Would i need to break up with my Girlfriend?

O.K. this has got me not only hart broken but parinoid. My Girlfriend has subtly told me that she might have fooled around with her ex. I want a girl that has had the control to save her self in any wich way until she gets married. i just dont know what to do or how to feel. I am a strong christian and this is why i am so messed up inside.Would i need to break up with my Girlfriend?
If she did something with her ex while she was dating you then kick her to the curb. If this happened in the past (before you) there is nothing she can do to change it now and if you care about her you will look past it. Nobody is perfect, that's why we are human. You should clear it up though.Would i need to break up with my Girlfriend?
I'm telling you from personal experience that being in a relationship where you are paranoid and cannot trust your partner 100% puts a strain on the relationship. The best thing you can do for yourself is to tell her how she has let you down, and show her how disappointed you are. If you want, you can give her a second chance, but if I were you, I'd think she still has feelings for her ex and I would move on.





Its better if you leave now, or you'll get hurt more later.





But this is only an opinion from an outsider. You know your relationship better than me, so its definitely up to you and what you feel you should do.
at least she told you. and it might be impossible to find a virgin these days, but I was one until my husband and I got married. BUT we BOTH fooled around before with our ex...but no sex, and that was the same about us and we lost our virginity to each other and its so special. Even though I had fooled around with my ex, it still bothered me deeply that he had also... but i got past it cause its not important enough to lose someone so great over!





besides many girls may lie and have went further than that! at least you know you can TRUST her.
Maybe it's not the ability to CONTROL herself that's the problem. Maybe she just has different ideas about what is okay and what is not in a relationship at this point. And if you can live with that difference of opinion, then great. If you can't deal with that and really feel like you need someone who believes in abstinence just as strongly as you, then break up and find someone else who shares more values with you.
First of all if you are a strong christian you shouldn't be dating at all.





It is not her fault, what's in the past is done in the past.


She may have done many bad things in the past, but now she likes you and thats all that matters.
These are your views, not hers. If it bothers you that much that she doesn't share the same values as you do, then yes break it off now.


If you think shes worth saving, question your values. Is it really that important to ';save yourself';? if yes.. then it's over.
How old are you? Its not like you will be dating the same person for the rest of your life! Just stick to your standards, keep them high. At some times, you may be lonely or without a girlfriend, but it will pay back when you find the right girl! Good for you on waiting! :)
Tough. I understand how you feel. For your situation. Yes, you would need to because that will be in the back of your head fr eternity if you stay together. Best thing to do is let go. If you wanna girl who will have you as her first then thats what you need.
well, i dnt kno u if u added that word by urself, but if she said that she 'might' of fooled around with him? if she cant even tell u straight up that she did, then its not worth it. she didnt even own up 2 it
I think you should ask her straight up first before jumping to conclusions. Maybe it's all in your head? Simply ask, then go from there.
its really up to you in the end. If she cheated on you, which is sounds like she did, then is she really worth your time anyway?
Sounds like she is playing games with you. Try going out with someone from your church.
talk to her about how you feel and why this affects you so strongly. If you dont plan on marrying her whats the issue?