Friday, August 20, 2010

Should I try to convince a guy i like to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me?

We have been hanging out a lot and we both innocently flirt with each other, and i know he likes me. But he has a girlfriend, and i don't know how happy he is in his relationship because his girlfriend isn't allowed to date, so their relationship is difficult.Should I try to convince a guy i like to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me?
you need to straight up ask him how he feels about you. if he admits to having feelings for you then continue hanging out with him. maybie from there u can learn more about their relationship. he may start to fall for you if he learns he can spend more time with you rather then her.Should I try to convince a guy i like to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me?
And just how do you know all of this? How do you know the relationship is difficult just because the lady in question is not allowed to date? Has he actually verbalised this? Yes, he may like you, I like my male friends but I don't want to get into a relationship with them. Believe me, once a man is interested in you he homes in like a heat seeking missile because that is the way men are programmed. I think you are mistaking friendship for flirting. Give up and look out for the missile that may be trained on you without you even being aware of it!
NOOOOOOOOOOOO don't do it that!!! You never want to push anyone to break up with another person because of the way your feeling, if he likes you as much as you like him then he would do it his self and on his terms. Be patient if it don't happen soon then just ask about the relationship not in detail just to find out where they stand and if they don't break up after that conversation then he might not.





Good Luck
hell no! dnt do wat is seen as selfish and low, u wudnt wish something liek that upon urself so y do it someone else's relationship? if he finds it hard to be with her he will break up in his own time all u can do is wait. there are diff kinda guys out there some get fed up easily n break up but then there are some who dnt care if they cant go out if he loves her not goin out with her doesnt mean its the end of the relationship or the world. he's a fool to be flirting with u coz he has a gf already n if his flirting means he likes than he shud be man enuf to break up first b4 he makes any move. as for u im sure u dnt have bad intentions but this will lead to bad situation if u continue u shud be the bigger person n tell him upfront that if he likes his gf then he shudnt be beating around the bush while he leaves another one hanging. this aint fair on the other girl too (his gf). and remember wat goes around comes around! meaning if u do this n cause the relationship to break up it wud happen to u to, everything comes around n everyone gets punished for their bad actions.





besides think logically a guy who can flirt with u while he has a gf himself .......wat are the chances he wont do the same to u????? guys like that are pathetic n its so silly for girls to fall for them jus coz they leave their gf's for them not realising if he can do it to her he can always do it to me too.





be the better person n stay away from doin this.
Don't try to convince him to break up with his girlfriend that will make you look bad. just say ';I know you have a girlfriend, but i think we have a lot of fun together and i like you. i don't know if you feel the same, but if things don't work out with her give me a call.'; but also let him know you're not going to wait around forever because your time is precious and you're not desperate.
NO! trust me, you NEVER want to be the ';other woman'; or the ***** that does that. let things happen naturally, or ask him if he wants to be with her for a long time...but don't try to ';convince'; him, let him handle things or your gonna always be blamed
No ...dont be a homewrecker. If he ends up dumping her let him do it on his own account, not because you pushed him. It's likely that you will be called numerous names even if you dont convince him so dont push it sister. Just be patient and sit back and wait.
before you do anything yu need to be absolutley positive about how he feels about yu. if hes legit id say go for it. you think other girls are gonna thinkn twice about doing it to you in the future.
no because thats a 13itchy move





so no dont do it, what if u went out with him and some girl tried to break you two up, and he broke up with you





how would you feel?
Well no,


cuz then people will know and find out bout it and not trust you and some ppl will hate you.


then if you and him break up it will be all for nothing.
Yeah i have the same problem but im going to wait so i don't get blamed for anything. He will eventually break up with her (:
NO you shouldn't do that.


Wait untill they break up..... then be the first one to ask him out then!


Good luck!
no just wait it out


if u force them to break up, it will make u look bad and desparate
lol you are funny
dude thats wrong why would you do that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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