How should I break up with my girlfriend? We are 14?

How should I break up with my girlfriend? We are both 14... I just need to know what to say and how to go about it...How should I break up with my girlfriend? We are 14?
UM DONT LISTEN TO HIM...HERES WHAT U DO GO TO THE GIRL AND TELL HER IM NOT READY TO BE SERIOUS..AND I DNT WANT U TO PUT THE EFFORT IN IF IM NOT PUTTING IT IN...DNT GET ME WRONG YOUR A NICE PERSON AND YOU WILL MAKE SOMEONE HAPPY...BUT FOR NOW I JUST WANNA BE FRIENDS..THATS WHAT U SHOULD SAY CUZ YOU NEVER WANNA BE KNOWN AS A JERK TO A GIRL...NEVER TXT BREAKUP OR EMAIL SAY IT FACE TO FACE SHE WILL UNDERESTAND AND RESPECT YOU EVEN MORE....GOOD LUCK AND FEEL FREE TO MESSAGE ME BACK AND LET ME KNOW HOW IT WENT....How should I break up with my girlfriend? We are 14?
First of all...


I know how hard it is to be young, awkward, even a little bit shy.


I know that texting/IM/e-mail/phone calls seem like the easiest and most harmless way to break up with someone, but if you really want to be a good person and hopefully stay friends with this girl, then you need to do it in person. This will also help you prepare for future relationships/break-ups.


Make a mental note of all of the reasons you don't think you two should be together anymore and calmly explain them to her. Don't try to make her feel bad about anything and don't put the blame on either one of you. Break-ups hurt, so try to do it in the most sensitive way you know how. Good luck!
You need to be up front with her about your feelings, or you are, indeed, not ready for marriage. You may have that part exactly right.





Now, to put a more immediate spin on things: You say the last month has been great. Who's to say that 'great' won't improve into 'terrific'? I think you're having cold feet, which is normal. Strill, you need to not string her along, if you really want out, because that's just cruel.
Tell her that it seems like you've grown apart from her, and that you think she's a wonderful person, but not what you truly want in a relationship. Oh by the way, it's not a break-up if it's remotely peaceful, then its a hiatus.





Or you could just pull this up on a computer for her........
what is wrong with u if ur asking for this kind of advice ur not ready for a relationship








what are you ON!!!!!!!!!!!???????????? u r crazy- like up the wall, along the ceiling, out the window amd splat on the pavement crazy- and then u get run over by a tank coming to invade ur hometown - AHHHHHHHHHHHHH ur SOOOO caaaaaaa-rrrrrrrrrrrrazYYYYYYYYYYY


ahh get me away from it...
Well why are you breaking up with her? Tell her the truth, unless it's really cruel. In that case say that you just don't want a girlfriend right now, and that you're both young and you're not ready for a relationship.
ummm how about ';im 14 and im too effing young to know what a relationship even is!'; wow seriously just be a kid.
im sorry but if you don't know how to breakup with her why did you get with her in the 1st place