you break up with her you're an asshole
dont try to change that fact.
How do I break up with my girlfriend of 2+ years?
Well the way i see it she really wants to be with you. Just let her be and why do you want to break up with her?
You need to tell her that you are growing apart and you want to split on for awhile and see how things go. If it is meant to be yall will get back together. There is nothing wrong in wanting to make sure you are happy and this is what you want.
It doesn't matter you will look like an *** no matter what! She really loves you the way it sounds!
The truth is that there isn't an easy answer to this. She's going to be hurt however you do it. As a girl though, I would say what I find to be the best is a clean break, espeically if you live away from each other.
Tell her your feelings have changed and that it just isn't going to work in the long-run between you. Then the kindest thing you can do for her is to tell her not to call you for a while, and return the favor.
When you break up with someone in that situation, you need to give them a lot of space to move on. Give her at least two-three weeks after. She may try to see you, but don't cave it'll be easier for both of you.
Also, make sure this is absolutely what you want, because telling her after that you miss her or want to get back together after breaking her heart is just mean and toying with her emotions.
Good luck!
You need to be open with her. It doesn't matter what you say or do, in one way or another you will look like an *** in her eyes. Tell her that you are moving to a different stage in your life and you need to be by yourself to figure that out. But if you do have that much fun with her make sure that you let her know that it isn't because of anything she did just that you feel that you are drifting apart and that you don't think it is fair that you stay with her because you don't want to hurt her.
After awhile when she is done thinking that you are a d!ck- she may realize the same thing. Make sure you tell her the positives not only the negatives. That may help soften the blow.
If you are going to school that is a time that you should be able to really find out who you are and have a ton of fun. Having someone that is always nagging at you because of your friends or whatever will make your life miserable.
Well what's the real reason you want to break up with her beside the job/relocation ?
DO you want to meet new girls at college ?
If you tell her the truth in a respectful way you can't look like an asshole
You can't ';break up with her without looking like an asshole';. THat's the problem with being the one doing the dumping. There's no great way to do it. You just have to be sweet in your delivery of the news and firm in your decision. But she won't thank you for it.
i am breaking up with my b/f of two years and we had a very long talk the other night...we were engaged and i broke off the wedding a couple months ago, but i finally got everything out in the open...it made me feel a lot better and i know it hurt him...it was really hard to do, but i couldn't put it off anymore...you are just going to need to talk to her...tell her all of your feelings...maybe she doesn't even realise how she's being...
to her face, somewhere private, explain the reason for your decision, allow her to ask questions and tie up any loose ends, be gentle. she may get angry and mean things, but dont get suck in shes only saying tit out of anger. after the break up, dont try the stay best friends with her to ease your guilt because itll give her false hope, and shell be crushed when you dont want her. just be nice about it
by being honest to her. tell her how u feel %26amp; the reason why u think it's better to part ways. tell her in a calm way.
Just be honest. You aren't feeling the same way, and the connection you two had in the beginning is just fading. Especially around the time you're leaving for school, people change. It's a huge transition for you and you're both going to grow in different ways.
I just ended a relationship like this.
It's going to hurt her, and you're going to want to comfort her, but be sure to give her space if she needs it.
why don't you just tell her that you need some space in the relationship to think things through...
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be honest and tell her the dyam truth so she doesn't sit there waiting for you, when she could find someone else who will appreciate her more... asshole! lolz
I think the only thing u can do is tell her what u told us....how she is a great girl and u really enjoy her company but u think u guys r going in different directions and just explain how u feel....but do not do it over then phone or in a note or e-mail or anything like that....it needs to be face to face or she will think you r an *** hole.
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