Monday, August 9, 2010

How do i break up with my girlfriend?

OK, so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few months now, and she is really happy, im just not that happy with the relationship. My girlfriend is how do i break up with her, without having her get overly upset, I already know that she will get upset, i just want it to be as easy for her as it can be.How do i break up with my girlfriend?
i think you should just try to talk to her. get her at a time when shes not busy, sit her down and let her know how you feel. tell how much you do care about her, but that you wanna get out of the relationship. i hope this helps, nelly585How do i break up with my girlfriend?
The best way is always to just be direct. You should have a clear idea in your mind why you're breaking up with her. Sit her down, let her know that you care for her but it's just not working out ' relationship-wise' with her (for whatever reasons you have). Try and be as kind and tactful as possible. Try not to give a long list of her faults or things that irritate you about her - just that you don't feel that you're suited (for whatever your reasons are).





The worst thing is when people play games, and try to dodge them or treat them badly for weeks on end, so they'll take the hint. There may be tears and/or she might be pissed off, but it's always best to act with integrity. You'll feel better knowing that you were honest with her and even though she might feel bad initially, she will probably respect the fact that you were upfront with her.
Tell her gently, but firmly. Tell her exactly what you said at the end ';I just want is to be as easy for her as it can be.'; Say she's a really great girl, and anyone would be lucky to have her. You just don't feel the same way about her as she does about you. And you don't want to toy with her like that because she doesn't deserve it. If she cries, don't freak out. No relationship is easy to end. Just hug her, say your sorry, sorry, sorry, really truly sincerely sorry . And mean everything you say





hope that helps!


K
As the old songs say breaking up is hard to do. It is never easy: but you really need to tell her ASAP. The reason is, if you are fed up with her, you will start to get annoyed and impatient with her and hurt her even more. But when you do break up, tell her in person, breaking up via text or e mail is so tacky.
tell her all the stuff bad about you while you are doin it coz then it will make it sound like you sayin it like she is to gd for you then when she starts sayin that you are you can jus say ';no im not, im doin this for you'; ';you can do better'; etc. then GOOOO, best idea when you get out the house and round the corner RUN lol


bless
Just tell her that it isn't working out at the moment and that you don't want to drag things out when she could find someone that would be perfect for her and that you feel that at this moment that you aren't that person. That you care for her as a person and a friend more then anything else and that you do love her but only as a friend.
just straight up come out with it and be an adult if she thinks you guys are sole mates after a few months the she wack job to begin with. Dont beat around the bush she will appreciate it in th long run not sure bout right now. Anyway do what every real man should do and tell her straight up
o man, ok so be as nice as you can and just sit down and have a talk with her make her understand why you are doing this, break it to her slowly :(
Tell her that as far as girls go you like her a lot, but that you've realised that you prefer dating guys instead. That way she won't take it too personally
you can't break up with anyone without making them upset, but just dont do it over txt do it face to face
tell her you have aids.
tell her you really like her but


as a close friend you cant hit


that bf gf connection it always works for me..
Just tell her you need to move on because this isn't working out for you right now. Be kind to her.
tell her your ******* someone else. always work. you'd prob get slapped instead of her crying.
ur gonna break her heart..awwww poor her....u mutha ******

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