How can I get this ';straight'; guy to break up with his girlfriend?

I asked a question yesterday about a straight guy who wanted to sleep with me. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AivIQPs6BU.DnE4ireZsWiDty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100418223921AAM5Cob





Today, I talked to him about it againnnn..and he gave me that whole thing again about how he and his girlfriend might break up and he really likes me and blahh blahhhhh %26gt;.%26gt;


But uhm, long story short I ended up sleeping with him. He told me it was great and he wanted to continue seeing me, but I told him he's gotta lose the girlfriend first. He says he doesn't really love her anymore, but he REFUSES to break up with her %26gt;%26lt;.


What can I do? D:


(I'm 15, he's 17 btw, so no homewrecker stuff lol)How can I get this ';straight'; guy to break up with his girlfriend?
Yuck, he's a pervert, pedophile. This should be reported to the authorities!How can I get this ';straight'; guy to break up with his girlfriend?
I don't know
Well you shouldn't have been a ho and slept with him. Now you're just the other girl/guy. I'm sorry. I'm not sure if you're a boy or girl. My point is, sounds like he used you for the sex and now he's lieing to you.
Do you really want to pursue a guy you have to ASK to break up with his girlfriend? He sounds like a big weiner to me.
Wow you sound like such a nice guy. Leave the poor fellow to his own devices, k?
lol, no home-wrecker stuff.





Well, just... maybe... he is just like messing around with you? Maybe he feels like exploring but still wants to have sex with his girlfriend or maybe he loves her or feels highly attracted to you?


There are several possibilities, but my advice it's to cut the chain and be clear that you are so not being with him while he is with his girlfriend. That sort of pressure will help you find out the truth.
Honestly, that's a dick move to try to get anyone break up with their gf/bf. Stay out of it and let him take care of it. If he really wants to break up with his girlfriend he will in his own time.
He used you. :(
Lose that zero and get yourself a hero.





Seriously, if he ';doesn't really love her anymore'; but won't break up with her for you, what does that say about his feelings for you? Don't be a sex toy.





Here's another cliche if you're not convinced yet: If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you (WITHOUT a girlfriend), it's yours.
Stephen in many states a 2 year age difference is not a sexual assault or pedophilia. If you are going to insult some one get the terms right. Pedophilia is kids under a certain age.





But on to your question. I would tred lightly when trying to make him break up with his girl. She may be a safety blanket. It you swipe it from him he may resent or hide further in the closet. Let him come to terms at his own pace and be there for him. Some people are not as ready to come out and be open as You may be. Just give it some time.
Sheesh..some of the answers here are really judgemental. How is 17 and 15 a pedophile? that's 2 years difference..lmao.





I have no idea how to help you though. I guess in the end it will be up to him..but If he isn't in love with her..he should break it off.
Not being rude, but he麓s not going to break her up.
He's clinging onto heterosexuality/normality and his public face by keeping her around. He might not be ready to dump her until he's ready to come out bi/gay/whatever, which could be years. IDK.
well it seems he is still having reservations about going gay lol....





i would say that instead of involving more in a sexual way..u guys also spend time in other ways..spend time with each other...go to movies.parks...make him be comfortable with you.





and try to give things that his gf couldn't give..





this should make his mind..if even afer this he is skeptical..dump that mofo user =P
Tell him straight up you have to choose between me or her you can't have both.
';And if you read the first question..I've known him for a while now, he really is a great guy... %26gt;%26lt;';


-Yea, he sounds like a winner. Honestly, I think he used you for sex.


-He is obviuously bi or gay and in th closet. Also, when's he turn 18? If you are in the US, you should know when he is 18, he could be arrested for having sex with you. I know there are laws in some states against teens under 18 even having sex.


-If he isn't making the choice to break up with her, then don't try to force him, it will only get ugly and messy.