRIENDS..THATS WHAT U SHOULD SAY CUZ YOU NEVER WANNA BE KNOWN AS A JERK TO A GIRL...NEVER TXT BREAKUP OR EMAIL SAY IT FACE TO FACE SHE WILL UNDERESTAND AND RESPECT YOU EVEN MORE....GOOD LUCK AND FEEL FREE TO MESSAGE ME BACK AND LET ME KNOW HOW IT WENT....How should I break up with my girlfriend? We are 14?
First of all...
I know how hard it is to be young, awkward, even a little bit shy.
I know that texting/IM/e-mail/phone calls seem like the easiest and most harmless way to break up with someone, but if you really want to be a good person and hopefully stay friends with this girl, then you need to do it in person. This will also help you prepare for future relationships/break-ups.
Make a mental note of all of the reasons you don't think you two should be together anymore and calmly explain them to her. Don't try to make her feel bad about anything and don't put the blame on either one of you. Break-ups hurt, so try to do it in the most sensitive way you know how. Good luck!
You need to be up front with her about your feelings, or you are, indeed, not ready for marriage. You may have that part exactly right.
Now, to put a more immediate spin on things: You say the last month has been great. Who's to say that 'great' won't improve into 'terrific'? I think you're having cold feet, which is normal. Strill, you need to not string her along, if you really want out, because that's just cruel.
Tell her that it seems like you've grown apart from her, and that you think she's a wonderful person, but not what you truly want in a relationship. Oh by the way, it's not a break-up if it's remotely peaceful, then its a hiatus.
Or you could just pull this up on a computer for her........
what is wrong with u if ur asking for this kind of advice ur not ready for a relationship
what are you ON!!!!!!!!!!!???????????? u r crazy- like up the wall, along the ceiling, out the window amd splat on the pavement crazy- and then u get run over by a tank coming to invade ur hometown - AHHHHHHHHHHHHH ur SOOOO caaaaaaa-rrrrrrrrrrrrazYYYYYYYYYYY
ahh get me away from it...
Well why are you breaking up with her? Tell her the truth, unless it's really cruel. In that case say that you just don't want a girlfriend right now, and that you're both young and you're not ready for a relationship.
ummm how about ';im 14 and im too effing young to know what a relationship even is!'; wow seriously just be a kid.
im sorry but if you don't know how to breakup with her why did you get with her in the 1st place
UM DONT LISTEN TO HIM...HERES WHAT U DO GO TO THE GIRL AND TELL HER IM NOT READY TO BE SERIOUS..AND I DNT WANT U TO PUT THE EFFORT IN IF IM NOT PUTTING IT IN...DNT GET ME WRONG YOUR A NICE PERSON AND YOU WILL MAKE SOMEONE HAPPY...BUT FOR NOW I JUST WANNA BE FRIENDS..THATS WHAT U SHOULD SAY CUZ YOU NEVER WANNA BE KNOWN AS A JERK TO A GIRL...NEVER TXT BREAKUP OR EMAIL SAY IT FACE TO FACE SHE WILL UNDERESTAND AND RESPECT YOU EVEN MORE....GOOD LUCK AND FEEL FREE TO MESSAGE ME BACK AND LET ME KNOW HOW IT WENT....How should I break up with my girlfriend? We are 14?
First of all...
I know how hard it is to be young, awkward, even a little bit shy.
I know that texting/IM/e-mail/phone calls seem like the easiest and most harmless way to break up with someone, but if you really want to be a good person and hopefully stay friends with this girl, then you need to do it in person. This will also help you prepare for future relationships/break-ups.
Make a mental note of all of the reasons you don't think you two should be together anymore and calmly explain them to her. Don't try to make her feel bad about anything and don't put the blame on either one of you. Break-ups hurt, so try to do it in the most sensitive way you know how. Good luck!
You need to be up front with her about your feelings, or you are, indeed, not ready for marriage. You may have that part exactly right.
Now, to put a more immediate spin on things: You say the last month has been great. Who's to say that 'great' won't improve into 'terrific'? I think you're having cold feet, which is normal. Strill, you need to not string her along, if you really want out, because that's just cruel.
Tell her that it seems like you've grown apart from her, and that you think she's a wonderful person, but not what you truly want in a relationship. Oh by the way, it's not a break-up if it's remotely peaceful, then its a hiatus.
Or you could just pull this up on a computer for her........
what is wrong with u if ur asking for this kind of advice ur not ready for a relationship
what are you ON!!!!!!!!!!!???????????? u r crazy- like up the wall, along the ceiling, out the window amd splat on the pavement crazy- and then u get run over by a tank coming to invade ur hometown - AHHHHHHHHHHHHH ur SOOOO caaaaaaa-rrrrrrrrrrrrazYYYYYYYYYYY
ahh get me away from it...
Well why are you breaking up with her? Tell her the truth, unless it's really cruel. In that case say that you just don't want a girlfriend right now, and that you're both young and you're not ready for a relationship.
ummm how about ';im 14 and im too effing young to know what a relationship even is!'; wow seriously just be a kid.
im sorry but if you don't know how to breakup with her why did you get with her in the 1st place
How to break up with a girlfriend without losing her friendship?
ive been dating my gf, but before we dated were really good friends so i asked her to be my gf and she said yes
but now i know shes the jealous type and i mean very jealous
I wanna stop dating her but i dont wanna stop talking to her because she is very cool and she has also been there for me in some of my difficult times
how do i break up with her without losing her friendship? pliiz help
thanksHow to break up with a girlfriend without losing her friendship?
You just have to tell her how you feel and why you feel it. Theres not much point in you two being friends unless you can be honest with each other. So with that in mind, tell her how great you think she is but also tell her why being in a relationship with her is hard for you.
Either she can appreciate your honesty and realise you are a genuine friend, or she can chose not to. Its up to her then not you.How to break up with a girlfriend without losing her friendship?
Okay. In my opinion and I think most girls will agree, DON'T use the 'we can still be friends; crap. When one of my exes used that I cried myself to sleep for months (I know that sounds pathetic).
Explain that things aren't working out as a couple and just say you don't want to date her anymore. Tell her the truth. Girls prefer honesty and if she was one of your bests mates, she would totally understand.
It might not of helped very much, but it's the best I can do. :)
you can not be friends with her. that the risk of love : either you have a very special person your life or you lose her forever.
it is like you want to live until you are 80 and you do not want to have wrinkles. if you do not want to have wrinkles then you will have to kill you before you are 80. if you want to live until you are 80, then you will have to deal with the wrinkles.
It usually doesnt work that way its not that easy to just be friends with someone that you have been with and cared about and she obviously cared about you if she was jealous so you probably wont have much luck
why is that problem just say her that don t be with her in relationships like boy and girl explain her that you think that no ex sense pretend but say that you wont be with her in contacts like friend
but now i know shes the jealous type and i mean very jealous
I wanna stop dating her but i dont wanna stop talking to her because she is very cool and she has also been there for me in some of my difficult times
how do i break up with her without losing her friendship? pliiz help
thanksHow to break up with a girlfriend without losing her friendship?
You just have to tell her how you feel and why you feel it. Theres not much point in you two being friends unless you can be honest with each other. So with that in mind, tell her how great you think she is but also tell her why being in a relationship with her is hard for you.
Either she can appreciate your honesty and realise you are a genuine friend, or she can chose not to. Its up to her then not you.How to break up with a girlfriend without losing her friendship?
Okay. In my opinion and I think most girls will agree, DON'T use the 'we can still be friends; crap. When one of my exes used that I cried myself to sleep for months (I know that sounds pathetic).
Explain that things aren't working out as a couple and just say you don't want to date her anymore. Tell her the truth. Girls prefer honesty and if she was one of your bests mates, she would totally understand.
It might not of helped very much, but it's the best I can do. :)
you can not be friends with her. that the risk of love : either you have a very special person your life or you lose her forever.
it is like you want to live until you are 80 and you do not want to have wrinkles. if you do not want to have wrinkles then you will have to kill you before you are 80. if you want to live until you are 80, then you will have to deal with the wrinkles.
It usually doesnt work that way its not that easy to just be friends with someone that you have been with and cared about and she obviously cared about you if she was jealous so you probably wont have much luck
why is that problem just say her that don t be with her in relationships like boy and girl explain her that you think that no ex sense pretend but say that you wont be with her in contacts like friend
What would you do if a guy friend of yours asked you how to break up with his girlfriend?
my best friend whom i'm in love with has a girlfriend and he doesn't like her any more, but he wants to know how he should do it? i don't know how to tell him to do this and I need some adviceWhat would you do if a guy friend of yours asked you how to break up with his girlfriend?
u should just tell him to do it nicely..
like, tell the girl he is really sorry, and he has to do it...that he thinks it's for the best, and hope they can still be friends...
tell him and yourself to take it easy......if he breaks up with her, then u have a chance...don't let it fly away....good luck...What would you do if a guy friend of yours asked you how to break up with his girlfriend?
what is it with retards getting chances and not telling em lately? /jealous
what cha do is you tell him to dump the ho
then
take advantage of him and rape him in a dark alley somewhere and ask him out. use lots o vaseline and tissues ;)
u should just tell him to do it nicely..
like, tell the girl he is really sorry, and he has to do it...that he thinks it's for the best, and hope they can still be friends...
tell him and yourself to take it easy......if he breaks up with her, then u have a chance...don't let it fly away....good luck...What would you do if a guy friend of yours asked you how to break up with his girlfriend?
what is it with retards getting chances and not telling em lately? /jealous
what cha do is you tell him to dump the ho
then
take advantage of him and rape him in a dark alley somewhere and ask him out. use lots o vaseline and tissues ;)
How do I get my girlfriend to break up with me?
i wanna break up with my girlfriend but i dont wanna hurt her feelings becouse she loves me so much and i just dont want to hurt any suggestionsHow do I get my girlfriend to break up with me?
grow some balls and tell her you feel different and you want to be friends. dont lead her onHow do I get my girlfriend to break up with me?
the best way is just tell her straight up NOW!!! because it will hurt her more later..!!!!!!!!!!!!
she loves you so why do you want to break up there are so many guys that have gf that treat them like shi* ,but the best thing is honesty and break uup with her somewhere private do not use the phone or intenet its best done in person.
Breaking up is always hard to do and there will always be someone hurt! I don't know why you want to break up with her but since you no longer want to be in relationship with her, the best thing to do would be for you to honestly break it out to her. The longer you grag the matter, the more it is going to hurt her. There is no way you can walk out without hurting her and to find ways or do things such that she becomes the one to break off with you is just not right! The one who wants out is you, so you must take the blame for it and stop looking for ways to make her the one and hurt her even more than you are going to.
She is going to get hurt so be honest with her and let her move on with her life. The hurting and pain will definitely be there and only time will heal...., so the sooner you tell her, the better as she will get over it quicker.
Just tell her how you feel. Tell her that you're not trying to hurt her feelings and you realize how she cares about you, but if you're not feeling the same back it's better that you two split. Good luck.hairstyles for long hair internet explorer
grow some balls and tell her you feel different and you want to be friends. dont lead her onHow do I get my girlfriend to break up with me?
the best way is just tell her straight up NOW!!! because it will hurt her more later..!!!!!!!!!!!!
she loves you so why do you want to break up there are so many guys that have gf that treat them like shi* ,but the best thing is honesty and break uup with her somewhere private do not use the phone or intenet its best done in person.
Breaking up is always hard to do and there will always be someone hurt! I don't know why you want to break up with her but since you no longer want to be in relationship with her, the best thing to do would be for you to honestly break it out to her. The longer you grag the matter, the more it is going to hurt her. There is no way you can walk out without hurting her and to find ways or do things such that she becomes the one to break off with you is just not right! The one who wants out is you, so you must take the blame for it and stop looking for ways to make her the one and hurt her even more than you are going to.
She is going to get hurt so be honest with her and let her move on with her life. The hurting and pain will definitely be there and only time will heal...., so the sooner you tell her, the better as she will get over it quicker.
Just tell her how you feel. Tell her that you're not trying to hurt her feelings and you realize how she cares about you, but if you're not feeling the same back it's better that you two split. Good luck.
How should i break up with my girlfriend of 6 months?
I'm just not in love or have passion for the relationship anymore. I care about her but not in the same ways i used to. I feel horrible for wanting to break up with her because i know it will crush her and break her heart. But im going away to college is 3 weeks and i dont see this working as a relationship but maybe a friendship with a possibility of getting back together once i get through a couple weeks of school. Any advice or help would be great. I just feel so bad for doing.How should i break up with my girlfriend of 6 months?
Just tell her you want to move onHow should i break up with my girlfriend of 6 months?
Sometimes it's cruel to be kind, but if you are absolutely sure you're finished with this relationship, it's best to cut it now instead of dragging it out to a miserable conclusion.
Think about this, though: College is a big step and a big change for both of you. The biggest mistake most college-bound kids make is trying to cling to a relationship ';just the way it is'; and not giving it room to grow or change. There's no reason why you can't still be friends with your girlfriend. Don't be so anxious to ';define'; your relationship in narrow terms or to put a label on it.
However, if you are going to be away at college, it's not fair or realistic to either one of you to be ';loyal'; and ';faithful';. This is the time of your lives that you will be meeting new people and truly on your way to defining what you want out of life and what kind of person you want to be. It's not disloyal to want to meet new people -- you are both young and have a lot of growing left to do in terms of relationships and maturity.
But in direct answer to your question: I think your idea of breaking up and ';possibly getting back together once you get thorugh a couple of weeks of school'; is a truly terrible idea. It's very convenient for you, but it's extremely hard on your girlfriend. You want to test the waters, see what's out there -- but you want a safety net, ';just in case'; you don't find anything better in the first couple of weeks. Not fair, guy!
I think you need to sit down and have a heart-to-heart with Girlfriend. Tell her that you care for her and still want her to be an important part of your life, but that since you will be away at college, you think it would be best if you both used this time to get to know others, too. You can still write, text, email, etc., and stay in touch, and even see each other when you are in town -- but otherwise, you should both be free to go out with other people without feeling ';unfaithful'; or that you are ';cheating';, somehow. Her maturity will be tested here, too -- if her idea of a boyfriend (or your idea of a girlfriend) is a 365/24/7 devout slave, then this might not work . . . :-)
Change is necessary to relationships, if they are to survive. It's a simple application of evolutionary theory: That which does not change to adapt becomes extinct.
Be mature and be a man about it. The sooner the better. You don't want to keep wasting her time or yours. The hardest and most mature way is in person. If it's not meant to be, that's alright. She will find someone else eventually.
Urmm .
If You Donmt Wathnt To Be Her Frined After
Doin It Js Sai It LiKE nORMAL aND dISSAPEAR lol =D
Or
.. . . .
Take Her Out Like To Town Or Shoppin Somefin Fun And jS bREAK uP wIF hER aND tELL hER tHE rEASONS wHY aND saTAY fREWNDS kEEP iN cONTACT aND bE rEALY gGOOD mATES =d
XXX
Start being an asshole and not spending time with her. Then she'll break up with you and you will have a clear conscience.
Take her on a date to the landfill and dump her there.
You already know that its not going to work so just tell her the truth. If you want to take the easy way out you could always print out this email with responses from everyone telling you that its the right thing to do.
First off! You need to be honest with her. Tell her, that since your going away too College, that this would be a great time to take a break. You'd like to keep in touch with her and still hang out as friends when you can. That going away too College is the perfect time to see how you truly feel about each other. That time away makes, the heart grow fonder.
if ure not feeling it, then its time to give it a break and see what happens. In college ure going to meet loads of people and really, u might find LOTS of people that u get along better with- and therefore have a tighter knit of friends. Through that you're going to find lots of other girls that u just might want to give it a go with. You never know, u might grow into someone different with different needs, and those needs will lead u towards someone that u ARE passionate about. College is the kind of place that comes around at that time of ure life when ure still creating ure identity. I know i changed ALOT when i went to college, and from that i was able to tailor what i needed in a partner and really understand what i want. Just finding someone that fulfills that is sometimes enough to make u fall head over heels.
If you really want to keep ure current gf around, just tell her u need some time to see if u can handle a gf and going to school at the same time. Tell her things are going to be different and u need to be free to adjust, grow, and experience so that u can be a college guy. Give it a few weeks, to a month and see how things play out.
gluck!
Get over yourself and let the girl go. Give the respect she deserves. You will feel bad but you already feel bad. Do it with grace and be straight forward and do not give her hope by saying after you settle in maybe you can get back together. She deserves to be able to move forward after you are gone. Seriously, time and distance really heals wounds of the heart. The fact that you are leaving will make the break easier for both of you. And please do not call her while you are gone. There's no reason for you to stay in something because you are scared to break up due to the uncomfortable conversation you have to deliver. Suck it up and deliver the message already.
There really isnt a best way to break up with someone. Just please do it in person! Try to be as gentle as possible. If you dont love her anymore then it's for the best to let her go, it may feel bad now but it's best for the future. Good luck!
Be strong, respectful, and do it in person. It sounds like you know exactly why you want to break up, just expound on what you have already said here.
I think you are doing the right thing. That happend to me when i was 16 only, i was the one being broken up with. Then it seemed terrible, alot of mixed feelings about the guy. Sometimes i hated him, sometimes i felt that there was hope for getting back together. It especially hurt because he was my first love. But dont worry, you are right in a sense. I didnt realise it untill it was my turn to say ';we need a break';. You are going to miss her, you are going to feel sad and all that - but if you are really unsure about the descision, then simply sit down, relax, and think. It helps to talk to someone also.
well if your might consider getting back together with her..then just tell her that you need some time apart..and if you still feel the same way after college just tell her that you are sorry..but the feelings arent there anymore
tell her all that u just told us it will hurt but it least ur not lying to break up w/ her. she'll respect u more. and maybe not be so haertbroken
Just tell her you want to move onHow should i break up with my girlfriend of 6 months?
Sometimes it's cruel to be kind, but if you are absolutely sure you're finished with this relationship, it's best to cut it now instead of dragging it out to a miserable conclusion.
Think about this, though: College is a big step and a big change for both of you. The biggest mistake most college-bound kids make is trying to cling to a relationship ';just the way it is'; and not giving it room to grow or change. There's no reason why you can't still be friends with your girlfriend. Don't be so anxious to ';define'; your relationship in narrow terms or to put a label on it.
However, if you are going to be away at college, it's not fair or realistic to either one of you to be ';loyal'; and ';faithful';. This is the time of your lives that you will be meeting new people and truly on your way to defining what you want out of life and what kind of person you want to be. It's not disloyal to want to meet new people -- you are both young and have a lot of growing left to do in terms of relationships and maturity.
But in direct answer to your question: I think your idea of breaking up and ';possibly getting back together once you get thorugh a couple of weeks of school'; is a truly terrible idea. It's very convenient for you, but it's extremely hard on your girlfriend. You want to test the waters, see what's out there -- but you want a safety net, ';just in case'; you don't find anything better in the first couple of weeks. Not fair, guy!
I think you need to sit down and have a heart-to-heart with Girlfriend. Tell her that you care for her and still want her to be an important part of your life, but that since you will be away at college, you think it would be best if you both used this time to get to know others, too. You can still write, text, email, etc., and stay in touch, and even see each other when you are in town -- but otherwise, you should both be free to go out with other people without feeling ';unfaithful'; or that you are ';cheating';, somehow. Her maturity will be tested here, too -- if her idea of a boyfriend (or your idea of a girlfriend) is a 365/24/7 devout slave, then this might not work . . . :-)
Change is necessary to relationships, if they are to survive. It's a simple application of evolutionary theory: That which does not change to adapt becomes extinct.
Be mature and be a man about it. The sooner the better. You don't want to keep wasting her time or yours. The hardest and most mature way is in person. If it's not meant to be, that's alright. She will find someone else eventually.
Urmm .
If You Donmt Wathnt To Be Her Frined After
Doin It Js Sai It LiKE nORMAL aND dISSAPEAR lol =D
Or
.. . . .
Take Her Out Like To Town Or Shoppin Somefin Fun And jS bREAK uP wIF hER aND tELL hER tHE rEASONS wHY aND saTAY fREWNDS kEEP iN cONTACT aND bE rEALY gGOOD mATES =d
XXX
Start being an asshole and not spending time with her. Then she'll break up with you and you will have a clear conscience.
Take her on a date to the landfill and dump her there.
You already know that its not going to work so just tell her the truth. If you want to take the easy way out you could always print out this email with responses from everyone telling you that its the right thing to do.
First off! You need to be honest with her. Tell her, that since your going away too College, that this would be a great time to take a break. You'd like to keep in touch with her and still hang out as friends when you can. That going away too College is the perfect time to see how you truly feel about each other. That time away makes, the heart grow fonder.
if ure not feeling it, then its time to give it a break and see what happens. In college ure going to meet loads of people and really, u might find LOTS of people that u get along better with- and therefore have a tighter knit of friends. Through that you're going to find lots of other girls that u just might want to give it a go with. You never know, u might grow into someone different with different needs, and those needs will lead u towards someone that u ARE passionate about. College is the kind of place that comes around at that time of ure life when ure still creating ure identity. I know i changed ALOT when i went to college, and from that i was able to tailor what i needed in a partner and really understand what i want. Just finding someone that fulfills that is sometimes enough to make u fall head over heels.
If you really want to keep ure current gf around, just tell her u need some time to see if u can handle a gf and going to school at the same time. Tell her things are going to be different and u need to be free to adjust, grow, and experience so that u can be a college guy. Give it a few weeks, to a month and see how things play out.
gluck!
Get over yourself and let the girl go. Give the respect she deserves. You will feel bad but you already feel bad. Do it with grace and be straight forward and do not give her hope by saying after you settle in maybe you can get back together. She deserves to be able to move forward after you are gone. Seriously, time and distance really heals wounds of the heart. The fact that you are leaving will make the break easier for both of you. And please do not call her while you are gone. There's no reason for you to stay in something because you are scared to break up due to the uncomfortable conversation you have to deliver. Suck it up and deliver the message already.
There really isnt a best way to break up with someone. Just please do it in person! Try to be as gentle as possible. If you dont love her anymore then it's for the best to let her go, it may feel bad now but it's best for the future. Good luck!
Be strong, respectful, and do it in person. It sounds like you know exactly why you want to break up, just expound on what you have already said here.
I think you are doing the right thing. That happend to me when i was 16 only, i was the one being broken up with. Then it seemed terrible, alot of mixed feelings about the guy. Sometimes i hated him, sometimes i felt that there was hope for getting back together. It especially hurt because he was my first love. But dont worry, you are right in a sense. I didnt realise it untill it was my turn to say ';we need a break';. You are going to miss her, you are going to feel sad and all that - but if you are really unsure about the descision, then simply sit down, relax, and think. It helps to talk to someone also.
well if your might consider getting back together with her..then just tell her that you need some time apart..and if you still feel the same way after college just tell her that you are sorry..but the feelings arent there anymore
tell her all that u just told us it will hurt but it least ur not lying to break up w/ her. she'll respect u more. and maybe not be so haertbroken
Subscribe to:
Posts
(Atom)