How should i break up with my girlfriend without hurting her?

we have gone out for a little over a year. she says she loves me and i thought i loved her. but now to me it seems more like obsession. and i don't think she knows the difference since im her first boyfriend. i want to break up with her but i don't want to hurt her.How should i break up with my girlfriend without hurting her?
It's impossible to break up with someone and NOT hurt them, come on.


You will have to hurt her feelings in order for you to be happy.


Explain to her what you have just said in your answer. She will probably cry but don't give her too much affection when she does because you will start to feel bad and you might want to change your mind.


Be upfront and truthful.


Eventually she will get over it and move on with her life.How should i break up with my girlfriend without hurting her?
i think you should sit down and talk with her first. and see what she thinks about it. ya never kno.. mabye shes thinking the same thing. but after you talk with her, yoou should giver her a chance to change. but if nothin diff happens then i guess end it. but it would hurt her more just to break up with her.. and her not e ven knowing why you brok up with her.


keep in mind that ppl cant read minds!
well, no matter how you do it...it's going to hurt her.


You're her first love. It's going to be hard.
you wont not be able to not hurt her.





but the sooner the better