How do I break up with my girlfriend?

We have been together for ten months. The relationship isn't horrible, we never fight or cheat etc. which makes this harder to do because I know she is going to take it horribly. She is obsessed with me and I know breaking up with her is going to crush her, which I don't want to do because I do care about her, I just cannot continue this boring relationship much longer. Please help.How do I break up with my girlfriend?
if you really love her, why dont you try n spice up your life. go do something fun. if you dont really want her anymore. just say, look, we've been dating for ten months. but ive got nothing really out of this relationship. i like you alot. i really do. but i dont see you as, THAT girl. just my friend, that happens to be a girl.. i dont get that spark we used to ave by being together. i think by dating, we have truely found out who we both are, and are both wiser. so, i just wanna say, its been a great run. but i dont think we were meant to be. (and give her a hug)How do I break up with my girlfriend?
The only way you can tell her is like you've just posted on here be honest with her. Yeah she is going to take it horribly but it wouldn't hurt as much because you were completely honest with her. In time she will respect that decision that you did tell her. Let her know you care about her but you just cannot continue being in a relationship with her and tell her it wouldn't be fair to neither one of you if you continue living a lie. Women do like honesty even though sometimes it really hurts. You never know she might see things your way or feel the same way you do. Good luck to you.
The one thing NOT to do is to break up by text if you were thinkin about it coz it wont only crush her..she'll hate you, and have loads of mixed emotions that you reali dont want...


You need to tell her face to face...even if it means lying...make sure she knows its not her fault, but dont let her think that you will have a chance of gettin bak together any time soon because you dont want to get her hopes up....when you tell her...show her how sorry you are...and tell her that you jus dont feel the way you once did and that even thought it might not seem it atm, but there is someone else who will make her happier and treat her the way she should be treated...there is no way that you can't crush her but this is one of the nicest ways to do it....tell her that you dont want things to be akward between you and jus keep sayin your sorry....then mayb text her or somethin later and ask if she's ok so she doesnt feel totally rejected...





hope this helps...





p.s. i would advise that you dont let her see you with another gf for atleast a month or something...not somethin ou have to do...but if you dont want to hurt her too much i would strongly advise his...





p.p.s. sorry this is sooooooo long :P





xx
Oh my god, you remind me of my own boyfriend. We've have ups%26amp;downs, and he was the only one that saw our relationship '; going nowhere '; . now you listen, don't fuuuucking break up because you think your relationship is boring. if it's boring, SPICE IT UP YOURSELF. Don't wait . . goddddd , that's not even a good reason to break up w/ your gf esp. if the relationship is going fine.
maybe she really loves you
Okay, well first of all, DO NOT take the coward's way out and break up through texting, email, MSN, myspace or any of those. She at least needs to know face to face.





Sit down and get straight to it. Don't start off with another subject or discussion, just get to it. Be a man, but be gentle. Do NOT be mean and lazy. Tell her in why you think you should break up. Let her know that she didn't do anything wrong, and niether did you. Tell her that you don't think being in a relationship is good anymore, and that you'd be better off as friends. Tell her you'd always be there for her, just not like that anymore. Let her know you'll always care for her deeply.





The best thing to say is, that you want to remain single for now. And that you need a little time to yourself, and you want to focus on other things (such as school work, friends, sports, work and so forth) and that you need a break from being in a committed relationship. Don't be gutless, be honest and let her know how you really feel. Don't sugarcoat it, be firm so she gets the message that you no longer want to be with her, but also be respectful and gentle.





If she goes off and cries and gets angry and all that jazz, give her the space. She will eventually come around, and understand. She won't hate you forever, if you give her a good solid reason. Being a friend afterwards is the best thing. That way you both can act civilised with each other and know that you'll always be there for one another, even if it's not in that way anymore.





Gooood luck :)