How do I break up my girlfriend for good without her hurting me or her in the process?

OK, so here's my scenario: I've been with my girlfriend for more than five years. I'm 23, and of course much changes between 18 and 23. She's developed a total emotional dependence on me which is wrecking my life; she's moody and nagging half the time, abrasive, taunting, and mean the other half. I just want it to be over.





So here's the wrinkle. I did some bad things--not illegal so much as unethical and hurtful (no, I didn't cheat) while we were together, which she knows about. I have dealt with the rough parts of my past and am now a happy, well employed professional. Yet every time I've tried to end it, she threatens to reveal these things to my boss, my parents, my friends, etc. Suffice to say, breaking up with her has the potential to be highly embarrassing to me.





Finally, and worst, she has on occasion threatened to harm herself if I leave her. Of course this is totally outside the lines of acceptable behavior, and I know that, but I've just got to get out. Now. Advice?How do I break up my girlfriend for good without her hurting me or her in the process?
I'm very sorry for both of you. i think you should try to help her. tell her nicely that you care about her and you think she needs to get help.even offer to take her to a counselor. she must have been a good person for you to spend so many years with her. not being in love with someone anymore doesn't mean you cant be a friend. if you help her bring up her self confidence she might become a different person.How do I break up my girlfriend for good without her hurting me or her in the process?
I think she needs phycological help.

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