Been dating my gf for a little over a year. I even thought she was the one. She lives with me too. I have come to realize that I cannot live with her quirks and issues for the rest of my life. How do I break up with my girlfriend nicely?
I'm assuming you've already spoken to her about her quirks and issues and them still not being resolved before coming to this decision. It might be that you need some time away from her to decide properly as she lives with you it might be difficult for you to do this. Don't do something you might regret, you live with her and one of you will have to leave the place you live. If you've been with her a little over a year perhaps it would be better to talk with her face to face. If my boyfriend was unhappy with my quirks and issues, he would rather talk them through with me and give me a little warning shot and a chance for me to stop them and if I still didn't, at least then I would be a little more understanding when he came to me a second time and told me he needed to end the relationship.
This has happened before with both of us, and we've both regretted it afterwards. We've been together 3 years now but it has torn holes in our relationship as we're both still hurting a little from it. Make sure you definatly want this because she might not give you a second chance, but if it's definatly what you want I think you should tell her face to face. She might be upset and angry at first and I do feel for her. It must be awful to be told by the person you've been with for a while that they can't stand you anymore.
Good luck anyway thoughHow do I break up with my girlfriend nicely?
Before you break up why don't you reason with her the the thinks you don't like about her how you feel about it. maybe she doesn't realize her mistake or she does not know that you don't like it. so give her one chance if there is no change then think about the break up. Since you been thought she is the one tell her first how much you love her and then tell her that how much her attitude bother's you. In any relationship there will be problems there should be an understanding between you guys.
TELL HER THAT WE CAN STILL BE FRIENDS BUT YOU NEED TO SOME TO FIND YOURSELF AND YOU'LL ALWAYS BE AROUND IF SHE NEEDS YOU
Do it like britney. By texting.
Man up and Kick her to the curb
in person and be honest
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