How to break up with my wonderful girlfriend the Christian way?

My girlfriend is a wonderful person and a devout Christian, just like myself. Over the past couple of months, I have a yearning to be single again because of where I am at in my life. There are no other women, no lies being told, no devious acts. For her, this break-up will be completely out of the blue and I want to let her down gently. But, how?How to break up with my wonderful girlfriend the Christian way?
I'm not sure what her faith has to do with the method of breaking up with her.


If she was not a Christian would it make a difference?








You talk to her in an honest and open way like you would with any woman, regardless of her faith.


Don't attempt to mix religion with your guilt of breaking up with a woman, it will cloud your honesty and result in an awkward explanation.How to break up with my wonderful girlfriend the Christian way?
You are just going to have to be honest and tell her. There will be no letting her down gently....%26gt;





I dont understand the wanting to be single again part. I could understand you not wanting to date her anymore. But that is not the same thing.....%26gt;


What are you trying to gain by being single?....%26gt;


If you dont believe that she is the girl for you, just say so....%26gt;
Apologize profusely and then tell her that you simply aren't mature enough to be in a committed relationship, but you don't want to hold her back from getting into one with somebody else. Tell her she's a wonderful woman and you admire her greatly and you are sorry for the pain this is causing her.





That's about as gentle as you can get and it's still brutal.
Tell her you no longer have that intrinsic connection with God (Money) and that you're ';low in spirit';. When you take away a child's security blanket, it quickly attaches itself to another object with more security. Don't worry, because Christians are taught to act like infantile sheep, so just assume the role of sheep tamer and you'll be fine!
Explain that you are just wanting to break her her for purely selfish reasons. Maybe she'll appreciate your honesty. I hope she hooks up with your best friend.





EDIT--oh, btw, you're full of it. You might not have your eye on anybody yet, but you do want to go looking. And that's fine, just be honest about it.
Tell her the truth in love and kindness. Tell her you don't necessarily feel there is chemistry between you. Tell her you care about her and don't wish to hurt her, but you don't see the relationship continuing in a romantic nature.
No matter how you do it, she will be sad. No way around it but to tell her- look- I don't think my feelings for you are going towards marriage. It is best that I do not lead you on.





It is better you don't string her along. Tell her
Explain that you are now entering a selfish part of your life where it is all about you, and you don't care to be with her anymore, for no reason in particular. She won't understand.
Just tell her the truth. There is no letting her down easy. But it sounds like a totally self centered act on your part, so there is nothing Christian about what you are doing.
Ungrateful Christian!
Believe it or not, I'm going to suggest you listen to Christ. There's this amazing thing called honesty. Try it out sometime. It'll do wonders.
Douse her with gasoline and set her on fire -- it's what Jesus would do, just read ';Revelations'; if you don't believe me...
we're done ********* step off.
Crucify her, it's the Christian thing to do.