How do i break up with my girlfriend!?

My Girlfriend and i have been on and off now for seven months!! She wants me to stop hanging out with my friends! Im only 19 and she is 17 and is already talking about marriage and kids... What should I do??How do i break up with my girlfriend!?
Seven months is an insanely small amount of time to be talking about marriage and kids. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years and we talk about it, but we don't plan on it and it's not a serious conversation.





Honesty is best, and do what you think is best for you. It's not a healthy relationship when you stop hanging out with your friends. She seems really clingy. If you want it to work, you can try talking to her first. I say if she doesn't loosen up on you, then it's a deal breaker.





There no sense in not trying to work it out. She may not realize how unreasonable she is being and you may have to point out what she's doing for her to actually see it.





Good luck (:How do i break up with my girlfriend!?
off and on and shes talking kids LOOK @ w/ she is saying #1 you beter find out who shes been sleeping with and thats probably the one that isnt responsible as well as her shes probably knocked up and its not yours and she is looking fat prego ..? its just a thought man to man 17 tr old girls dont talk marrage they want fun rite id be a bit on the ot with this one ill bet its all of the above .......
tell her that this is it. you need to see other people. lots of people want ot get married and have kids eventually but you're way too young to be thinking too much about that right now. just have fun but don't get yourself into trouble. just tell her it's time to be done. you've obviously broken up before so you know you can do it. there is a reason you guys have been on and off and that's that it isn't going to work.
telling a guy to stop hanging out with his friends, making plans to have kids and marriage is wrong.. shes only 17 probably not mature enough. your 19... you still want to venture out and not have to feel so settled down...





If i was a guy i would break up with her to. Just tell her shes pushing you to do something i dont want to, i like my friends i let you hangout with your friends when ever you want to. I dont plan to have child any time soon.
You have to be honest with her, tell her that's not in your plan. Let her go so she can find someone who want the same thing. She is very immature talking about marriage and children at 17 when she really should be thinking about school and college.
if she's trying to control your life and mould you into what she wants you to be, then i just suggest taking her someplace and telling her it's over.





Dump her like a full ashtray.
I think honesty is your best choice. I think that you need to talk to her and tell her how you really feel. Tell her that you don't think and feel the same way of things that you need time to live life.


Wish you the best!
just talk to her. its the only mature way to do it. sit down and talk about all the things that are annoying you. these convos suck, but wow they really work wonders. please do that first,, and if that doesnt work then break up with her. its worth another go.
If you've been ';off'; before, then turn it off again.





SIMPLY say, ';It's over ~ forever.'; Then...simply, move on!





You can make it easy or hard, your choice. Do it, get it over with or drag it out %26amp; remain miserable.
1) buy a valentines day card


2)write wonderful things about what you like about her in the card


3) at the bottom, write ';oops, i lied';


4) mail the card to her.
Just tell her that you grew apart and that you still need your friends and you are not ready for marriage and kids. Just do it face to face. Sending a sms or something is just bad.
Sounds like she is controlling?!? What do you want to do, in the end everyone on here could tell you what to do but at the end of the day is that what u want?


If she is freaking you out, then run!
well that is gay!!


its not rite for her to be controllive over u...u need to hav space n hav a life w/ wat u wanna do...soo she needs to take things easy/


jus tell her the truth...becuz if u dnt..u guys will still b on n off relationshipps n hav the same probs
Tell her that you have been cheating on her with a girl that you like besides her. She will probably leave you after she hears that.
TELL THE ****** SHES CUT! haha





no but seriously marriage/kids, unless shes the love of your life, i dont think its worth it
everytime she says stuff like that just tell her that the only reason you would want kids is to have unprotected sex with her
Slip out the back Jack just make a new plan Stan, just jump on the bus Gus, you dont need to be coy Roy just get yourself free





-Paul Simon
well i got (legally) married at 16 to my 18 year old husband...so i see no issues. lol. i liev in tx by the way for any people thinking that 16 year olds cant get married
if she is moving to fast, which it sounds as if she is, just tell her you need to take a break and just enjoy being young
Just be honest with her and tell her that you do not want what she wants.
Just tell her it's over. There is no point in dragging it out over weeks or even months.
cheat on her now! dont ruin the best years of your life by getting married early and having kids. Go to college.
I would stop the motor, jump out and keep runnin!
The longer it goes the harder it gets.
tell her u wan to break up with her but in anice matter if she dosent tell her the reson u wanted to break with her
wow! :) dont get in to it. For girls marriage and kids are all cute and all but do you really want that.
Whoa...! Tell her to pump the breaks! There is a reason you guys have been ';on and off.'; Time for some space pal!
I say email her a link to this question - she just might get the hint ;)
tell her that she wants what you cant (or are not willing to offer)...?
honesty is the best policy break up with her
just be honest! Honest is the best policy! Just keep in mind her feelings. Suggest staying friends....